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^ Yes this is correct
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Ahhh, look at that! Jdaimond is pretending to be dumb!
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Im young and not very knowledgable but is she pregnant now. Thats how sex works right? you grab his butt and boom, baby on the way, correct?



Wow, you make it sound like storks move fast.

Anyway, my strategy is to assume that the girl doesn't like me. It almost never fails.
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Ahhh, look at that! Jdaimond is pretending to be dumb!


imma take that as a complement.


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If they hug/touch you alot. Any girl is grossed out when they are touched by someone they don't like so i am thinking if they go the complete opposite direction then they might like u! ;D
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If she blushes a lot when she looks at you, and comes up to you and talks to you a lot.
Also if she giggles when she's around you, and laughs at your jokes.
Even if they're not funny.
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Good luck! c;
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ColorMeAnime wrote:


DAN213 wrote:


Winterfells wrote:


tom91 wrote:

Any one can answer, I just want to know how will I know if a girl likes me or not like will she drop hints or what? And what kinds of hints she would drop


No two girls are ever the exact same - there are a lot of factors that are involved with how a girl might react to you positively or negatively. Age, culture, environment (school, work, bar, etc.), personal temperament, etc. To answer your question I'll have to give you some generalizations that may or may not apply to where you're from. My personal experience is as an American man living in a Westernized first-world country.

Signs of Interest:

- A lot of women exhibit interest by staring at you, either returning your glances or observing you while you're distracted. Obviously most of us like to look at people we're attracted to, and learn more about them. Eye contact is pretty important, especially if there's a smile attached. It's an invitation for conversation. Remember, girls who have no interest in you will not have their gaze lingering on you at all, and if they think they're too good for you, don't expect them to even look you in the eyes. They'll just look away.

- A woman's body language can be indicative of her interest in you. If you're talking to a girl and she leans in, having a smaller personal space shared with you than with other people, is attentive, playfully touching your arms that means she feels secure around you and is comfortable being close to you. Sense of touch is particularly important. On the flip side there is body language that indicates a girl wants distance or a barrier between you and her, like looking away when you're talking as if she has better things to do, arms folded, wide distance kept between yourself and her, looking at her watch or playing on her phone, etc.

- Girls who like you are likely to feel a bit nervous or flustered when they're talking to you - they might be talking a bit fast, maybe stumbling on a word here or there or not taking enough breaths and running out of breath mid-sentence. They might be nervously twirling their hair, or sheepishly grin at you. It's a sign of vulnerability. We all want to impress the person we like, or hope that they think we're cool and worth listening to. It's a normal reaction.

- Since a lot of girls expect guys to make the move, most likely yes they will drop hints and hope that you pick up on them and approach her. She might talk to her friends about you, or your friends, and hope that maybe somehow the message gets passed on to you to make a move. She might try to find "legitimate" reasons to be around you using excuses like studying, hanging out, even small things like walking home together, etc. You have to make a fine distinction between girls who do this with you because they like you vs. girls who do this with you just because it's mutual benefit. Girls who like you might casually ask you if you're in a relationship, or subtly imply that they're single and looking for the right guy. Girls who like guys tend to be very playful and teasing towards them, and find it a bit of an excitement when the guy they like cutely pokes fun at them and teases them. It's all part of the foreplay.

- If a girl touches your penis, I assure you that she most definitely is interested in you. Unless she happens to be your primary care doctor, in which case I do not advise asking her for her number and a date.

Hope that helps you, those are just some general points. There could be whole courses dedicated to just this one subject - no need to be hit by a wall of text for 9,999 damage. :)





:clap: +1 Very good stuff. The OP kind of reminds me of me, when I was naive and oblivious in high school. I remember reading this self help book, which was similar to you're post soon after graduating high school; I started to get the feel for the game and was able to get girls attracted to me..




You actually got a self help book? And it worked? I give you mad props and kudos for being that motivated. Bravo sir.


No not really, my friend downloaded the ebook and emailed it to me. lol My main problem was that I had no confidence in my self and held beautiful girls in high regard. Thank you!
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Ask. Anything else is guess work.
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The eye's never lie. When you make eye contact with her check to see if they dilate or not. If the black gets all big it means she's into you if they're normal your probably friend zoned and if they're tiny then she hates you.
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I'd say if she is still there by breakfast, she likes you.
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Shit, that girl liked me? Well fuck me.
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ColorMeAnime wrote:


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ColorMeAnime wrote:


-Vega- wrote:


ColorMeAnime wrote:


-Vega- wrote:


ColorMeAnime wrote:


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ColorMeAnime wrote:


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ColorMeAnime wrote:


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Whey they grab your ass.



I don't think I have actually grabbed a guys ass who wasn't my boyfriend already, so that might be a good indicator. Haha


LOL! LOL! Of course it is!



Why did you even need to make this a topic then!!

Unless she didn't grab your butt, but if she did....
She's totally into you.


I just made it up! I'm going crazy! LOL!



Hahahaha!!! Well if you want i will grab your butt, then you wouldn't be going crazy because it really happened!!


Oh, yeah!? That will be a good idea!



lol yep! thats it, turn around. This is goin down right now! ; D


Alright!



*grab' Vegas ass* that was naughty. Haha!


So, you like me then, right?



Heck yeah!! We should mate, I mean we should go on a date sometime. You know, go out, kick it. (Dodgeball)


I would so go for that! To bad we live too far away from each other.



Haha!! Well that won't stop me from flirting at least!!
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Bottom Line Up Front: You can never tell, not even the direct ask method is 100%.
Here are 3 different cases (actual experiences for me) to illustrate:

Case #1:
I asked a girl if she likes me. She said no. I was disappointed and walked off. Later that day, after school I get a text from her that says "Maybe". So I text her back asking her if she wants to go on a date and give it a try. She says yes. Date is successful, we continued dating for a few months. We broke up, or more accurately "drifted apart" when she moved to another country.

Case #2:
I asked a girl out on a date. She said yes. Date goes well, we end up making out pretty heavily, she's all over me and seems to really like me. We continue talking and texting for the next few days (we both work, so we couldn't really see each other during the weekday, our date was on the weekend). I am convinced we are now de facto dating. All of a sudden she stops replying to texts and returning calls. I figure she's busy and needs space. A week later, she sends a text that said (in summary) "I had fun on our date, but I'm really not that in to you."

Case #3:
Met a girl at a party hosted by a friend. We talk, flirt a little and exchange contact info. We become friends and hang out a few times, sometimes just the two of us and sometimes with other friends. The lease on my apartment expires and I wanted to move closer to work. She owns a house pretty close to my work and asks if I want to move in with her. I take that as a hint she likes me. After I move in, find out she is seeing someone... she had never mentioned having a boyfriend before and we had known each other for months before I moved in.

Conclusion: you will never know what goes on in the female mind, and therefore will never really know if girl likes you or not. There is no formula, there is no strategy, there is no victory. Even if all goes well, the grand prize in a relationship is marriage... and from watching my married friends, it isn't that appealing.

Good luck!



Case#1: Maybe the girl really did like you but said no because she knew she was moving to a different country and thought it would be easier that way.

Case#2: Girl is fickle and doesn't know what she wants. (My case half the time) Or she is just a huge tease.

Case#3: Girl is a dick who should have had the consideration to at least tell you she had a boyfriend before you freaking move in!!


I swear we aren't out to confuse guys on purpose, we just think way too much about things in our spare time and in turn over analyze things which lead to us not knowing if what we want is the right choice. And we are not all like Case#3.


Haha, thanks for the explanation, but that proves my point, as a girl, it makes sense to you. For me, would never figure it out, not in a million.

Btw, I don't think girl in Case #3 is a dick, she is a bit of a bitch, but she's cool. I just think I was so thoroughly friend zoned by her that I may as well have been a girl she asked to moved in.



Well she should have at least said she had a boyfriend. I let all my guy friends know up front if I do or not and if Im interested or not, that way there are no problems later down the road.
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Jdaimond wrote:


ColorMeAnime wrote:


-Vega- wrote:


ColorMeAnime wrote:


-Vega- wrote:


ColorMeAnime wrote:


-Vega- wrote:


ColorMeAnime wrote:


-Vega- wrote:


ColorMeAnime wrote:


-Vega- wrote:


ColorMeAnime wrote:


-Vega- wrote:

Whey they grab your ass.



I don't think I have actually grabbed a guys ass who wasn't my boyfriend already, so that might be a good indicator. Haha


LOL! LOL! Of course it is!



Why did you even need to make this a topic then!!

Unless she didn't grab your butt, but if she did....
She's totally into you.


I just made it up! I'm going crazy! LOL!



Hahahaha!!! Well if you want i will grab your butt, then you wouldn't be going crazy because it really happened!!


Oh, yeah!? That will be a good idea!



lol yep! thats it, turn around. This is goin down right now! ; D


Alright!



*grab' Vegas ass* that was naughty. Haha!


So, you like me then, right?



Heck yeah!! We should mate, I mean we should go on a date sometime. You know, go out, kick it. (Dodgeball)



Im young and not very knowledgable but is she pregnant now. Thats how sex works right? you grab his butt and boom, baby on the way, correct?




Well yeah. I mean everyone knows that. All you have to do is walk up to a guy and grab his butt. Done deal. Hahahaha!
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Jdaimond wrote:


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Ahhh, look at that! Jdaimond is pretending to be dumb!


imma take that as a complement.




But it's funny though. Haha!
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