First  Prev  1  2  3  4  5  6  7  8  9  10  11  12  13  14  Next  Last
Post Reply Chinese pop star 24 declares love for 12 year old girl
67148 cr points
Send Message: Send PM GB Post
31 / M / Atlanta, GA
Offline
Posted 11/18/12
Creepy. She looks older in those pro pictures... but only like 14 or 15. Very weird. He was her vocal coach since she was 8? Not that 12 is a great age, but it makes you wonder at what point he wanted to dick her down...
19606 cr points
Send Message: Send PM GB Post
16 / M / Canada
Offline
Posted 11/18/12
My dad is older than by mom by 6 years. In asian cultures, guys like to marry younger girls cause in their mid 40s, guys tend to look younger and girls looks somewhere 3-5 years older than the guys.
16683 cr points
Send Message: Send PM GB Post
M / In the middle of...
Offline
Posted 11/18/12
The world just gotten a little bit stranger.
4961 cr points
Send Message: Send PM GB Post
F / Earth
Offline
Posted 11/18/12
Nothing new......

4961 cr points
Send Message: Send PM GB Post
F / Earth
Offline
Posted 11/18/12
My first reaction:



(The other two, not the one with the smile.)
13343 cr points
Send Message: Send PM GB Post
24 / M / UK
Offline
Posted 11/18/12
If she was around 16 and he was 24 that wouldn't be such a problem. Shes 12 and most likely doesn't even know what having a relationship really means. I don't think it's right, but people need to get over the pedo thing.
3230 cr points
Send Message: Send PM GB Post
32 / M
Offline
Posted 11/18/12

netdisorder wrote:


nightbreeds wrote:

PEDO... Lol http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KDtzJacH8Ek
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FOGiZY6VSQc

He must be jamming to these!!


How? He's waiting for her to become legal.




necoconeco101 wrote:

um... I think he's a pedophile!

I mean come on!! A 12 year old!?


You're implying sex. There's no sex.



Kageru77 wrote:

Even though in some cultures relationships like that are accepted and permitted by family traditions, its usually done so under the supervision and acceptance of tribal/family elders. But for 2 people with independent and aspiring careers they should both realise that being open about it probably isnt a good idea and could have negative impacts on their futures. Pedophile anyone? Thats just creepy and someone should smack a little sense into that guy.


Pedophile = Sexual attraction and desire to have sex with pre-Pubescent children. So your logic is flawed in 2 ways.

1: She is 12, that is in puberty.

2: He doesn't have sex with her and is waiting for adulthood.

Conclusion. He is not a Pedophile.


Learn to judge.



paedophilia, is a psychiatric disorder in persons 16 years of age or older typically characterized by a primary or exclusive sexual interest in prepubescent children




Every one of these responses should've ended the discussion right there.

It's only pedo if it involves sex. No sex here, no pedophilla. End of discussion.
25707 cr points
Send Message: Send PM GB Post
23 / M / Hawaii "OAHU"
Offline
Posted 11/18/12


Quoting this whole thing, because i'm guessing I fit into this Learning a lesson about how to judge people sigh...
1. I could care less about what he is doing and or who he is dating/waiting to date...
2. It's clearly a joke with the use of Pedo bear video. Pedo bear is a troll meme...
3. Sorry for not being able to get a laugh lol!
I thought these where funny songs XD lol. Good Day Sir!
3603 cr points
Send Message: Send PM GB Post
M / Las Vegas
Offline
Posted 11/18/12
You gotta be really fucked up to declare something like this, knowing what the implications are.
Posted 11/18/12


hahahahahahahhaahahahahahhaahhhaahhhahah





haahhahhaah





:: wipes tear ::


oooh that was a good one.
748 cr points
Send Message: Send PM GB Post
22 / M / Pensacola Florida
Offline
Posted 11/18/12
Posted 11/18/12 , edited 11/18/12

LosingOrbit wrote:


marcel20 wrote:

Lol her emotional state at 12 will differ from other people since we all mature at different times...for example I had lots of responsibility as a kid and was man of the house so I matured much faster than my younger brothers...had the maturity of a 18 year old at age 12 soo plzz read up on the young girls life before speaking on her emotional state.


Um, having a lot of responsibilities doesn't change the fact that you're still under aged, neither does it make you immune to the same naivety experienced from your other peers. When I was 12, I was placed into a lot of otherwise adult situations and thus, thought I knew everything. Yet emotionally I was not ready for what life threw at me. I still needed my mother and the help of adults around me. Though my mentality was different than most children my age, I was still a 12 year old girl, who did 12 year old things and had much to learn about the world around her.

So the point is, though a person's mentality may be higher than their chronological age, that does not mean that they'll act any more "mature" or "wiser" than their actual age.

As for this article, I doubt the 12-year-old girl truly knows what she's doing, nor what she wants. Most girls that age don't understand the complexity that comes with both sexual and romantic relationships. You must have the mentally to deal with it and at her current age, I doubt it. Yet the man on the other hand knows exactly what he's doing and that makes it even worst.


Your right, at 12 you will still do things like a kid, but being 13 or 30 if you haven't been in a relationship you will learn the same lessons..plus he isnt going the sexual route until she's 16. We all need our moms even as adults...most of it depends on how he conducts himself...if he is honest, and she still loves him when she's sixteen it will work well. Also the more ppl are outraged by this will make her love for him grow for years to come. The other reason I wanted to post was that most ppl have an international bias where if there genders were reversed most the guys on this post would say that the 12 year old boy was lucky and that they wished they were him and would not call HER a pedo . Oh and I should mention I don't even date women under 21, thats just in case anyone thinks I'm for this because I'm into 12 year old girls ...that will be a fat NO.
14425 cr points
Send Message: Send PM GB Post
23 / M / Ireland
Offline
Posted 11/18/12
Pedo :O

Pic related
v

9957 cr points
Send Message: Send PM GB Post
18 / F / Planet Mato
Offline
Posted 11/18/12
omg i heard of this a few months ago. what i'm more concerned is that she's TWELVE. she should mature before she find love ^^; i'm kinda of worried about her because the guy is so mature and might do something to her.
63161 cr points
Send Message: Send PM GB Post
25 / M / Bonne Lake, WA
Offline
Posted 11/18/12
Yeah, it's strange, but not pedo.

A pedophile is someone interested in young persons. Not interested in a very particular young person. That also assumes they are having sex, which by the context of the message sounds like he is waiting for her to be 16 before thinking about it, and probably intends to marry her at that point.

As they've known each other since he was 20 and she was 8, it's not that they are necessarily sexually attracted to each other first and foremost, but rather that they were best of friends and colleagues, and the mutual respect and admiration evolved into something else. Again, you can't stop such things from happening, and I wouldn't necessarily be open about this kind of thing if I were them, but I don't think that it is unhealthy.

If they were doing something explicitly illegal, as well, they wouldn't be open about it. I think there is little else but to accept that both of these individuals are mature and responsible.

In other words, people should really mind their own business in this matter, as well the two of them should stop being so public about it.
First  Prev  1  2  3  4  5  6  7  8  9  10  11  12  13  14  Next  Last
You must be logged in to post.