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Posted 11/3/12

CaityOCat wrote:

oh i have a question, guys is it the testosterone levels or psychological reasons behind being very protective/jealous? n girls do u enjoy when men act protective/jealous or does it annoy u?


Its alot of both. Im very protective over women and I think women should be cool with that. Was running with my mom and a guy whistled out of his car right at her with me standing there. This guy was such a douche that his collar was sticking up. I ran that car down and grabbed hold of that collar and tripped, I hit my face on the ground but not before showing him i was serious. My mom got mad with me.
Posted 11/3/12

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CaityOCat wrote:

oh i have a question, guys is it the testosterone levels or psychological reasons behind being very protective/jealous? n girls do u enjoy when men act protective/jealous or does it annoy u?


I'd say it's the same for both genders and normally is a trust issue.

If I'm dating a girl I'll let her hang out with another guy even if I don't want her to just because I want her to be able to trust me and vice versa. At the same time if she breaks that trust we're done.


well as for me id like it if the guy tried to stop me, it shows they care n i think id be able to trust them more if i knew they were watching out for me
Posted 11/3/12

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CaityOCat wrote:

oh i have a question, guys is it the testosterone levels or psychological reasons behind being very protective/jealous? n girls do u enjoy when men act protective/jealous or does it annoy u?


Its alot of both. Im very protective over women and I think women should be cool with that. Was running with my mom and a guy whistled out of his car right at her with me standing there. This guy was such a douche that his collar was sticking up. I ran that car down and grabbed hold of that collar and tripped, I hit my face on the ground but not before showing him i was serious. My mom got mad with me.


lol! u deserve a cookie, i think its good when men r watching out for girls they care about especially family n woman should do the same to watch out for their men
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Awful topic. We don't understand the ladies anymore than you will understand us men.

Sorry.
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Like we can just gauge our testosterone levels lol. If only life had an HUD and a testosterone meter I could read when I was protecting a woman...

CaityOCat, is it the estrogen levels or psychological reasons behind why women seem to blame everything on testosterone?
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Posted 11/3/12

CaityOCat wrote:
well as for me id like it if the guy tried to stop me, it shows they care n i think id be able to trust them more if i knew they were watching out for me


Trust me, if it was a guy she didn't know well I wouldn't let her go alone.
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Posted 11/3/12

bret_and_butta wrote:

Awful topic. We don't understand the ladies anymore than you will understand us men.

Sorry.


Thanks, so I guess we shouldn't even try to understand one another? Why do you have to comment about it being an awful topic , why not just skip it and go to a topic that interests you?
Posted 11/3/12

StealthWar42 wrote:

Like we can just gauge our testosterone levels lol. If only life had an HUD and a testosterone meter I could read when I was protecting a woman...

CaityOCat, is it the estrogen levels or psychological reasons behind why women seem to blame everything on testosterone?


well its not the estrogen cuz us ladies can actually control that, yoga/palates or exercise can lower estrogen levels, men must lower their testosterone levels by fapping then
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Posted 11/3/12

CaityOCat wrote:


StealthWar42 wrote:

Like we can just gauge our testosterone levels lol. If only life had an HUD and a testosterone meter I could read when I was protecting a woman...

CaityOCat, is it the estrogen levels or psychological reasons behind why women seem to blame everything on testosterone?


well its not the estrogen cuz us ladies can actually control that, yoga/palates or exercise can lower estrogen levels, men must lower their testosterone levels by fapping then


Exercise (other than fapping...) controls testosterone. Diet. Stressors and stimuli. All kinds of things.
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( a panel of MEN admitted to these secrets)!

5. Worried that you're turning into your mother.

4. Overwhelmed with the idea of being with one person forever.

3. They don't know what they are doing down there.

2. They are jealous of their single friends.

1. They watch more porn then we know.

Before anyone caps on me, I like men, and am just trying to understand them. So please maybe add to the list, or comment on the list. I have a feeling this could get alittle rough.


Wow, where do you get this stuff? Probably some stupid girl's magazine. First of all, none of these things are secrets to anyone over the age of twelve. Second of all, none of these things apply unilaterally to men. However, if I were to revise this list to apply to women, they would read:

5. Worried that you want her to be your mother.
4. Bored with the idea of being with one person forever.
3. Think it's not their job to know what they're doing down there.
2. Are jealous of their friends who sleep around.
1. Lie and say they don't like watching porn.

Think about it a little bit - how are you going to know what you're doing "down there" unless you've watched a lot of porn (most of which is unreliable sex ed material btw) and slept around? Also, if men cheat and women get cheated on (a common misconception), then who are the men cheating with? Mostly women, of course (hush, yaoi fangirls). Women cheat just as much as men, but lie more about it. After a huge study analyzed the results of paternity tests in the US (used for entitlement benefits and child support/custody issues) over decades found that 25% of children were not the biological offspring of the men listed as their fathers on their birth certificates (this is true for the children of both married and unmarried parents).

If you want to understand men, get to know some real ones. To make up for your obnoxious preconceptions about who and what they are, bring a first-person shooting game and snacks (when you get old enough you can switch them out for porn and beer). Also, don't try to talk about your feelings because it is annoying and rude, kind of like talking about what you do in the bathroom. Keep private stuff private.
Posted 11/3/12

StealthWar42 wrote:


CaityOCat wrote:


StealthWar42 wrote:

Like we can just gauge our testosterone levels lol. If only life had an HUD and a testosterone meter I could read when I was protecting a woman...

CaityOCat, is it the estrogen levels or psychological reasons behind why women seem to blame everything on testosterone?


well its not the estrogen cuz us ladies can actually control that, yoga/palates or exercise can lower estrogen levels, men must lower their testosterone levels by fapping then


Exercise (other than fapping...) controls testosterone. Diet. Stressors and stimuli. All kinds of things.


pfft bitch please, other than fapping? men dnt do anything other than fapping
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If you want to understand men, get to know some real ones. To make up for your obnoxious preconceptions about who and what they are, bring a first-person shooting game and snacks (when you get old enough you can switch them out for porn and beer). Also, don't try to talk about your feelings because it is annoying and rude, kind of like talking about what you do in the bathroom. Keep private stuff private.


Jaw-droppingly awesome.
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Posted 11/3/12
They weren't my perceptions, and they weren't form a girl magazine, they were from a medically based TV program, as far as real men, I know plenty, and most aren't obnoxious either.
Talking about feelings is annoying and rude? You got a beating heart inside you there?
Slipping in a porn.
Posted 11/3/12


all of this is true except the part about talking of feelings is annoying and rude, i dont find it obnoxious at all, people talk about feelings because feelings make up a large part of human communication, feelings arnt private unless u urself want them to be
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Posted 11/3/12
And you forgot to blame testosterone again. Tsk tsk.
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