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ThePinkRanger wrote:

Personally I HATE the term "friendzoned", since it tends to imply that we owe you something, when in fact we don't owe you anything. The whole concept is that they have a sense of entitlement, "oh man, I'm SO great why wont she date ME". I thought you wanted our friendship? That video only makes males look like idiots who can't think with anything other than their crotch, "Aherher my female friend is hot I wanna bang her but she wont let me boohoo FRIENDZONEDDDD". Get over it. Be a good friend to us, that might get you a little further than being a self entitled douche canoe.


I completely agree. Most of the "Nice Guys" I've known ended up complaining to me and criticizing the girls that rejected them. "I don't know why that bitch friendzoned me, I was so nice to her, but she's going out with that douche bag."

WHAT? I'm sorry, "nice guy," but you just lost me at "Bitch."

And, the sad thing is, this type of dialogue is used by ALL sorts of guys: Guys who literally look like douche bags, guys who are up to interpretation, nerdy guys, average guys, etc., etc. No matter what type of person they are, they expect something from someone, and when they do not get what they want, they complain that it's because the girl doesn't like how they look, or how they act, or what hobbies they enjoy. It makes the girl seem like the bad person, when really, it's just her being honest.
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ThePinkRanger wrote:

Personally I HATE the term "friendzoned", since it tends to imply that we owe you something, when in fact we don't owe you anything. The whole concept is that they have a sense of entitlement, "oh man, I'm SO great why wont she date ME". I thought you wanted our friendship? That video only makes males look like idiots who can't think with anything other than their crotch, "Aherher my female friend is hot I wanna bang her but she wont let me boohoo FRIENDZONEDDDD". Get over it. Be a good friend to us, that might get you a little further than being a self entitled douche canoe.


I completely agree. Most of the "Nice Guys" I've known ended up complaining to me and criticizing the girls that rejected them. "I don't know why that bitch friendzoned me, I was so nice to her, but she's going out with that douche bag."

WHAT? I'm sorry, "nice guy," but you just lost me at "Bitch."

And, the sad thing is, this type of dialogue is used by ALL sorts of guys: Guys who literally look like douche bags, guys who are up to interpretation, nerdy guys, average guys, etc., etc. No matter what type of person they are, they expect something from someone, and when they do not get what they want, they complain that it's because the girl doesn't like how they look, or how they act, or what hobbies they enjoy. It makes the girl seem like the bad person, when really, it's just her being honest.


You two just had me crack up. As a guy, I have to completely agree with you. If you are 'friend zoned', then that's just the way it is. If you want something more, make a move! An honest and respectable one.

Otherwise, it is their own fault. It is rarely the woman's fault from what I've witnessed from others in the past.
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I'm glad someone else here gets it. It makes us the bad guy to "friendzone" the people we just don't really have feelings for. It shouldn't be treated like a punishment to just be our friend. It's not our fault we don't feel a romantic connection either. It's just odd because you rarely ever see a female bitching about being in the "friendzone", and it does happen, we just don't feel the need to call the guy a bitch or a douche for doing it.

In the past, I've liked a guy who didn't reciprocate the feelings, and I was okay with it I just kept being their friend. Years down the line, they ended up changing their mind, I didn't feel like that anymore, and suddenly I'm the bitch who friendzones. Men. I thought females were supposed to be the confusing ones lol
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"Nice guys" is just a term of guys who EXPECT something in return for their "kindness". Whenever I see one of them complaining to me about "oh why won't that bitch go out with me instead of that guy?" I see their true nature which is just that of a manipulative man who doesn't care about the feelings of the other party.

Being kind to someone doesn't warrant anything in return, you're kind to someone because you want to be kind.
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Pikachu_kun wrote:

"Nice guys" is just a term of guys who EXPECT something in return for their "kindness". Whenever I see one of them complaining to me about "oh why won't that bitch go out with me instead of that guy?" I see their true nature which is just that of a manipulative man who doesn't care about the feelings of the other party.

Being kind to someone doesn't warrant anything in return, you're kind to someone because you want to be kind.


Haha I love this, I see so many of these kinds of guys at my high school, although not everyone expects something in return, I've never really complained 'bout being friendzoned so to speak I could care less if they dont return the feelings long as we can hangout without it being awkward thats all I need
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