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How to make conversation with girls
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I need help to start convos with girls at school cuz i just dont know what to talk about, like im not ugly but not the hottest guy out there and i need help!
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Well just say Hi and join in whatever they're talking about dude. Pick the right people and you'll be fine
The only secret is self confidence, just talk about what you like and maybe you'll find something in common with someone
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This shouldn't have been reported to the mods IMHO since the general help thread is garbage ....

Anyways, just talk about common ground and be a good listener but not so passive as to be a complete pussy.

If it's in person I would suggest faking 5-10% of the things you say to her while still being true to yourself.

Have confidence but don't be overly cocky and over-bearing. (unless you're really hot and the girl is idiotic)

If you have talked to her before and know her a bit, a direct approach may be the best way to go. "So you wanna talk this over some pancakes?" "Hey you wanna have coffee sometime?" ect ect.

I'd recommend someone who seems to be a ladies man but that would be out of line.
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16 / F / under yo' bed, chica
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Don't just start a random conversation with a random girl. They would probably be freaked out.
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30 / F / Lost
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Very simple.

Say "Hi."
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Don't be Johny Bravo. You could try and make friends with some girls first, get involved in regular conversations with them, and after a while your conversation skills should improve. Just remember, friends not sex-partners, take notes, that girls are people too, and you can ask for help even from girls to critique and dispense advice. Heavy emphasis on the "girls are people too part". You'll enjoy having friends who are girls, and it can also have the benefit of making yourself a more attractive bachelor and a much broader range of good friends. You might even find a girl you can truly love as a person.

Now, if you're asking about how you should ask a girl; there is always the direct approach. It never hurts to try.
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If you exude enough confidence, charm, and charisma you can literally talk about anything and the girl will feel comfortable and engaged.

A sense of humor really helps.
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SafoDayz wrote:

I need help to start convos with girls at school cuz i just dont know what to talk about, like im not ugly but not the hottest guy out there and i need help!


being hot makes it so much easier to talk!!! seriously wth?

Girls are not freaking aliens, tell them whatever you'd tell anyone, if you don't speak to anyone don't speak to girls.
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Dude......

Just look around you, stop thinking about the opposite sex most of the time. then be nice to others and do not "push away" any females. That is all you need to do.
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i just get nervous thats all and making conversation yeah....
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26 / M / Los Angeles, Ca
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Posted 10/19/12 , edited 10/19/12

Punk29 wrote:

Well just say Hi and join in whatever they're talking about dude. Pick the right people and you'll be fine
The only secret is self confidence, just talk about what you like and maybe you'll find something in common with someone :D


+1 :clap:
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29 / M / Albany, Ny
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What I've told some of my friends:

1) Shut up
2) Listen
3) Ask polite questions
4) Work in some personal knowledge / story
5) Repeat

You should be speaking more with your body and expressions than your mouth. If need, practice expressions especially smiles.

Also don't be a creep. Always let the other party escalate conversations.
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27 / M / Phatuum Thani, Th...
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SafoDayz wrote:

I need help to start convos with girls at school cuz i just dont know what to talk about, like im not ugly but not the hottest guy out there and i need help!


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24 / M / Australia
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Posted 10/19/12 , edited 10/19/12
What is with all these dumb questions, women aren't some alien species that are completely different to males. Instead of looking at a girl as a potential sexual partner, look at her like a potential friend and you won't have to think about how to talk to her...
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