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Wrolin wrote:

Simple answer: Just ask her if she like you or not. Problem solved.


Damn straight giiirrrrrrrrrrrllllllllll.
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As several others have said, the easiest way to figure out is to ask her
or you could take the initiative! Tell her that you are interested and ask if she also are interested to get to know you better
In my circle of friends, and probably many others, we often make a big deal out of it if one of us is going out on a date (not in a mean way, friendly jokes and a lot of questions about the person etc.). I think things like that makes it more scary and harder to get the courage to ask
Well...to explain it in an another way: In reality you have one little puddle of water, while others can make it feel like a big lake!
haha, don't know if anything I have written now makes much sense it's late and I'm tired! Think it's best that I stop writing and take a nap
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When she offers you $ for sex
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if she acts differently with you than her friends then thats a sign. and if she puts off talking with her friends to talk with you instead. hope this helps oh and girls really like it if the guy asks them out in a romantic moment ^.^
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I think the real question is do you like her? If so then go after her and don't let any opportunity pass you by. Personally, I find men who know what they want to be attractive and nothing is more sexy than drive.

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tom91 wrote:

Any one can answer, I just want to know how will I know if a girl likes me or not like will she drop hints or what? And what kinds of hints she would drop


No two girls are ever the exact same - there are a lot of factors that are involved with how a girl might react to you positively or negatively. Age, culture, environment (school, work, bar, etc.), personal temperament, etc. To answer your question I'll have to give you some generalizations that may or may not apply to where you're from. My personal experience is as an American man living in a Westernized first-world country.

Signs of Interest:

- A lot of women exhibit interest by staring at you, either returning your glances or observing you while you're distracted. Obviously most of us like to look at people we're attracted to, and learn more about them. Eye contact is pretty important, especially if there's a smile attached. It's an invitation for conversation. Remember, girls who have no interest in you will not have their gaze lingering on you at all, and if they think they're too good for you, don't expect them to even look you in the eyes. They'll just look away.

- A woman's body language can be indicative of her interest in you. If you're talking to a girl and she leans in, having a smaller personal space shared with you than with other people, is attentive, playfully touching your arms that means she feels secure around you and is comfortable being close to you. Sense of touch is particularly important. On the flip side there is body language that indicates a girl wants distance or a barrier between you and her, like looking away when you're talking as if she has better things to do, arms folded, wide distance kept between yourself and her, looking at her watch or playing on her phone, etc.

- Girls who like you are likely to feel a bit nervous or flustered when they're talking to you - they might be talking a bit fast, maybe stumbling on a word here or there or not taking enough breaths and running out of breath mid-sentence. They might be nervously twirling their hair, or sheepishly grin at you. It's a sign of vulnerability. We all want to impress the person we like, or hope that they think we're cool and worth listening to. It's a normal reaction.

- Since a lot of girls expect guys to make the move, most likely yes they will drop hints and hope that you pick up on them and approach her. She might talk to her friends about you, or your friends, and hope that maybe somehow the message gets passed on to you to make a move. She might try to find "legitimate" reasons to be around you using excuses like studying, hanging out, even small things like walking home together, etc. You have to make a fine distinction between girls who do this with you because they like you vs. girls who do this with you just because it's mutual benefit. Girls who like you might casually ask you if you're in a relationship, or subtly imply that they're single and looking for the right guy. Girls who like guys tend to be very playful and teasing towards them, and find it a bit of an excitement when the guy they like cutely pokes fun at them and teases them. It's all part of the foreplay.

- If a girl touches your penis, I assure you that she most definitely is interested in you. Unless she happens to be your primary care doctor, in which case I do not advise asking her for her number and a date.

Hope that helps you, those are just some general points. There could be whole courses dedicated to just this one subject - no need to be hit by a wall of text for 9,999 damage. :)





:clap: +1 Very good stuff. The OP kind of reminds me of me, when I was naive and oblivious in high school. I remember reading this self help book, which was similar to you're post soon after graduating high school; I started to get the feel for the game and was able to get girls attracted to me..
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Some thoughts...

If you are still school aged, and decide to ask someone to go on a date because you think you like them and hope to be liked back, don't put that person on the spot. Don't take a pal along, or if you need the support, have the pal hang back far enough that they are not "in" the conversation. People do not like to feel ganged up on.

Do not ask someone when they have no escape. Cornering someone when they are alone, so you can ask your question, is tactically foolish. No one likes to feels trapped or ambushed.

Try to find a time and place where people are in the area, but will not be "in" the conversation. The target's friends can be in the area, just not in the immediate area. The last thing you want is to try to talk to someone you're interested in when they have friends and/or peers listening to every word. It will skew the outcome, and may completely derail it.

If you are having trouble breaking the ice with someone who interests you, you might benefit from practicing saying hello to people at bus stops, or work, or in lines. Ask strangers how their day is going or ask if they plans for any upcoming holiday or weekend. You can do this any where. Compliment stranges in a upbeat and undemanding way on their shoes, coat, bag, tie, whatever. Compliment haircuts, eyeglasses, or toenail polish. Just share kind and encouraging words. You will be ready to talk to anyone, if you do this for a while. People like to feel that they are worthy of interest. Most are waiting to share.

The best thing to start sharing is your smile and your genuine interest in getting to know the people who share your world. Don't be so concerned about if you are liked. Just work on being a likable person.

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usually they r being tsundere and beats u often.
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Whey they grab your ass.
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Posted 11/22/12

Wrolin wrote:

Simple answer: Just ask her if she like you or not. Problem solved.


Haha!! Great answer!! Girls will usually tell you flat out if you ask them. Then you will no for sure and won't have to waist time speculating about if they like you or not.

Also, I tend to be silly and make it basically obvious when I like a guy. Like making flirty faces at him, picking on him (in a joking fashion).
Those are my most prominent ways to let a guy know, or I will give him my number and say we should hang out sometime.
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Whey they grab your ass.



I don't think I have actually grabbed a guys ass who wasn't my boyfriend already, so that might be a good indicator. Haha
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-Vega- wrote:

Whey they grab your ass.



I don't think I have actually grabbed a guys ass who wasn't my boyfriend already, so that might be a good indicator. Haha


LOL! LOL! Of course it is!

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Winterfells wrote:


tom91 wrote:

Any one can answer, I just want to know how will I know if a girl likes me or not like will she drop hints or what? And what kinds of hints she would drop


No two girls are ever the exact same - there are a lot of factors that are involved with how a girl might react to you positively or negatively. Age, culture, environment (school, work, bar, etc.), personal temperament, etc. To answer your question I'll have to give you some generalizations that may or may not apply to where you're from. My personal experience is as an American man living in a Westernized first-world country.

Signs of Interest:

- A lot of women exhibit interest by staring at you, either returning your glances or observing you while you're distracted. Obviously most of us like to look at people we're attracted to, and learn more about them. Eye contact is pretty important, especially if there's a smile attached. It's an invitation for conversation. Remember, girls who have no interest in you will not have their gaze lingering on you at all, and if they think they're too good for you, don't expect them to even look you in the eyes. They'll just look away.

- A woman's body language can be indicative of her interest in you. If you're talking to a girl and she leans in, having a smaller personal space shared with you than with other people, is attentive, playfully touching your arms that means she feels secure around you and is comfortable being close to you. Sense of touch is particularly important. On the flip side there is body language that indicates a girl wants distance or a barrier between you and her, like looking away when you're talking as if she has better things to do, arms folded, wide distance kept between yourself and her, looking at her watch or playing on her phone, etc.

- Girls who like you are likely to feel a bit nervous or flustered when they're talking to you - they might be talking a bit fast, maybe stumbling on a word here or there or not taking enough breaths and running out of breath mid-sentence. They might be nervously twirling their hair, or sheepishly grin at you. It's a sign of vulnerability. We all want to impress the person we like, or hope that they think we're cool and worth listening to. It's a normal reaction.

- Since a lot of girls expect guys to make the move, most likely yes they will drop hints and hope that you pick up on them and approach her. She might talk to her friends about you, or your friends, and hope that maybe somehow the message gets passed on to you to make a move. She might try to find "legitimate" reasons to be around you using excuses like studying, hanging out, even small things like walking home together, etc. You have to make a fine distinction between girls who do this with you because they like you vs. girls who do this with you just because it's mutual benefit. Girls who like you might casually ask you if you're in a relationship, or subtly imply that they're single and looking for the right guy. Girls who like guys tend to be very playful and teasing towards them, and find it a bit of an excitement when the guy they like cutely pokes fun at them and teases them. It's all part of the foreplay.

- If a girl touches your penis, I assure you that she most definitely is interested in you. Unless she happens to be your primary care doctor, in which case I do not advise asking her for her number and a date.

Hope that helps you, those are just some general points. There could be whole courses dedicated to just this one subject - no need to be hit by a wall of text for 9,999 damage. :)





:clap: +1 Very good stuff. The OP kind of reminds me of me, when I was naive and oblivious in high school. I remember reading this self help book, which was similar to you're post soon after graduating high school; I started to get the feel for the game and was able to get girls attracted to me..




You actually got a self help book? And it worked? I give you mad props and kudos for being that motivated. Bravo sir.
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ColorMeAnime wrote:


-Vega- wrote:

Whey they grab your ass.



I don't think I have actually grabbed a guys ass who wasn't my boyfriend already, so that might be a good indicator. Haha


LOL! LOL! Of course it is!



Why did you even need to make this a topic then!!

Unless she didn't grab your butt, but if she did....
She's totally into you.
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