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How do u approach a girl/guy you like or think is cute?
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Posted 11/11/12

saksiss wrote:

Duct tape and chloroform.


Yes.
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RobCasillas wrote:


saksiss wrote:

Duct tape and chloroform.


Yes.


I found that difficult with the large quantity of tazers sold these days. All her friends jumped on me and started tazin on my butthole. Some people just dont understand love at first sight.

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Jdaimond wrote:


RobCasillas wrote:


saksiss wrote:

Duct tape and chloroform.


Yes.


I found that difficult with the large quantity of tazers sold these days. All her friends jumped on me and started tazin on my butthole. Some people just dont understand love at first sight.



I'm sorry that happened to you
Posted 11/11/12

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CaityOCat wrote:

i think of something i can ask alot of questions about, n try to be as funny as possible, bitches love funny


I figured youd give them a swift kick in the shin : )


thats plan B


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mystic17 wrote:

I do nothing. My frigid, platitude aura will draw him in and have him approach me. >:3


xD I can see this working
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To a stranger/acquaintance you see around, I'd casually walk up to the person and strike a conversation which then leads to "would you like to grab a coffee some time". Try to be confident, not cocky and have some wit.

If it's a friend and you want it to be more, I'd just be straightforward with that person - not at any random moment though, haha. Call them up, hang out some where just the two and slowly bring up dem emotions.
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Tankfantry wrote:

Have you never seen an anime?! You need at least 9 chicks to fall in love with you first to make her jealous.


this... this is the only response you need to read, and the only thing you ever need to know about getting the girl you want
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I don't. O_o
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Do you at least know the girl? o.o
I mean personally when a random guy comes up to me and asks me out I try to politely turn them down. ^^
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DO: Be upfront and honest with yourself and give a big gulp before charging in full speed to confess.
DON'T: Carry a leaf blower to force a panty shot on her.
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The key is to not overthink things. In my case, the more I think about how things could turn out, if she will like me, if I'll get turned down, etc., the more nervous I get. So the key is to not think too much about it and just approach her.

What works for me is to pretend thats I am not seeking anything but friendship from her, and that gives me more confidence to take the first step without worrying to much about the outcome. After that you can worry about the rest. After all, the first step is the hardest!
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"I like ya, and I want cha. Now we can do this the easy way or we can do this the hard way. The choice is yours."
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There are a number of ways you can approach this, but most of them involve shifting your focus a bit. There's really no unique benefit to a physically intimate relationship outside of special physical interactions. All of the other perks are the same as any other relationship: emotional intimacy, looking out for each other, spending happy and fun times together, and just companionship in general.

If you're in a highly competitive social environment, a physically attractive mate will signal that you are an Important Person; unless you need the status of an Important Person for some noble goal, securing an attractive mate for this purpose is pitiful, saddening and specious.

To what approach do you shift your focus?

I) Start noticing the difference between the natural default attractiveness of a person, male or female, and the little (or big) things they do to enhance their default attractiveness. If you're struck by something a person has done to enhance their default attractiveness in a tremendously positive direction, give them a compliment on it, e.g. "That haircut really suits you," for females and, "Whoa, that's a really cool haircut," for males. It doesn't matter too much whether they actually cut their hair; if "That hairstyle's amazing!" is too direct for you, overtly making a mistake in noticing whether they actually cut their hair will make the exchange more casual, should casual compliments not come easily.

Why do this? Because regardless of if someone's default attractiveness is 'cute' or 'not so cute', they can't readily change it. It's like saying, "Your eyes are blue," and "I desire you." Both make the person feel awkward, and both could easily go unsaid. Unless someone doesn't know their eyes are blue, then they might benefit from you telling them. In other words, if a person is insecure about their default appearance, then a compliment might do them some good.

Another benefit: it's good practice at opening up to people. You'll slowly increase your confidence in initiating intercourse.

II) Get to know people. Like other posters have stated, having the virtue of existing as someone with a default attractiveness level of 'cute' doesn't convey universal personality traits. If you've had minor interactions with the person, but have not yet had any actual substantive conversation or shared experience with them, more probable than not your perception of their actual personality will be clouded by what you want their personality to be. A person can have the default attractiveness level of the most alluring human who ever exists, and yet still be no more interesting than a paper towel: sure, its capacity for liquid absorption is remarkable, and surely some wonderful design process is behind the paper towel's manufacture, but what is there to know beyond that?

Learn the types of personalities you like, and find out whether you get along with the person - any person, not just the cute one(s). After you have a better idea of how well you and the person interact, you can decide to pursue friendship, maintain them as an acquaintance, or leave things be and see how the relationship develops on its own. If you opt for the friendship route, and think you'd like to add physical intimacy to the relationship, then start to send signals to that effect: twirling your hair (female), teasing (both sexes), cheekily complimenting and criticising at the same time (both sexes), light 'innocent' touching (e.g. "See you later! *gently pats back/arm*" - both sexes), etc.

But what if a person catches your eye not just because of their default level of attractiveness, but also because of efforts they've undergone to enhance it - or put more simply, 'style'. Well, then you're in luck! With all your practice from item I, it shouldn't be prohibitively difficult to issue a compliment on or genuinely intrigued inquiry into what caught your eye. You'll have genuinely initiated a conversation on a topic that might not often be broached around them, making you not just another insincere and pretentious superficiality trying to realise their ignoble ulterior motive. You'll simply be just another person, living as a human, making friends; a really cool human, at that.

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Posted 11/12/12

CaityOCat wrote:


oh u do this often? would u mind being one of my test subjects n let me pry in ur brain?


You're from southern North America, you're probably inbred.
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Posted 11/12/12 , edited 11/12/12
"Southern North America" includes the south of America (the country that calls itself the United States of America) Mexico and the Isthmus of Panama, mate. Just take out the "North" bit, making your comment, "You're from southern America..." and the message you wished to convey will be made clearer. Cheers!
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