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Post Reply Do you believe there is a person out there dying to meet you?
Posted 4/27/13
Anyone out there dying to see me?
Most likely not....
But maybe I might see the person anywhere you will never know.
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Posted 4/27/13
I couldn't begin to count the number of women just dying to meet me. It just so happens I keep them all in discretely labeled coffee cans inside my fridge...
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Posted 4/27/13
well I think in general, it would be very difficult to say, I don't know what everyone is looking for in a person, although I know there are others out there like myself.
Posted 4/27/13
Well I think so. Just because I don't wanna face being alone forever!! D:
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Posted 4/27/13 , edited 4/27/13

lordseth23 wrote:
I don't have a very high self-esteem, so I am definitely not date-worthy to the average girl. I think it would take a very special person indeed to ever consider hanging out with me, and my confidence in meeting that particular person is beginning to fade...


I sincerely hope you've changed since you posted this because you're right. People want to be around happy people. Unless their depressed & self-destructive themselves.

OK.


Well, I don't think necessarily that there's ONE person that is completely compatible with you, I see choosing a life partner as a choice, and choosing who it is as another one.

Is someone waiting for me? Probably. Or not.

Am I dying to meet them? Fuck yeah, I fantasize about us every damn day.
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Posted 4/27/13
I believe that the actions and choices in our lives influence the way people see us. So in a way, yes there is some one who wants to meet us because we all have to make a choice that would normally influence the other eye.
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Posted 4/27/13 , edited 4/27/13
I hope so. When I do meet the significant other, it is going to be legen- wait for it...................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................
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Posted 4/27/13
I have never had a girlfriend so I know where you are coming from. However, despite what my mind says I know in my heart that there is someone out there for me and that there is someone for everyone. I like to use my 8th grade teacher as an example. He never had a girlfriend until he went to college. That girl he dated became his wife and they have been happily married for about 30 some years.
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Posted 4/27/13

Marsev wrote:


Hachikobubble wrote:

I sure hope so. I'm bat shit crazy. Nobody wants that fairly loud, irritating girl friend. And I'm into very uncommon tastes that most people I know (around my age, at least,) don't have. If there is someone who accepts me for who I am, and loves every minute of me. That surely must be the one for me.


Apart from the love you every minute, you sound awesome.


Thanks. Hopefully, somebody will be able to love at least every other minute.
Posted 4/28/13 , edited 4/28/13

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marcel20 wrote:

There is always some one out there that will be happy to be with you...everyone is interesting in some way, but first you have to make the first step to becoming that girl or guy you want to be, unlike anime and romantic comedy's it is very unlikely that some one will come along and totally change you. You have to want to change on your own first by taking risk and never ever giving up. For example: If you want to lose weight-work out and diet, If you want more confidence- take chances by practicing talking to random people you dont know with just small conversations like the weather or what not...just to start off, If you want to get better at talking with women-Go up to some random girls and find something on them to compliment her on(speak as confident as you can) say your hair looks really nice...she will most likely say thank you then walk away. My point is that a lot of things for me socially was very hard, but as I became older it never got better until I took a chance and took it day by day one step at a time, this is the most important part...I allowed myself to be ok with the Idea of being rejected and after I realized that well no matter how nice or handsome or muscular you are you can get rejected by a woman. Its life and If I want to find the right woman for me...the one I will want to spend the rest of my life with NO amount of being rejected by other women would stop me from finding her. People who accomplish their goals if life be it career, love or state of mind....the only way they get there is by learning from rejection and failure's...they get back up no matter how hard it is even if you stay down for a little while-the main thing is getting back up. Of course this is easier said than done, but this is a sure way to find the one and find other things you may want in your life.


I think the problem is, is that people who are rejected take it personally. It's not that there's anything wrong with the person who's rejected, it's just that that person isn't compatible with the other person's tastes. There are people out there where you're the perfect thing on the menu.....you just got to show the menu to a lot of people to find the one who wants a full serving of you.


This is very true the reactions I get from women are generally:

Automatic attraction - where she really likes what she see's amd Intents on getting a full serving.

Play hard to get - ugh...these are annoying at times, but if i play their little game I win :p

Play too hard to get - These women are the "If I wanted you...I can get you" type. I totally ignore these women and 90% of the time ignoring them make them want you, but I'm not into over manipulitive women so I never persue them.(these are usually the stuck up high class/rich girl type) pfft.

The Stereotyper - Who thinks " he's attractive, has a nice body and talks smooth"-He MUST be a player. One can fix this issue with time and proving to her otherwise, but who has the time for that. pfft

The genuinely NOT attracted to me - no prob with this type...just move on to the next one. Being rejected by this type will only better me for the future encounters...Its makes you less fearful being rejected in the first place and THAT is equal to becoming super saiyan.

yep I know I got off topic, but I wanted to give more info to those looking for someone out there.


Posted 4/28/13

marcel20 wrote:
THAT is equal to becoming super saiyan.



Wtf is Saiyan?
Posted 4/28/13

Marsev wrote:


marcel20 wrote:
THAT is equal to becoming super saiyan.



Wtf is Saiyan?


You need to watch Dragon Ball Z "post haste"!
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Posted 4/28/13
You have to be happy with yourself and your current circumstances before you can be in a healthy & happy relationship.
Work on yourself and your attitude, go out to meet new people by being active in your community and generally just have fun living. You'll be able to meet like minded people and everything else will fall in place. My two cents.
Posted 4/28/13
If anything no, the only person who's dying to see me is my mother cause due to school and work we've been apart for 5 years and I was her first child so yeah.
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