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Posted 10/13/12
Any one can answer, I just want to know how will I know if a girl likes me or not like will she drop hints or what? And what kinds of hints she would drop
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My opinion is that you don't fully know until you ask her, and even then her response may not be 100% true because she hasn't had time to ponder on the thought. SOO MANY things can be misinterpreted as 'hints'. I know from my own experience that I constantly misread certain things, so my response may be biased. In the end, stop questioning yourself whether she likes you are not and ask her whether she is into you or not.
But what the hay, some hints could be;
Blushing, Abuse (like flicking you a lot or something)/Teasing, Touching you a lot, Looking at you, Looking at your lips (means she wants to kiss), Laughs at even the lamest jokes you pull, really just all that cliche stuff.
You could always go old school, elementary style, and ask a friend of her to get the dirt
But sometimes girls don't like that.
Lol my post didnt' really answer anything, but I wanted to say it so whatevs gee~
Ahhh this made me reflect on all the misinterpretations
I'm gonna go eat Nutella now
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Here, I just copied and pasted ''some'' answers for you
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If she's more friendly to you than other people, that might be a hint, but it may not mean that she likes you.
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Some girls show it by being mean. It should be fairly obvious regardless of what kind of sign it is, anyways.
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Just as JuicyLemon said, there is no way to truly know unless you ask first or they confess to you first
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It depends on what kind of girl she is, some girls will just come out and say it and others will keep it inside. But most of the time you will know it by how she acts towards you, which would probably be diff from the way she is with everyone else and the way she looks at you (Googly eyes!) and smiles a lot at you, also if she does something for you that she wouldn't do for anyone else but you If this is happening to you, and you like the girl that you think is crushing on you, then u should be the one to speak up even if shes not. There's never a reason not to try just gotta believe in yourself!
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CarboKill wrote:

Some girls show it by being mean.


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starry wrote:


Toradora!


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She pays attention to your feelings more so than someone else would.
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Let's be real and assume we're OP, we're just trying not to be oblivious by knowing what kind of signs the girl could drop and at the same time not overcomplicate the matter if I'm just thinking too much. Confessing isn't really always the option.

Anyway, over-friendliness can be a good sign especially if she doesn't put the same effort to you as she does to others. Most girls try to keep it subtle so you're best bet is when you always "accidentally" see them every time. Most likely she's stalking where you hang out
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You should ask.

Sometimes there are signs, sometimes not at all.
Also some girl can just be 'kind' and it can be misunderstood for 'attention' in 'that way'.

Just don't stay too long trying to think about what she is thinkin, just find the appropriate moment and ask ^_^
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CarboKill wrote:

Some girls show it by being mean.

You call it first defense mechanism


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The effective and most misunderstood method the Stare!
If she stares at you with gentle eyes.
Your eyes always met hers.

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tom91 wrote:

Any one can answer, I just want to know how will I know if a girl likes me or not like will she drop hints or what? And what kinds of hints she would drop


No two girls are ever the exact same - there are a lot of factors that are involved with how a girl might react to you positively or negatively. Age, culture, environment (school, work, bar, etc.), personal temperament, etc. To answer your question I'll have to give you some generalizations that may or may not apply to where you're from. My personal experience is as an American man living in a Westernized first-world country.

Signs of Interest:

- A lot of women exhibit interest by staring at you, either returning your glances or observing you while you're distracted. Obviously most of us like to look at people we're attracted to, and learn more about them. Eye contact is pretty important, especially if there's a smile attached. It's an invitation for conversation. Remember, girls who have no interest in you will not have their gaze lingering on you at all, and if they think they're too good for you, don't expect them to even look you in the eyes. They'll just look away.

- A woman's body language can be indicative of her interest in you. If you're talking to a girl and she leans in, having a smaller personal space shared with you than with other people, is attentive, playfully touching your arms that means she feels secure around you and is comfortable being close to you. Sense of touch is particularly important. On the flip side there is body language that indicates a girl wants distance or a barrier between you and her, like looking away when you're talking as if she has better things to do, arms folded, wide distance kept between yourself and her, looking at her watch or playing on her phone, etc.

- Girls who like you are likely to feel a bit nervous or flustered when they're talking to you - they might be talking a bit fast, maybe stumbling on a word here or there or not taking enough breaths and running out of breath mid-sentence. They might be nervously twirling their hair, or sheepishly grin at you. It's a sign of vulnerability. We all want to impress the person we like, or hope that they think we're cool and worth listening to. It's a normal reaction.

- Since a lot of girls expect guys to make the move, most likely yes they will drop hints and hope that you pick up on them and approach her. She might talk to her friends about you, or your friends, and hope that maybe somehow the message gets passed on to you to make a move. She might try to find "legitimate" reasons to be around you using excuses like studying, hanging out, even small things like walking home together, etc. You have to make a fine distinction between girls who do this with you because they like you vs. girls who do this with you just because it's mutual benefit. Girls who like you might casually ask you if you're in a relationship, or subtly imply that they're single and looking for the right guy. Girls who like guys tend to be very playful and teasing towards them, and find it a bit of an excitement when the guy they like cutely pokes fun at them and teases them. It's all part of the foreplay.

- If a girl touches your penis, I assure you that she most definitely is interested in you. Unless she happens to be your primary care doctor, in which case I do not advise asking her for her number and a date.

Hope that helps you, those are just some general points. There could be whole courses dedicated to just this one subject - no need to be hit by a wall of text for 9,999 damage. :)




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