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Post Reply Do you believe there is a person out there dying to meet you?
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I'd hope not, they'd be pretty disappointed from my sarcastic and blunt nature, my failure to sympathize with anyone or anything (except for cats), and my distrust towards society. Don't forget how I think everyone's problems are just bullcrap and they need to get over themselves because it's all about me and my needs. :l ...And I wonder why people like me.
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I know exactly how you feel I used to think that maybe there was someone out there for everyone, but now I know that's not true...well in my opinion lol ^^". Honestly, I've started to believe that I've been destined to be alone for the rest of my life, and trust me, I don't like the thought of that idea one bit.

It would have to take a VERY SPECIAL person to even consider wanting to date me, let alone even look at me I'm 19 years old, never had a boyfriend, way to shy, no confidence or self-esteem, I'm too negative about everything, my personality in general just sucks, and worst of all......the reason why all of this has happened to me......is because I'm an overweight (260 lbs. to be exact), or I guess technically obese, girl who is uglier than dirt..........wow, this got too depressing lol ^^"

Anyways (lol), I really do know how you feel and I'm in the same position as you. It's just not fair, ya know? I know that I should have more confidence in myself, I know that I should not care what others think, and I know that beauty is in the eye of the beholder and I should think of myself as pretty, but it's like all this negativity has been embedded into my brain and just won't go away...like a horrible, horrible scar. I have tried for...lets see...5 years now to try and make myself happier and get that confidence up, but every single time I try, I just fail over and over. It's gotten to the point that I've given up and I'll just have to try and deal with the fact that I'll most likely end up alone and just stand by and watch as my pretty friends get into perfect relationships and get married.....

Anyways, keep your head up and don't give up!!!! I may not know you, but I want to see other people be happy even if I may not experience that same happiness because I don't want anyone else to end up feeling this sort of pain like I do. Don't worry...you'll find someone I can feel it!!!
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I hope not, but if there is then it better be a person I'm acquainted with or that'd would be really creepy.
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Sure I do, there is a therapist out there just dying to meet me.

In all seriousness though I do still believe there is a "someone for everyone", however I wouldn't personally advocate spending too much time worrying about it. If you feel a relationship is a high priority for you by all means please put the effort into the situation that you feel it deserves. In my case I'm just going to continue focusing on being the best version of myself that I can be. I figure I'll get to the effort part eventually when I feel ready, or something happens. Who really knows at this point.

For the sake of full disclosure I've never been in a romantic relationship, so I obviously have no real experience on the subject. It just so happened my poor choices took me a different path. I fully realize this post may be naive, and exceedingly hopeful. Feel free to chuckle and then disregard my opinion, at the very least someone may get a laugh.
There's just gotta be someone that can handle all this awesome...
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Tomohime-chan wrote:

I know exactly how you feel I used to think that maybe there was someone out there for everyone, but now I know that's not true...well in my opinion lol ^^". Honestly, I've started to believe that I've been destined to be alone for the rest of my life, and trust me, I don't like the thought of that idea one bit.

It would have to take a VERY SPECIAL person to even consider wanting to date me, let alone even look at me I'm 19 years old, never had a boyfriend, way to shy, no confidence or self-esteem, I'm too negative about everything, my personality in general just sucks, and worst of all......the reason why all of this has happened to me......is because I'm an overweight (260 lbs. to be exact), or I guess technically obese, girl who is uglier than dirt..........wow, this got too depressing lol ^^"

Anyways (lol), I really do know how you feel and I'm in the same position as you. It's just not fair, ya know? I know that I should have more confidence in myself, I know that I should not care what others think, and I know that beauty is in the eye of the beholder and I should think of myself as pretty, but it's like all this negativity has been embedded into my brain and just won't go away...like a horrible, horrible scar. I have tried for...lets see...5 years now to try and make myself happier and get that confidence up, but every single time I try, I just fail over and over. It's gotten to the point that I've given up and I'll just have to try and deal with the fact that I'll most likely end up alone and just stand by and watch as my pretty friends get into perfect relationships and get married.....

Anyways, keep your head up and don't give up!!!! I may not know you, but I want to see other people be happy even if I may not experience that same happiness because I don't want anyone else to end up feeling this sort of pain like I do. Don't worry...you'll find someone I can feel it!!!


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Posted 7/13/13
I think, right now, there might just be someone wishing I had said hello.
Posted 7/13/13
pfffftt QAQ A'int nobody wanna meet me~
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Posted 7/13/13
Of course, I mean.. Who wouldn't want to meet me? It IS me we're talking about.
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MMMhhhhh. . . I don't think so!
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