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Do you find shy Girls attractive?
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Posted 10/27/12
Shy girls have a cute attractiveness. I love my women anyway as long as they love me too!
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Sure I do. I don't really understand why they inspire so much hate in some people though. I also don't understand why some people equate being shy with being doll-like.
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I think most guys have a natural attractiveness to them because they have the " looking vulnerable" feeling to them. Do you all agree?
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I prefer a woman who is inverted but not exactly shy.

There's a distinct difference between a,,, Strong, independent, keeps-to-herself inverted woman compared to a... Weak, non-talkative, insecure, can't make eye contact girl.

I have absolutely 0 interest in the latter, if you don't have self confidence then you aren't attractive in my eyes regardless of how you look.
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My girl was really shy and quiet and that really made me start to notice her! While all the other girls were loud and annoying, she would talk but in a gentle awesome way! Im so happy we are finally together :D. Shy girls are definitely the best.
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Posted 10/27/12
not the best relationship in my opinion
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I do, they're the cutest girls, at least for me...
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Posted 10/27/12
Pretend cute = no.
Clueless cute = sometimes
Knowing how to use cute = yes
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Posted 10/27/12

CaityOCat wrote:

nah cuz they dont got enough character!
its hard to carry on conversations when their not interesting


Being shy doesn't really keep someone from being interesting. I am pretty shy and have trouble talking to strangers (in person anyway), but around people I know and are comfortable with I'm always making jokes.
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Posted 10/27/12
I'm attracted to shy girls. I can't stand loud women.
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As you can see, people have their assumed stereotypes and biases about shy girls, yet I can understand why people would find them annoying.

The reason people tend to not like shy people is because they can't understand them and when you can't understand something you become annoyed and angry. Instead of actually taking the time to get to know someone, you assume the worst of them. That's how people are unfortunately.

As for someone who would be considered shy in real life, I can relate. I've been called many of names from spoiled to stuck up. Of course, none of these things are true, yet well...people. I feel that I'm more introverted than anything. I'm not outgoing. I'm not the social butterfly, yet I do know how to have a good time.

Yet I've never had any luck with men. If anything, I tend to scare them away.
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You are 100% right. Before you judge people on the personality they show outwardly, get to known them on the inside
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Posted 10/27/12
I've always liked closet introverts. They're vocal in public but have low stamina when dealing with others so at the end of the day they just want a quiet conversation. It's nice being with another introvert that still wants to go out to a lot of places.
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Posted 10/27/12

LosingOrbit wrote:

As you can see, people have their assumed stereotypes and biases about shy girls, yet I can understand why people would find them annoying.

The reason people tend to not like shy people is because they can't understand them and when you can't understand something you become annoyed and angry. Instead of actually taking the time to get to know someone, you assume the worst of them. That's how people are unfortunately.

As for someone who would be considered shy in real life, I can relate. I've been called many of names from spoiled to stuck up. Of course, none of these things are true, yet well...people. I feel that I'm more introverted than anything. I'm not outgoing. I'm not the social butterfly, yet I do know how to have a good time.

Yet I've never had any luck with men. If anything, I tend to scare them away.


Just from reading your posts I can assume for the most part it's because you're clearly intelligent.

Most men are scared of women that are smarter than them, and like to take advantage of the stupid ones.

That or you're looking in the wrong places for a man! *Cough Cough* Come to Australia and i'll take you out for coffee!
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Shy girls are kind of cute, but since I'm shy as well I doubt I will ever find one. However I think the best quality in a girl is kindness.
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