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If someone didn't like you...
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Posted 11/25/12
If someone didn't like you and you didn't know, would you rather them be kind to you or be mean to you?

State what you think and you're reasoning for it below.
Posted 11/25/12
I'd rather have them tell me. Not that that would ever happen to me. I'm so damn loveable <3
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Posted 11/25/12 , edited 11/25/12

mesomuffin wrote:

If someone didn't like you and you didn't know, would you rather them be kind to you or be mean to you?

State what you think and you're reasoning for it below.


Please post this section in the Polls section next time if there is a poll involved! Thanks!
-Moved to polls!
P.S. I would ask them too... or just go away... so many people around could find someone else!
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Yeah, I would like the person to tell me straight up, because I don't want to be anyone's enemy, and even if they are trying to get something to work with me, but they can't because they hate me, I would rather have them give up on it and have a happy life instead of trying so hard, I would probably be kind to them, it all depends about how I would feel about them, if they had done something to me, to make me mad, I might act a bit different.
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Posted 11/25/12 , edited 11/25/12

mesomuffin wrote:

If someone didn't like you and you didn't know, would you rather them be kind to you or be mean to you?

State what you think and you're reasoning for it below.

You are being extremely vague here.

It depends on the culture, some people will continue to fake friendship and be all nice to you even if they hate your guts. People resort to this because they are afraid of loosing face. Afraid that if they tell this person their true feelings they will loose their image and credibility among other people in their circle. It is especially common among tightly knit societies in Norway.


What is the right choice? There is no right answer. In my humble opinion it is better to come to terms with your own feelings and tell the other person about it. This way you may lay foundation for something new to flourish whatever it may be.
Posted 11/25/12 , edited 11/26/12
This is one of those cases where I should have read the post first before voting. I was thinking that the question was, "If someone didn't like you, how would you treat them?" So I voted "nice."

My bad.

Now that I know the real question, I should have voted "don't care."
Posted 11/25/12
Would rather them leave me alone. What's the point of being fake to me (nice) or rude for no apparent reason when you just avoid me? o.0
Posted 11/25/12
~ o,..,o ~ I have experienced the hypocrisy of someone here on CR who pretended to like me, and i thinking that person was a friend, trusted them with personal things about myself, that later i regretted telling them. It is better to know who your enemy is, than to be deceived with false kindness. That way you know first hand what your up against with someone. I prefer to see their evil intent up front.
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20 / F / In your closet : P
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Posted 11/26/12
Idc, just be normal.
If they're mean, just shows immaturity.
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Posted 11/26/12
I'd want to know why but wouldn't ask. I mean it's not something that I need to know. Besides people dislike others all the time, nothing new
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Posted 11/27/12
well I want to people to be kind to me even if they dont like me.. We all live on this earth and there no getting around that.. to be mean is a pain
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Posted 11/27/12
Don't care
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Posted 11/28/12
Don't care...
Posted 12/3/12
Then, i have a fan now! xD
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Posted 12/24/12
I don't care, doesn't bother me.. =w=
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