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Posted 11/19/12 , edited 11/19/12

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itt: anime fans defend pedophilia and statutory rape

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We Americans have this beautiful way of forcing our beliefs and values on other country's.
Such as, being legal and mature enough for dating someone older starts at age 18(I understand the age difference from 12 to 18)
What if it was 19 or 29 i know it sounds stupid, but thats how we sound to people from those countrys. What about the immature 18 year olds who has been sheltered and has the maturity of a 10
year old? Our American, or other country's who have a close age limit to ours can't look down
and say...since your not doing what we believe in...your wrong. At the end of the day...she will wait
until she's old enough and then we will see how right our American ideals really are. I see reply's
saying " MOST girls at that age, or she can't possible understand what she's getting into and excedra"
basically speaking in her place. We shall wait and see then we will know if it was real.
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as long as both sides r mutual why should we judge, not like its one sided love. hes not committing any crime or he be in jail. if they truly in love then they just got to wait.
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It sickens me how close-minded some people can be and think they can judge someone else's relationship when it's none of their business.


So how should open minded people act? What's wrong with voicing concerns or having opinions when although we do not know this particular people, this kind of issue can affect anyone. Honestly I can't judge them because I don't know them but being aware of the risks I can still feel concerned.
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If they had waited until she was at least 18 to be in a "relationship" it wouldn't be a big deal. 12 years difference isn't the biggest gap ever...

At the moment he looks more like her babysitter than her boyfriend
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As long as they aren't having sex I do not mind. He can go ahead and say that he loves a 12 year old but the moment he touches her sexually I shall get out thee ol' pitchfork and torch.

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Hard to say with these kind of relationships. Considering we live in a society where 50 year old men go out 18-20 year old women who are we to judge a 24 year old being with a 12 year old? Long as they respect the girl being a minor, until proper age... it's just another oddity in the world. -shrug-
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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XOeYax787K0

but lets be real. shes too young for you bro.
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Posted 11/19/12 , edited 11/19/12

nameherenow wrote:


GayAsianBoy wrote:

It sickens me how close-minded some people can be and think they can judge someone else's relationship when it's none of their business.


So how should open minded people act? What's wrong with voicing concerns or having opinions when although we do not know this particular people, this kind of issue can affect anyone. Honestly I can't judge them because I don't know them but being aware of the risks I can still feel concerned.


There's no difference between this relationship... and another relationship where a 12-year-old-girl dates a boy of the same age. The girl could potentially get pregnant and ruin her life as well.

At least with this girl's relationship, the guy is old enough to know not to sleep with her. I'd rather she date this 24 year old than some horny 14-year-old boy who doesn't know how to put a condom on.



In addition, her parents consented to this, and it's her parents and her business, not anybody else in the world.
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They say age is just a number, but the bigger the age difference the more strain on the relationship ><

Well hope it works out 4 them
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Posted 11/19/12
My great grandparents were seperated by 20 years. Different times and all.
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I find this weird.
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I didn't even have my period at that age.

Ugh. If he was 'paddy the binman' instead of a popstar I'm sure people would feel differently.
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http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Grover_Cleveland#Notes


Cause in the US, we don't become a your best friend from college's daughter's godfather, become her father figure when her father passes away, then marries her when she turns 21.

That's just crazy.


lol, had to read up on that, especially since he was a president. The way things were worded for his wife on wiki was hilarious.

wiki excerpt:
"A longtime close friend of Oscar Folsom, Grover Cleveland, at age 27, met his future wife shortly after she was born. He took an avuncular interest in the child, buying her a baby carriage and otherwise doting on her as she grew up. When her father, Oscar Folsom, died in a carriage accident on July 23, 1875, without having written a will, the court appointed Cleveland administrator of his estate. This brought Cleveland into still more contact with Frances, then age 11."
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Posted 11/20/12

GayAsianBoy wrote:


nameherenow wrote:


GayAsianBoy wrote:

It sickens me how close-minded some people can be and think they can judge someone else's relationship when it's none of their business.


So how should open minded people act? What's wrong with voicing concerns or having opinions when although we do not know this particular people, this kind of issue can affect anyone. Honestly I can't judge them because I don't know them but being aware of the risks I can still feel concerned.


There's no difference between this relationship... and another relationship where a 12-year-old-girl dates a boy of the same age. The girl could potentially get pregnant and ruin her life as well.

At least with this girl's relationship, the guy is old enough to know not to sleep with her. I'd rather she date this 24 year old than some horny 14-year-old boy who doesn't know how to put a condom on.



In addition, her parents consented to this, and it's her parents and her business, not anybody else in the world.


If you can't see the difference between an 24 year old having an relationship with an 12 year old, and an 14 year old having one with an 12 year old, you're way past reasonable discussion. It's an matter of the difference in their psychological and physical maturity. I don't have the same type of relationships now as an 22 year old as I did when I was 12-15 years old. Sex is an intregal part of any healthy relationship at the age of 24, but it's not at the age of 12.

I suppose we should just get rid of the term 'Pedophile' - After all, an adult knows how to put on a condom much better than an teenager.

Your entire defence of this relationship is based on the assumption that this guy is mature and won't sleep with her, are you personally aquainted with these two individuals? If not, you're already judging someone elses relationship. <- Yes, that works in more than one way.

Personally in cases like this I'd rather be judgemental in case I'm right, than "open-minded" in case I'm wrong. The potential damage to this girls life is to big to just naively look away.
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This isn't a relationship, this is babysitting!!! Try someone a WHOLE lot closer to your own age, you pervo.
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