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I KNOW there's at least one person out there dying to meet me. Too bad she has a boyfriend and I'm not that stupid or disrespectful.


lordseth23 wrote:

Do you think that everybody has a special someone that is completely compatible with them?

Or are some people just destined to be alone for their entire lives?

I'm beginning to think it is the latter, because I am simply too shy to meet anybody. I don't have a very high self-esteem, so I am definitely not date-worthy to the average girl. I think it would take a very special person indeed to ever consider hanging out with me, and my confidence in meeting that particular person is beginning to fade...


There's no such thing as one person you must find or else you'll be alone. I believe any two people can get along if they put enough effort into the deal.

Dude, don't think like that. Honestly, I'm not confident either. In my group of guy friends, I'm probably the least talkative, most guarded, most introspective, most aloof, and most humble. It seems like every other guy out there is so proud of himself and so outgoing. You start looking at them because of that confidence and then you doubt yourself. Don't do that and don't overthink. Just get out there and talk.

I think you just need some kind of method to rid yourself of your inhibitions and break out a little. That's what the party scene helped me with. You meet some of the most colorful characters. When I'm sober, I'm quiet, self-loathing, and boring as hell (to myself). When it's time to hit the clubs and get hammered, I'm the guy who gets into crazy, borderline-unbelievable situations every time and people tell stories about it months later. People who haven't known me for long find it hard to believe. Everyone NEEDS those nights of hedonistic rage. Over time, you'll get more comfortable with yourself and respect yourself. And then you'll find it much easier to connect with others without being in a drunken (or something else) stupor. If you don't respect yourself, how can other people?
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i know how you feel from a female point of view. i'm starting to think that there's no one out there for me, but we shouldn't lose hope. there's probably somebody out there for us. we just have to wait ! :|
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I think the idea that there's multiple people in the world who are all equally the best in every aspect, in which you have no emotional favoritism towards, is a lot more farfetched. I do think the word 'soulmate' implies that you will end up with this person that, at their lowest point, is the best, is wrong. I also think combining the memories and history you have with someone can push any person to the top of your love hierarchy, though... so it's easy to go from simply loving someone a lot to them being the best you will ever find in this lifetime, since time is so finite. Hope that makes sense.
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Personally, I'm not sure. I would like to believe there is a "someone just for me." However, being a divorcee, and having a lifetime of rocky relationships has planted the seeds of doubt C'est la vie I guess.
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While I'm sure there are at least a few women out there with whom I'd be compatible, I don't think any of them are dying to meet me. If they meet me eventually, great. If they don't, I'm sure I'll be fine with that, too.
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(^__^) I do believe but not how it's stated in the topic.

I don't actually believe there is that one out there that is for you and if you don't find them,
you'll be alone.

I don't believe it if it's stated that way.

I do believe though that there will always be someone who accepts you as you are.
There will definitely be someone who comes along to help you see why
it never worked out before. It may take a bit, it may take a bit of hurt through a couple heartbreaks
but I still do believe eventually that person will find you, or you them. (^ ^)

So really, there can be many people out there waiting to meet you.
Whether to just be good friends or even more. ^_^
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xiluvJaejoongie wrote:

(^__^) I do believe but not how it's stated in the topic.

I don't actually believe there is that one out there that is for you and if you don't find them,
you'll be alone.

I don't believe it if it's stated that way.

I do believe though that there will always be someone who accepts you as you are.
There will definitely be someone who comes along to help you see why
it never worked out before. It may take a bit, it may take a bit of hurt through a couple heartbreaks
but I still do believe eventually that person will find you, or you them. (^ ^)

So really, there can be many people out there waiting to meet you.
Whether to just be good friends or even more. ^_^


Well said.
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yeah they're called the Cops.
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i dont really believe it for me i had to go out and find that person
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If there's someone i hope i can meet them soon it sort of reminds me of kingdom hearts how everyone is waiting on sora and such but then again i've waited a while so idk i believe its in the middle
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@ lordseth23- You're very like me! Actually, in a way, I'm seriously scared of love.

But I do believe that everyone has their special someone <-- awkward of me to say so...

But I feel destined to stay alone. I mean, I can live with that!
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Hard to say... but simply lost interest in sexuality xD
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I totaly believe that there is, without a doubt.
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You have to be pretty stupid to be anxious to meet me.
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Morbidhanson wrote:

I KNOW there's at least one person out there dying to meet me. Too bad she has a boyfriend and I'm not that stupid or disrespectful.


lordseth23 wrote:

Do you think that everybody has a special someone that is completely compatible with them?

Or are some people just destined to be alone for their entire lives?

I'm beginning to think it is the latter, because I am simply too shy to meet anybody. I don't have a very high self-esteem, so I am definitely not date-worthy to the average girl. I think it would take a very special person indeed to ever consider hanging out with me, and my confidence in meeting that particular person is beginning to fade...


There's no such thing as one person you must find or else you'll be alone. I believe any two people can get along if they put enough effort into the deal.

Dude, don't think like that. Honestly, I'm not confident either. In my group of guy friends, I'm probably the least talkative, most guarded, most introspective, most aloof, and most humble. It seems like every other guy out there is so proud of himself and so outgoing. You start looking at them because of that confidence and then you doubt yourself. Don't do that and don't overthink. Just get out there and talk.

I think you just need some kind of method to rid yourself of your inhibitions and break out a little. That's what the party scene helped me with. You meet some of the most colorful characters. When I'm sober, I'm quiet, self-loathing, and boring as hell (to myself). When it's time to hit the clubs and get hammered, I'm the guy who gets into crazy, borderline-unbelievable situations every time and people tell stories about it months later. People who haven't known me for long find it hard to believe. Everyone NEEDS those nights of hedonistic rage. Over time, you'll get more comfortable with yourself and respect yourself. And then you'll find it much easier to connect with others without being in a drunken (or something else) stupor. If you don't respect yourself, how can other people?


So you are saying I need to conform to society and party like an animal in order to meet anybody?
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