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Are Japan's young adults really losing interest in sexual relationships?
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Posted 10/27/12

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Funny how the men are the only ones saying they'll go and "fix" the problem Of course, they want to take care of the easy part, not the pregnancy, birth, and then raising it.


Most of them were probably just joking.

And the ones who are serious, well it didn't seem like they were saying they wouldn't help take care of the pregnancy, birth, and raising process either.

I can understand why you would find it offensive though.


Traveling is expensive. Traveling there just to do that isn't worth it. I think they should make male brothels for women over there, unless those already exist.
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Yes. And its very sad. I really dont see how this problem is going to be solved. Sadly the only option I see would be to enforce a law where it is mandatory for a couple to have atleast two kids. However in today's world that's impossible.


There's an anime on that idea. It's called "Final Approach." The anime actually deals with this very subject, and the solution is "a law" which is enforced by "special agents". Very funny, this anime.


In china the law is "one kid only.. unless your rich then you can buy rights for your second child.. but one kid only for the rest of you!"
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Traveling is expensive. Traveling there just to do that isn't worth it. I think they should make male brothels for women over there, unless those already exist.


Japan seems like a really conservative society, I'm under the impression a lot of Japanese women would feel too embarrassed or ashamed to use a male brothel. Women in general seem less disposed than men to frequent brothels in the first place.

I suppose fertility clinics with artificial insemination would offer a more private way for the women to bear children if they were unable to find a boyfriend/husband or had little interest in sex. Most industrialized first world nations tend to have lower population growth rates and fewer children anyways.
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Shrapnel893 wrote:

Traveling is expensive. Traveling there just to do that isn't worth it. I think they should make male brothels for women over there, unless those already exist.


Japan seems like a really conservative society, I'm under the impression a lot of Japanese women would feel too embarrassed or ashamed to use a male brothel. Women in general seem less disposed than men to frequent brothels in the first place.

I suppose fertility clinics with artificial insemination would offer a more private way for the women to bear children if they were unable to find a boyfriend/husband or had little interest in sex. Most industrialized first world nations tend to have lower population growth rates and fewer children anyways.


There is a documentary i watched once about male host clubs in japan that japanese women go to and pay men to entertain, flirt and drink with them. Often the females would be fooled into thinking the males were actually interested hence continuing to waste their money, and even trying to pursue a realationship.. some of these guys even offer themselves as prostitutes. If the females have no shame in doing that why would it matter if they went to a proper brothel?
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My god, this is a disaster. The US needs to step in and drop some crates of porn in tokyo.
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There is a documentary i watched once about male host clubs in japan that japanese women go to and pay men to entertain, flirt and drink with them. Often the females would be fooled into thinking the males were actually interested hence continuing to waste their money, and even trying to pursue a realationship.. some of these guys even offer themselves as prostitutes. If the females have no shame in doing that why would it matter if they went to a proper brothel?


The difference is as you've stated.

Most of these women for some reason or another delude themselves into thinking that these guys aren't being paid to express romantic interest in them - they assume the guys are legitimately interested and that their case is different, they're not just "another patron." They actually are pursuing a serious relationship with these guys.

On the other hand, a brothel employs prostitutes and are mainly used for just sex. In this case, I think the women who were interested in the above services would not be interested in just hiring a man for sex.
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Winterfells wrote:


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There is a documentary i watched once about male host clubs in japan that japanese women go to and pay men to entertain, flirt and drink with them. Often the females would be fooled into thinking the males were actually interested hence continuing to waste their money, and even trying to pursue a realationship.. some of these guys even offer themselves as prostitutes. If the females have no shame in doing that why would it matter if they went to a proper brothel?


The difference is as you've stated.

Most of these women for some reason or another delude themselves into thinking that these guys aren't being paid to express romantic interest in them - they assume the guys are legitimately interested and that their case is different, they're not just "another patron." They actually are pursuing a serious relationship with these guys.

On the other hand, a brothel employs prostitutes and are mainly used for just sex. In this case, I think the women who were interested in the above services would not be interested in just hiring a man for sex.


this is true...call me old fashioned but i've always held the belief that sex was something beyond just the purpose of pleasure but for an emotional need as well. Obviously these women are lacking something if they would go to these host clubs in the first place, perhaps the same thing that would make a woman go to a brothel?
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it must be spreading cause im not interested either : /
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mau5undead wrote:
There is a documentary i watched once about male host clubs in japan that japanese women go to and pay men to entertain, flirt and drink with them. Often the females would be fooled into thinking the males were actually interested hence continuing to waste their money, and even trying to pursue a realationship.. some of these guys even offer themselves as prostitutes. If the females have no shame in doing that why would it matter if they went to a proper brothel?



Oran High School Host Club.... Another funny anime....

The flip side of that are the "Buy-me-drinky clubs." That's where guys go to buy drinks for female hosts. The goal for the women is to get the guy to buy them many, many drinks. Each drink is expensive (and non-alcoholic). They use their charms to keep the guy interested, and he just keeps buying them drinks, and keeps getting drunker, too.... until he's broke. Then it's "bye, I hope to see you again some day", and off they go. The guys go home broke and sad.... LOL
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mau5undead wrote:

this is true...call me old fashioned but i've always held the belief that sex was something beyond just the purpose of pleasure but for an emotional need as well. Obviously these women are lacking something if they would go to these host clubs in the first place, perhaps the same thing that would make a woman go to a brothel?


I think in general it's easier for guys compared to women, to just have sex for the sake of physical pleasure and just remove themselves from the emotional aspect of it. I think this is why higher numbers of men compared to women use services such as prostitution and brothels.

Not to say it's good or bad. I just think for guys it's easier for them to feel satisfied after engaging in just the physical act, whereas a woman who wants to be sexually satisfied in general can't just have the physical part of it, but the emotional connection as well.
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kajanan wrote:

Yes. And its very sad. I really dont see how this problem is going to be solved. Sadly the only option I see would be to enforce a law where it is mandatory for a couple to have atleast two kids. However in today's world that's impossible.


There's an anime on that idea. It's called "Final Approach." The anime actually deals with this very subject, and the solution is "a law" which is enforced by "special agents". Very funny, this anime.


Final Approach is actually where I got the idea from.
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Posted 10/27/12

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mau5undead wrote:
There is a documentary i watched once about male host clubs in japan that japanese women go to and pay men to entertain, flirt and drink with them. Often the females would be fooled into thinking the males were actually interested hence continuing to waste their money, and even trying to pursue a realationship.. some of these guys even offer themselves as prostitutes. If the females have no shame in doing that why would it matter if they went to a proper brothel?



Oran High School Host Club.... Another funny anime....


there's actually a documentary on it O.O but yes i have just come to realise ouran highschool host club does a very good job in making it seem not so bad.. i actually like that anime without realising what it actually was now. It's like when there's guns in cartoons its not as bad as if it were on a show of "cops", sorry if this seems like babble it's 6 a.m in the morning and i should be sleeping like 6 hours ago...
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I honestly had no idea there was such an issue, other than what I considered was a handful of youth turning to A.I. and prosthetic "relationships" instead of real partners.

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2012/01/30/japan-population-decline-youth-no-sex_n_1242014.html

After reading the artcile and watching the video, it seems to me that as a culture, they've overcomplicated the dating process a bit with daunting expectations, so it's no wonder nobody there wants to go through the aggravation of seeking a mate.

Is their population declining more rapidly due to this? Thoughts?



Once I read on a very popular website sorry I can find the article right now to show proof. it say that most Asian girls are very strict on what they look for in a guy. Now days Japanese girls can have such high pay jobs where men where dominant twenty years ago. In summary most girls with masters degrees don't what to get marry or date a guy with less schooling than them, or they are afraid to lose anything they have accomplish with marriage!!
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Posted 10/27/12

mau5undead wrote:


DeadlyOats wrote:


mau5undead wrote:
There is a documentary i watched once about male host clubs in japan that japanese women go to and pay men to entertain, flirt and drink with them. Often the females would be fooled into thinking the males were actually interested hence continuing to waste their money, and even trying to pursue a realationship.. some of these guys even offer themselves as prostitutes. If the females have no shame in doing that why would it matter if they went to a proper brothel?



Oran High School Host Club.... Another funny anime....


there's actually a documentary on it O.O but yes i have just come to realise ouran highschool host club does a very good job in making it seem not so bad.. i actually like that anime without realising what it actually was now. It's like when there's guns in cartoons its not as bad as if it were on a show of "cops", sorry if this seems like babble it's 6 a.m in the morning and i should be sleeping like 6 hours ago...


Yeah most animes have crazy ideas that lets you ignore the reality of it and think its alright, I do find all this A.I stuff weird though but brothel not so much, I have a friend that worked as a gigolo and his stories were one of the most craziest shit I ever heard about women.
Poor girl lol you should be really going to sleep
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Posted 10/27/12 , edited 10/27/12

crlshvi wrote:


WackyFiasco wrote:

I honestly had no idea there was such an issue, other than what I considered was a handful of youth turning to A.I. and prosthetic "relationships" instead of real partners.

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2012/01/30/japan-population-decline-youth-no-sex_n_1242014.html

After reading the artcile and watching the video, it seems to me that as a culture, they've overcomplicated the dating process a bit with daunting expectations, so it's no wonder nobody there wants to go through the aggravation of seeking a mate.

Is their population declining more rapidly due to this? Thoughts?



Once I read on a very popular website sorry I can find the article right now to show proof. it say that most Asian girls are very strict on what they look for in a guy. Now days Japanese girls can have such high pay jobs where men where dominant twenty years ago. In summary most girls with masters degrees don't what to get marry or date a guy with less schooling than them, or they are afraid to lose anything they have accomplish with marriage!!


That is sad tbh, I hate girls that are strict in what they are looking for, if that's true about most japanese women then I would understand japanese guys but who knows
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