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Secrets of Men
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Posted 11/15/12

CalifCat wrote:



2. They are jealous of their single friends.







Exact opposite. I wish I had someone I could lean on, however I'm just too damn lazy to find anybody. Meh I got shojo and Miku
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Posted 11/15/12
5. My Mom's an awesome woman so zero fucks.

4. I like being in a monogamous relationship.

3. Yes, at one point I didn't know what I was doing; however, I know what a real woman's orgasm is, so I must be doing something right.

2. I don't know any single guy who has as much sex as I do, soooooooo fuck that.

1. I watch porn on occasion and I got her into it and now she likes watching it together.

Not all guys are the same so don't think for one second that you can gender-type or generalize the male race. No, were not an on and off switch. We have just as many nobs and buttons as women do. Any guy who is too afraid to admit that is the real pussy. Good luck getting laid with that mindset.
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Posted 11/28/12
Not trying to offend. I just don't think you can understand someone based on their gendere alone. Yes guys are horny bastards and do stupid things because of it. ( Can't be helped ) but other than that, people differ from person to person. Agree?
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Posted 11/29/12
Seems that list was made based off of me.
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Posted 11/29/12

Baroku024 wrote:

Seems that list was made based off of me.


Wow, so it actually fit ONE man.

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1. Watch more porn than women know.
2. Can have sex without emotion.
3. We all wanna do the dirty stuff.
4. We get over things real quick.
5. We run on guy time.
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CalifCat wrote:

( a panel of MEN admitted to these secrets)!

5. Worried that you're turning into your mother.

4. Overwhelmed with the idea of being with one person forever.

3. They don't know what they are doing down there.

2. They are jealous of their single friends.

1. They watch more porn then we know.


5: I never met my mother.

4: It's not like you're just with one person. You have many people to interact with in life. It's just that now you have 1 person that will stick with you throughout life rather than fading. People come and go throughout your life and whether you like to admit it or not- the people you care about will disappear eventually. Friendships you thought would last. Relatives turn to dust etc. Hopefully this person stays with you a long time and you enjoy many memories together. I can't see having someone sticking by you as a bad thing. You just have to be realistic about the world to appreciate it. Life is very fragile and minds are very forgetful. To have someone live and remember you is important

3: When I first started having sex I didn't know what to do. After enjoying sex a few times I got really into it like I do most things and started doing research and experimentation. I started reading David Shade/Kama Sutra/massage therapy books and trying those techniques on my partner. Kegels/few hours in the gym really help with blood circulation as well. Like anything in life- sexual performance is a skill and if you practice enough and review performance you can become a God.

2: Jealousy is weakness and is not tolerable. It's better to wish happiness upon others.

1: I sell porn among many other goods. It's a very fake industry and once you know how videos are made and what most actors go through- it's no longer that interesting. Fake moans, fake passion etc. I prefer writing my own erotic stories. It's more interesting for me to create my own scenarios and then play them out later on.

Secrets...secrets...secrets. I wouldn't really call this a secret but I detest being grouped. Religion/national pride/racial pride. I prefer to create my own world and stand on my own accomplishments rather than cling to weak minded theories. A man should be honest. If you're unhappy with yourself and your accomplishments- you should admit failure and work on bettering yourself rather than clinging to the ideas of others to make yourself feel better.

Hope that helps
Posted 11/29/12

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Zeta-Nu wrote:

Secrets of Men

5. They don`t care.
4. Has the ability to fake relationship.
3. Spending their time on Gaming.
2. They always cheat.
1. Addicted to Alcohol.


5. Harsh generalization. It makes it sound like it's always the guy's fault if things don't work out. Guys can get heartbroken, too, and sometimes it's their partner who doesn't care. My ex-wife is a perfect example of this.

4. Again, harsh generalization. My ex-wife was a compulsive liar, would get off on creating drama where there wasn't any, and was in general quite manipulative, even to those she considered friends. I may have been blind to a lot of the crap she pulled until after it was all over, but I also try to see the best in others. I don't feel cynical now about other women because of her, nor automatically assume they'll try to screw me over as she did.

3. I'm a gamer and anime fan for life, despite being legally blind since birth. These are a huge part of my life (I'm also an as yet unpublished board game designer) but that doesn't prevent me from being able to carry on hours-long conversations, much less from being sociable. (Then again, if I'm not sociable, how will I make any initial sales? Rhetorical question, there.) I also used to be a semi-decent archer, despite the difficulty level being cranked to 11. I don't know what stereotypes you have in mind about male gamers, but speaking for myself, I'd love to have a woman I can not just enjoy anime and games with, but share in some of her hobbies, too.

2. Contrary to this, I've never cheated, but I've been cheated on. It sucks, and I don't want to be someone who does that to anyone I care about. It's dishonest and hurtful behavior, no matter who does it. And yes, my ex-wife cheated, more than once.

1. I haven't had a drop of alcohol since I left Germany 20 years ago. For the record, I lived there for almost eight years, and it was legal (or at least, not of terrible social concern) back then; if you could reach the bar, you could order a drink. I'm certainly capable of drinking now; I just choose not to. Personal preference.

So, you got one out of five right, in my case. But even then, nothing I've stated is even remotely a secret, and thus nothing I'd try to keep from anyone who'd want to get to know me. The secrets I keep are the ones told to me in confidence, and those will stay with me until I die.
you are blind? you sound like a too-good-to be true guy honestly.
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Posted 11/29/12
There is a telling that a man could have as many secrets as he wants. But he should never behave mysterious.. .. .. don't ask me...
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Posted 11/29/12

alvase wrote:


Spazticus wrote:


Zeta-Nu wrote:

Secrets of Men

5. They don`t care.
4. Has the ability to fake relationship.
3. Spending their time on Gaming.
2. They always cheat.
1. Addicted to Alcohol.


5. Harsh generalization. It makes it sound like it's always the guy's fault if things don't work out. Guys can get heartbroken, too, and sometimes it's their partner who doesn't care. My ex-wife is a perfect example of this.

4. Again, harsh generalization. My ex-wife was a compulsive liar, would get off on creating drama where there wasn't any, and was in general quite manipulative, even to those she considered friends. I may have been blind to a lot of the crap she pulled until after it was all over, but I also try to see the best in others. I don't feel cynical now about other women because of her, nor automatically assume they'll try to screw me over as she did.

3. I'm a gamer and anime fan for life, despite being legally blind since birth. These are a huge part of my life (I'm also an as yet unpublished board game designer) but that doesn't prevent me from being able to carry on hours-long conversations, much less from being sociable. (Then again, if I'm not sociable, how will I make any initial sales? Rhetorical question, there.) I also used to be a semi-decent archer, despite the difficulty level being cranked to 11. I don't know what stereotypes you have in mind about male gamers, but speaking for myself, I'd love to have a woman I can not just enjoy anime and games with, but share in some of her hobbies, too.

2. Contrary to this, I've never cheated, but I've been cheated on. It sucks, and I don't want to be someone who does that to anyone I care about. It's dishonest and hurtful behavior, no matter who does it. And yes, my ex-wife cheated, more than once.

1. I haven't had a drop of alcohol since I left Germany 20 years ago. For the record, I lived there for almost eight years, and it was legal (or at least, not of terrible social concern) back then; if you could reach the bar, you could order a drink. I'm certainly capable of drinking now; I just choose not to. Personal preference.

So, you got one out of five right, in my case. But even then, nothing I've stated is even remotely a secret, and thus nothing I'd try to keep from anyone who'd want to get to know me. The secrets I keep are the ones told to me in confidence, and those will stay with me until I die.
you are blind? you sound like a too-good-to be true guy honestly.


Good, yes... very good... but not too good to be true. Guys like him DO exist!!! Nobody is without their faults... I have mine, you have yours, and he has his... but what he said was the truth. If you don't want to take his word for it, you can take mine. ^_^
Posted 11/30/12


what is legal blindness? i'm legal blindless! haha XD
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Posted 11/30/12
Secrets of men?! OH wow D:

Where was I when the men of the world held a conference to share all these secrets?! >___<
I didn't even get a reminder for this event...
Posted 11/30/12


hahah alright at least not in my continent, it would be like the shiny pokemon in pokemon. have to complete my life and keep searching relentlessly to find any. Unless ash that is soooo lucky to found one so fast. Okay i'm nonsensical, yep i won't take his word because he is talking about a story and yours is wisdom. Without their faults, wouldn't it be nice to find one that has the minimal fault for you and compromises when needed. That would be my ideal

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Posted 11/30/12

alvase wrote:



what is legal blindness? i'm legal blindless! haha XD


The easiest way to understand it is that I'm mostly blind, but not fully blind, yet. I know it is highly likely that I will eventually lose what eyesight I have left.

To elaborate, I'm severely nearsighted, and have astigmatism as well. Even with glasses, I can't read street signs until I'm well into the intersection. My reaction time for dealing with anything moving at a distance is severely increased, to the point at which it could be dangerous. I've never been able to drive, and I wonder about the sanity of anyone who would suggest I should do so. Despite my severe nearsightedness, I can often manage in most types of games, since I sit fairly close to the TV or monitor. The one type I don't tend to do so well in are FPS games, due to the twitch factor involved, often combined with relatively tiny moving targets (at a distance, of course.)
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