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what do you consider as flirting?
Posted 11/23/12

_IceAndCream_ wrote:

Saying awkward, off-the-wall comments, or random compliments.


emperoreyeofthesky wrote:

List everything that u consider as flirting :P

me is kissing certain regions,
sucking,
licking,
breathing in ear,
biting softly lol (can be considered sucking but depends if u use teeth in it or not so made this seperate haha)

Really? That sounds like you've moved past the flirting stage...




haha maybe i should alter it a bit but i meant licking cheeks or sucking on ear etc haha, nothing sexual - despite the way it is written etc, i am a virgin
Posted 11/23/12

MikiSayaka wrote:

Flirting for you is kissing sucking or biting? Wow, you're very...forward.

Flirting for me is uhh....Idk
Smiling a lot
Blushing,
Unsure what to say
Make a horrible compliment at an awkward time.
Etc :P


PS for "breathing in ear" you make me think about the dude from "Hey Arnorld"


haha sorry for being forward but i am shy unless i like the girl romantically, if i like her, i will openly show it haha, i am not ashamed too, also i smile all the time, i can blush easily, i am unsure most of the time as i get bored so am i a flirt by your standards , prob the king of it haha, that is why i use my standards which is more stimulating but yet not sexual haha
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Posted 11/23/12
Eye and physical contact, smiling, compliments, clothes and Role Playing.
Posted 11/23/12
i feel like you're describing sex but truthfully i'm horrible at flirting i'm just really good at being friendly someone has to say they like more or like kiss me to let me know they like me i'm retarded in the flirting department
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Kissing a person while he's sleeping.
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Posted 11/23/12
Talking to me, no one talks to me unless they are up to something.
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Posted 11/23/12
Talk like a sir? No clue actually. But I always get ticked off when I talked naturally to a girl, my friend comes up and starts making rumors about me flirting with a girl.
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Posted 11/23/12
when they keep touching you and laughing.
making fun.
compliments.
whatever really.
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sexy innuendos
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Posted 11/23/12
If you are attempting to attract that person, whether you wish to mate or have sexual intention behind your behavior is considered flirting.
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Posted 11/24/12
HaHa lol, hilarious
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Posted 11/24/12 , edited 11/24/12
To the guy who described kissing, licking, and so forth: That goes past flirting and straight into sexual harassment if they don't respond well to it.

Remember, the point of flirting is to be playful.

You can use physical contact, but it has to be more innocent. And frankly, you don't want to be too liberal with it. If most of your flirting involves touch, you will give the impression that all you're after is sex. Tickling is a pretty common one, giving hugs, offering a massage, stuff like that.

A lot of people find teasing to be a form of flirting. Which can work well, as long as you're not overly offensive about it.

Giving compliments that actually mean something. Instead of saying something plain like "you're pretty today", be specific. Say that you really like the way they did their hair that day. Or if you notice they have a new outfit on, say something nice about it. For example, "I love that new shirt/dress! It really matches your eyes." Better yet, give them a compliment on something about their personality. But again, being specific with compliments is key.

Talking to them in general is a good idea. Ask them about themselves. You want to seem interested in them, because that will give them the hint. Hopefully you actually ARE interested in what they have to say, of course. Include some information about yourself too if need be, but keep it to a minimum. If they want to hear about you, they'll ask. More often than not.

Eye contact is a biggie, but not too much. And body language.

And as a final tip...try not to come on too strong. Which includes (but is not limited to) teasing too much, touching too much, talking to them constantly, or giving too many compliments. And obviously you don't want to be staring them down either. But if they catch you looking and smiling at them every once in a while, that can do wonders.
Posted 11/24/12

Xeonai wrote:

To the guy who described kissing, licking, and so forth: That goes past flirting and straight into sexual harassment if they don't respond well to it.

Remember, the point of flirting is to be playful.

You can use physical contact, but it has to be more innocent. And frankly, you don't want to be too liberal with it. If most of your flirting involves touch, you will give the impression that all you're after is sex. Tickling is a pretty common one, giving hugs, offering a massage, stuff like that.

A lot of people find teasing to be a form of flirting. Which can work well, as long as you're not overly offensive about it.

Giving compliments that actually mean something. Instead of saying something plain like "you're pretty today", be specific. Say that you really like the way they did their hair that day. Or if you notice they have a new outfit on, say something nice about it. For example, "I love that new shirt/dress! It really matches your eyes." Better yet, give them a compliment on something about their personality. But again, being specific with compliments is key.

Talking to them in general is a good idea. Ask them about themselves. You want to seem interested in them, because that will give them the hint. Hopefully you actually ARE interested in what they have to say, of course. Include some information about yourself too if need be, but keep it to a minimum. If they want to hear about you, they'll ask. More often than not.

Eye contact is a biggie, but not too much. And body language.

And as a final tip...try not to come on too strong. Which includes (but is not limited to) teasing too much, touching too much, talking to them constantly, or giving too many compliments. And obviously you don't want to be staring them down either. But if they catch you looking and smiling at them every once in a while, that can do wonders.


lmao you don't do it to those who don;t respond to you , plus i consider these ways to tease women more than flirting and they are fine with it lol, it really depends how u do it and who too and if they know u well enough and your relationship to them , it more of a way to be like a casanova but i didn't add all, but yup talking, compliments, confidence, asking about them, teasing (this works wonders) is good. it all depends on the chemistry between you too, you got to caluclate it carefully lol, everything in this world is down to calculations, long as u do it right, is yours
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Posted 11/24/12 , edited 11/24/12

emperoreyeofthesky wrote:
lmao you don't do it to those who don;t respond to you , plus i consider these ways to tease women more than flirting and they are fine with it lol, it really depends how u do it and who too and if they know u well enough and your relationship to them , it more of a way to be like a casanova but i didn't add all, but yup talking, compliments, confidence, asking about them, teasing (this works wonders) is good. it all depends on the chemistry between you too, you got to caluclate it carefully lol, everything in this world is down to calculations, long as u do it right, is yours :P


My point is that those things are much more sexual/intimate and less flirty. They are not things you would want to do to a girl early on.
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