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23 / F / Sexual Chocolate
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Posted 10/18/12 , edited 10/18/12
I can't blame em for checking me out, i'd do me.

Honestly though i'm used to guys staring and making jagoff comments to each other, as long as it doesn't advance past that I ignore it.
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Posted 10/18/12
I very rarely notice unless they decided to rudely whistle at me like I'm some type of dog. I usually ignore guys who do that.
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Posted 10/18/12
"Would you hit it," so wonderful, isn't it? Nice way to stereotype men, because everyone knows that's all they think about
But that's society, what can we do.
As far as I'm concered, any man that thinks like this is not of my interest (though I shall say that I'm already happily married ). Intelligence is by far the most attractive feature, and no, I don't say this because I'm "ugly". I pride myself that I am among the few who put such value in intelligence. A shame most people don't.
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Posted 10/19/12

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Yeah, they look for a bit...but for the wrong reasons. I tend to scare them because of my freakish height and the fact that I stay in good shape.


lol height would not scare guys off and being in good shape probably causes more people to check you out.
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Posted 10/19/12

neumaus wrote:

"Would you hit it," so wonderful, isn't it? Nice way to stereotype men, because everyone knows that's all they think about
But that's society, what can we do.
As far as I'm concered, any man that thinks like this is not of my interest (though I shall say that I'm already happily married ). Intelligence is by far the most attractive feature, and no, I don't say this because I'm "ugly". I pride myself that I am among the few who put such value in intelligence. A shame most people don't.


How can you gender-type men like that? It's such an ignorant statement. I'm a healthy young male with a very prominent libido but I don't think about sex all the time. When I'm with my wife I do, but other than that, no. And what's wrong with a woman being sexual aggressive? It's been my experience that women actually enjoy sex more than men, if he knows what he's doing. It's just so taboo, women are afraid to admit it.
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Posted 10/19/12 , edited 10/19/12

DragonHaiku wrote:

How can you gender-type men like that? It's such an ignorant statement. I'm a healthy young male with a very prominent libido but I don't think about sex all the time. When I'm with my wife I do, but other than that, no. And what's wrong with a woman being sexual aggressive? It's been my experience that women actually enjoy sex more than men, if he knows what he's doing. It's just so taboo, women are afraid to admit it.


Uhm... you obviously missed the sarcasm by.... this much. I was pointing out the very stereotype you mentioned The OP made it seem like men think about sex all the time, and I was defending them, saying that they do not. I would appreciate it if you read more closely next time.

I also said nothing about women. At all. Seriously.
Posted 10/19/12
I'm usually ignored. I wish I looked nerdish then they'd make fun of me at least.
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Posted 10/19/12 , edited 10/19/12

penper101 wrote:


TimSpano wrote:


penper101 wrote:


IHav2Fart wrote:


penper101 wrote:

i dont really ever notice things like that because Im pretty oblivious but if i did notice such a thing i would probably smile and wave at them or even go over and talk to the guys.


Lol most guys would be surprised and thrown of by a girls approach like that go try it then tell me about it.


Why would it suprise them?



Because most guys say it, not thinking the girl would notice and take it further by walking over to them.

If a guy asks "would you hit it"... it's usually meant in a good way, unless they're being sarcastic. :p (That's not to say it's really polite to say that.... but whatevers)


i guess that makes sense but do guys really say things like "would you hit it"?



Haha I know right, I find extremely annoying when someone asks ''would you hit it?'' Even though I don't say it, I have a few friends that do..
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27 / M / Gotham City
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Posted 10/19/12
Guys publicly check out girls they're attracted to. Big deal.

Girls do the same. It's not really something in your control, so why fret over it?

Looking is fine - only when guys or girls start using sleazy comments and using catcalls is where I'd start drawing the line. No class.
Posted 10/19/12

IHav2Fart wrote:

So, do you ladies really notice when you walk pass a group of guys they most likely checked you out then ask would you hit it? Also how do you usually deal with it.


...and I'm Ron Burgundy signing off! Stay Classy San Diego!
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28 / F / Dubai, UAE
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Posted 10/19/12
well, it depends on the group of guys... but guys here in this country i would curse myself why i walked alone...lol
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28 / F / Lost
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Posted 10/19/12
I either give them the finger and insult them in English or walk quicker. Men here are pretty sleazy and vulgar.
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16 / F / shioshishio ♥
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Posted 10/19/12
I always catch guys trying to look under my skirts and dresses. They're total perverts.

I always yell out "HAAAI WHO'RE YOU STARING AT?? 8D". Then they just walk away on how stupid I am LOLOL
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Yeah, it's heard and ignored on purpose.
Due to the fact its not very flattering when ur 'called over' like some 'thing' to show off ur manliness to ur mates.
In my area, its the immature brats and they don't seem to get it when u ignore them. It's different when ur confident and charming, and its another when ur a cocky fool digging ur own grave.

They then start to follow where i figure im gunna have to stop and give them a two minute chat,
at this point they are too busy smiling thinking theyve got ur attention and where im just being shy...heeel NO.

They get it a second later and it becomes a bit of a wit contest, sarcastic remarks and making a fool outta the guy in front of his friends,
which pulls a few laughs, they realise i am not interested.

When i stop its rly for u to not stalk me home, and quit bothering me.

If you want to talk to a girl or approach her there are other ways,
when someone genuanly is curious to tlk to/interested in u, most of us have the intuition to know, we stop and either it goes somewhere or we let the guy off, with some Respect.
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Posted 10/19/12
The only time it's obvious to me is when they call out to me to get my attention. It doesn't happen often, but it has on occasion. I used to get embarrassed and just run in the other direction, but as I've gotten older I don't care as much. I tend to roll my eyes or ignore them.
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