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What would you want your man to do in this situation?
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Posted 10/20/12
So recently I was hanging out with my friend and his lady. Some random guy was hitting on her in front of my friend and my friend just told him off and he tried to get aggressive on us. My friend held back and didn't get aggressive only got verbal with the random guy. Deep down inside I felt that my friend should have punched the guy in the face, BUT from my past experience most girls seem to get mad when guys do that. So the issue I want to bring up is what would you ladies out there prefer your man to do in this situation?
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Posted 10/20/12
It depends on the girl, there is no general cases..
One of my close friend was going out with a girl, she left him because he was to protective/agressive when boys were hitting on her.
He went out with this other girl a while after, she left him because he wasn't being overprotective...
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I wouldn't dare hit a guy during that situation , I might want to but in the end you really shouldn't . Not very gentleman like in the end :/
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Posted 10/20/12 , edited 10/20/12
I've always preferred that "my man" does nothing, and lets me handle the being-hit-on situation. I am not helpless, and I don't like men who treat me like I am. I like even less men who think they are justified in interfering in "hitting on" situations out of possessiveness, rather than protectiveness.

But, if it goes so far that I'm clearly and unequivocally saying "go away, I don't want to talk with you or do anything else with you" or I myself am trying to move away, and random guy is getting more aggressive and not respecting that, then I do appreciate some "backup." I'd like it if the people I'm with, or even other people in the area, tell the guy making unwelcome advances "hey, she said no, so leave her alone." and maybe even get in between me and the guy. If there are bouncer-type staff around, they should start bouncing.

I do not want "my guy" or people I'm with getting physically aggressive with the offending guy, unless he's started getting physical in a way I can't evade/fight back against myself.
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Posted 10/20/12
A girl should be able to defend herself in that situation in my opinion. If she has a bf she should know that she shouldn't let the flirting go to far. I think I'd only get aggressive with a dude that was hitting on my girl if he's doing physical touchy stuff that he shouldn't with her. Being right next to your bf/gf should just make ppl not want to do that anyways. All I gotta say is you gotta have some kiwis to walk up and hit on a girl who's with their bf .
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21 / M / C.A. near L.A.
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Posted 10/20/12
u should in my opinion never get physical wit a dude if your with ur girlfriend. cuz u really u hav to think about wat would happen if u lost in the fight...... but im not against finding the dude after u take ur girlfriend home. lol
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Posted 10/20/12

ispy12 wrote:

It depends on the girl, there is no general cases..
One of my close friend was going out with a girl, she left him because he was to protective/agressive when boys were hitting on her.
He went out with this other girl a while after, she left him because he wasn't being overprotective...


Well that really sucks hard for him, and I mean that in a non-teasing-wow-that-really-sucks-bro kind of way
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Nothing much, I don't him to go physical cause it might draw more attention but if it gets out handed perhaps yes.
I Simply want him to hold my hand, give the pervert a tiger look and make an impression of "My possession so fuck off" then walk pass.
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Posted 10/20/12
I don't usually like it if a guy gets super protective, but if I'm out with my guy and it's obvious I'm taken, I wouldn't really like to be approached by a random overconfident dude. If a guy does approach me and is a total dick, then my guy is free to deal with however he chooses. At that point I think the random guy is just asking for it.
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For me in that situation verbal confrontation would be enough. Considering the fact that we are in public, it would be slightly embarrassing if he started busting heads. At the end of the day , if you do get in a fight I'll be there to clean your nose bleed either way.
Posted 10/20/12
I'd strangle him. Fed up of controlling me anger.
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Posted 10/20/12
Personally i'd want my non-existent man to sit down, shut up, and let me take the bitch down a couple dozen pegs. But that's just me, generally it's probably a good idea not to get physical because there's too much chance of something fluky happening and making a bad situation much worse.
Posted 10/21/12 , edited 10/21/12
if some man hit on my girlfriend i would punch him 20 times then slam his head off of the wall few times that is next 2 me then kick him in the face a good few times that mostly knocks out anyone if they dont stay down after that then i kick there ass some more i could careless anymore i hate it when ppl try 2 piss me off and any women i date knows i have anger and lots of it and they know iam the type that loves to fight instead of talking
iam sick in tired of this pathetic verbal confrontation crap its weak
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19 / F / Rainbow Land ♥
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Posted 10/21/12
Stop the fight and dance in front of the. And they will go Awkward...
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Posted 10/21/12
Tell him to F off if he wants to fight let him swing and if he misses or hits you make sure it's on camera and sue for everything he owns and you and your lady friend can go on a spending spree with all his money!

It's simple violence is the last thing everyone wants unless the gf is the one that starts provoking it I have seen this happen many of times
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