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Posted 11/22/12

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tom91 wrote:

Any one can answer, I just want to know how will I know if a girl likes me or not like will she drop hints or what? And what kinds of hints she would drop


No two girls are ever the exact same - there are a lot of factors that are involved with how a girl might react to you positively or negatively. Age, culture, environment (school, work, bar, etc.), personal temperament, etc. To answer your question I'll have to give you some generalizations that may or may not apply to where you're from. My personal experience is as an American man living in a Westernized first-world country.

Signs of Interest:

- A lot of women exhibit interest by staring at you, either returning your glances or observing you while you're distracted. Obviously most of us like to look at people we're attracted to, and learn more about them. Eye contact is pretty important, especially if there's a smile attached. It's an invitation for conversation. Remember, girls who have no interest in you will not have their gaze lingering on you at all, and if they think they're too good for you, don't expect them to even look you in the eyes. They'll just look away.

- A woman's body language can be indicative of her interest in you. If you're talking to a girl and she leans in, having a smaller personal space shared with you than with other people, is attentive, playfully touching your arms that means she feels secure around you and is comfortable being close to you. Sense of touch is particularly important. On the flip side there is body language that indicates a girl wants distance or a barrier between you and her, like looking away when you're talking as if she has better things to do, arms folded, wide distance kept between yourself and her, looking at her watch or playing on her phone, etc.

- Girls who like you are likely to feel a bit nervous or flustered when they're talking to you - they might be talking a bit fast, maybe stumbling on a word here or there or not taking enough breaths and running out of breath mid-sentence. They might be nervously twirling their hair, or sheepishly grin at you. It's a sign of vulnerability. We all want to impress the person we like, or hope that they think we're cool and worth listening to. It's a normal reaction.

- Since a lot of girls expect guys to make the move, most likely yes they will drop hints and hope that you pick up on them and approach her. She might talk to her friends about you, or your friends, and hope that maybe somehow the message gets passed on to you to make a move. She might try to find "legitimate" reasons to be around you using excuses like studying, hanging out, even small things like walking home together, etc. You have to make a fine distinction between girls who do this with you because they like you vs. girls who do this with you just because it's mutual benefit. Girls who like you might casually ask you if you're in a relationship, or subtly imply that they're single and looking for the right guy. Girls who like guys tend to be very playful and teasing towards them, and find it a bit of an excitement when the guy they like cutely pokes fun at them and teases them. It's all part of the foreplay.

- If a girl touches your penis, I assure you that she most definitely is interested in you. Unless she happens to be your primary care doctor, in which case I do not advise asking her for her number and a date.

Hope that helps you, those are just some general points. There could be whole courses dedicated to just this one subject - no need to be hit by a wall of text for 9,999 damage. :)





:clap: +1 Very good stuff. The OP kind of reminds me of me, when I was naive and oblivious in high school. I remember reading this self help book, which was similar to you're post soon after graduating high school; I started to get the feel for the game and was able to get girls attracted to me..




You actually got a self help book? And it worked? I give you mad props and kudos for being that motivated. Bravo sir.


No not really, my friend downloaded the ebook and emailed it to me. lol My main problem was that I had no confidence in my self and held beautiful girls in high regard. Thank you!



Guys shouldn't worry so much around girls. We don't judge as much as you think. And confidence is a big thing I look for in a guy, but I also know a lot of guys who I am good friends with who don't have it. I usually try to give them a push in the right direction if I can. Everyone deserves a chance, that's usually my motto.
Posted 11/22/12
lol for me girls have been nothing but problem after problem lol, i respect them. But stay away though I had loads of near relationships I didnt carry any on. But I knew she liked me because of how special she treated me compared to other people, she was pretty close, she was very flirty, she would always help me, she would stare at me a lot lol. She would nugde me every time she tries to tease me lol. Thtats what i noticed lol.
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You ask her.
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If she wants to be around you, cook stuff for you, dress nicer than usual...


It's obvious signs... unless you are really thick.
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When she sits next to you looking up into your eyes.

Sometimes, they may voice their intentions indirectly. Bug you while not making the reason clear.

They're all different.
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Hangs on your every word, makes direct eye contact,seems to be where you are alot of the time,blushes when you pay attention to her, gets clumsy and tongue-tied when you're around.That's how slightly shy females act.A self confident one will openly flirt and tell you she likes you. You'll have to pry a confession out of a painfully shy one with a crowbar.
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Their eyes light up.

A lot of these answers say that the female will make direct eye contact or try to get closer, but for me, I have trouble making eye contact with a guy I like and I actually try to distance myself from them. Yes I am shy.

So it's different for every person.
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Some girls are like that but don't like you that much so it's never a good idea to get full of yourself. The more you underestimate your importance to them the more likely they are to notice you even more. Just don't think about nothing. Making her frustrated isn't so bad as long as she continues giving mixed signals.
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Assume they all want you; all the time. You can't help that you're this sexy; your just gods gift to the opposite gender.

Works for me. Sorry ladies i'm taken.
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When you look at her and she's looking at you and you see a sparkle in her eye. You just know there's something there. Picking up on your vibes, she grabs your hand, slightly part her lips, then farts.

This means she likes you, but only as a friend.



Hope this helps.
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Do you have a nice car and lots of money? You can make a pretty accurate guess based on that.


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Winterfells wrote:

If you're talking to a girl and she leans in, having a smaller personal space shared with you than with other people, is attentive, playfully touching your arms that means she feels secure around you and is comfortable being close to you.


Just because she's comfortable around a guy doesn't mean she has special feelings for him.
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How do I know if a girl likes me or not?


When you ask her to marry you, if she says "sure" or "eh, why not", then she likes you. If she says "GET AWAY OR I'M CALLING THE COPS" then probably not.
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tom91 wrote:

Any one can answer, I just want to know how will I know if a girl likes me or not like will she drop hints or what? And what kinds of hints she would drop


you need to make her like you first. waiting for a girl will get you nowhere
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We're all different, really. Guy or girl. But I do this thing where I think I'm invisible so I stare at my crush even when he's looking my direction. looool . So obvious but I'm trying to change this by not making it so obvious lol.
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