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Do you believe there is a person out there dying to meet you?
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Yeah me too. Dollar General is an awesome place for S&M. No cameras there typically though so sorry you'll be missing out.
Posted 11/4/12

lordseth23 wrote:

Do you think that everybody has a special someone that is completely compatible with them?

Or are some people just destined to be alone for their entire lives?

I'm beginning to think it is the latter, because I am simply too shy to meet anybody. I don't have a very high self-esteem, so I am definitely not date-worthy to the average girl. I think it would take a very special person indeed to ever consider hanging out with me, and my confidence in meeting that particular person is beginning to fade...


I feel the same way. I feel like I am one of those people who are destined to be alone living with 10 cats.

I'm also shy. And I don't think I'm that interesting.


Anyway, sometimes I get so lonely it becomes hard to sleep at night. But I want to wait for the right person... don't want to get involved with someone just because I'm lonely; it's unfair to the person and the relationship wouldn't last.
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Both cases exist. I'm part of the 2nd one, not because I'm not attractive to people (somehow, I've attracted men and women alike @_@), but because ever since I was a kind, like a calling, I felt I was fated to be alone.
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Posted 11/4/12
I wouldn't say there's someone DYING to see me, but I know there is somebody who just wants to see me
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There is always some one out there that will be happy to be with you...everyone is interesting in some way, but first you have to make the first step to becoming that girl or guy you want to be, unlike anime and romantic comedy's it is very unlikely that some one will come along and totally change you. You have to want to change on your own first by taking risk and never ever giving up. For example: If you want to lose weight-work out and diet, If you want more confidence- take chances by practicing talking to random people you dont know with just small conversations like the weather or what not...just to start off, If you want to get better at talking with women-Go up to some random girls and find something on them to compliment her on(speak as confident as you can) say your hair looks really nice...she will most likely say thank you then walk away. My point is that a lot of things for me socially was very hard, but as I became older it never got better until I took a chance and took it day by day one step at a time, this is the most important part...I allowed myself to be ok with the Idea of being rejected and after I realized that well no matter how nice or handsome or muscular you are you can get rejected by a woman. Its life and If I want to find the right woman for me...the one I will want to spend the rest of my life with NO amount of being rejected by other women would stop me from finding her. People who accomplish their goals if life be it career, love or state of mind....the only way they get there is by learning from rejection and failure's...they get back up no matter how hard it is even if you stay down for a little while-the main thing is getting back up. Of course this is easier said than done, but this is a sure way to find the one and find other things you may want in your life.
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Posted 11/4/12

CaityOCat wrote:


Evat wrote:


CaityOCat wrote:


lordseth23 wrote:


StealthWar42 wrote:

I often hope so, but seriously doubt it. Pessimistic man is pessimistic.


Same here, and based on what I have heard girls say about how you need to be optimistic about life and such, I doubt there is anybody out there who would like a pessimistic guy.


i like pessimistic ppl, i wanna go into the career of psychotherapy so ill be willing to pick anyones brain


And this is why I believe that pyschologists are usually among the most unpleasant people on the planet. :D


not psychologist, psychiatrist...n i dnt think helping ppl is unpleasant unless ur the type of person to not want anyones help, or unless u suck at ur trade n just do the job solely for business reasons


That certainly was a poor choice of words on my part

I just looked up the difference between pyschologists and psychiatrists and realized that I was thinking of something different than what you where talking about.

What I was trying to say was that many counseling pyschologists enter their trade for resons other than a honest desire to help people. Aside from those who treat the job solely as a business there are those who just want to satisfy their curiosity without giving a second thought about their patients, there are a few who like to "play god" and toy with people's fates, and there are far too many who believe that their way of life is the only proper way to live and berate their patients over trivial issues in what feels like an attempt to destroy their self-esteem.

I am very sorry for accusing you being someone trying to satisfy their curiosity without fully understanding what was being said.
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no no its fine, i get u bro, i also get that feeling from them n sometimes i think of batman arhkam asylum n crazy ppl wanting to run tests on them
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Yes there is, but the chance of you finding that someone is improbable.
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Posted 11/4/12
I have some really fucked up stalker that found me on some forum and figured out where I worked and came into my store and I had to hide in the back. So yeah her, she's dying to meet me.


As for soul mates, if they exist I already found mine.
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yeah i'm a really great person so i'm sure
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20 / M / Long Beach
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Well...... That would be awesome, now wouldn't it!

I have an instagram with all my art, so I guess it's not TOTALLY absurd...
Posted 11/4/12
Nope :3
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Posted 11/4/12

CaityOCat wrote:



no no its fine, i get u bro, i also get that feeling from them n sometimes i think of batman arhkam asylum n crazy ppl wanting to run tests on them


Haha, I'm glad you're not angry about it
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I already met someone who I was practically dying to be with (not really, that would be creepy) but he ended up with someone else and has been with her for many years now. So... yes? But there will always be someone else.
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42 / F / Tacoma, WA
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Beginning to fade? Ridiculous! You are only 21! You are 100 % unique and hey.... you like anime, thats cute! Try developing the best parts of you even if your little critical voice says "that's lame or you are not good enough." Become cool by embracing your inner dork! I'm sure you'll fall in love many times in your life. Loving yourself first is imperative, so get to work on you.
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