I'm think I'm mostly rid of my social anxiety disorder.

people talk about petty things though. sometimes it takes more grace and restraint to stay out of conversations in my opinion.

I think if you exude a genuineness about yourself, people can feel that, and will enjoy being around you, and of course, if you make them laugh, they will gravitate towards you.
Also social grace involves being a good listener..if you are faking that, its noticeable.
Charm then by showing interest, but don't fake it if you aren't. : )

It's the way you carry yourself that can attract people.

I have no idea.

Far from me to judge it, attention whoring.

I don't really know. People just like me for some reason. I'm mainly quiet and stand there like a statue, until a person interacts with me.

Well I'm a shy guy that doesn't that many friends, but those I have are either of my school buddies that I met a long time ago in elementary school, because back then I wasn't shy and had ADD. And I got one friend, which was/is my best friends still, he isn't that shy of a person, but somehow we resemble each other in a way, but he was easier at making friends than me, then I just got some friends because of him, he got some people into our little group, and that's how I made friends, if it hadn't been for him, I would probably be one of those loners in a corner still today, I am like that in a way, but I do change when I get to know people..
Its just that when I try to socialize with new people that I don't know, I try to make my first impression as best as I can, and because of that I am somewhat afraid of even going up to the person talking to them. In all reality I cannot make friends without support from someone else, that's just how I am, sure on the internet I have some cyber-buddies But that's because its sorta easier to give out information to a stranger, that doesn't know you and probably will never meet you.

I wish I was a person that had some sort of people magnet attached to him, because then it would be easier for me, because of the whole "I cannot make friends unless they are the ones trying"

It's because you just naturally radiate inner luminosity and it just seeps out your pores, and you are the favorite color of about 25 or 30 pcnt. of the people in the world.

Actually, it seems to just come naturally to some people-but not most.I think you can work on and aquire social grace. I'ts finding that something that isdifferent and can be appealing to others and then cultivating it.The way you smile dress, carry yourself, and the amount of confidence you project.You have to be noticeable.From then on what you say and do determines everything-good manners,interesting conversation,etc.

I fade into people lives.
Then I fade out..

I dont try to attract attention, I am a solo-dolo kinda dude. But.. People just keep coming. And I just keep leaving.

I used to be in a lot of clubs so we keep in touch even if it's just a hello.

But besides that i'm quiet with nothing to contribute to conversations, yet people still hang around and talk to me.

I never seek friends, they just seem to gravitate towards me.

Nice grammar is a good start, for online socializing.

this is true.

Ha ha ha...