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The truth behind friendzoned
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I still upvote good posts here, even though nothing happens. :/
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People this days.... are so selfish
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ispy12 wrote: shakuganTV wrote: I was in youtube and saw this video http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_embedded&v=T_lh5fR4DMA first i lol so hard, but then i realize is kind of truth, that was most of the mens get friendzoned in a moment of their life xD. what you girls and guys think? posted this already twice here :p nice vid though lol xD, lucky b*astard, i get friendzoned twice but then i realize there is just 1 thing to avoid friendzoned, once u like a girl u have to tell her, about ur feelings as soon as i can because u can become a "best friend" for her lol, friendzoned level over 9000 |
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People this days.... are so selfish
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I think all this talk about this socalled friendzone is totally BS, not saying its not true that you can fall in love with someone that doesnt love you back, but then say fuck it?
Its really just a choice, that they choose to stay there is their problem Okay, you dont wanna lose a friend? Talk to the other person and say "So i have feeling for you and you dont have for me, so im gonna avoid you, dispise you and do everything i can to not come in contact with you for a short period of time, can you accept that and will you still be my friend afterwards?" Been there, done that tbh, its hard yes, esp when you talk to the person again and all these old feelings come up and you're like shieeet i cant do this, but after some time its pretty much just all back to normal. Im not saying everyone can do this, everyone is different afterall. But for the love of god, YOU CAN BE FRIENDS WITH THE OPPOSITE SEX WITHOUT WANTING MORE THEN A FRIENDSSHIP! -.-' f'ing americans.. |
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fish go m00
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I think it is possible, though rare, possible. As you can see it is mainly the men, I blame the hyper-sexual culture for creating this scenario,
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Banned
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Man, it's not even about sex with me. That's last thing I want from a girl.
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I can already control reality with my mind, banning me is pointless.
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One of my two best friends is a guy. I have zero interest in him as a boyfriend, hookup, etc. I can't speak from his end, but he's never tried anything. I personally think that "girls and guys cant be friends" is a load of crap. My friends group is primarily guys, and I often end up as the only female when I go hang out with them. I've made this place for myself and they know that I am just a friend, I'm sure of that. I never feel like a piece of meat and I'm never uncomfortable.
But like most controversial issues, this is a subjective topic. I know not all people see things the way I do. Some people see a clear division between the genders, whereas I don't see why it should matter. Every guy isn't attracted to ever girl, and vice versa. |
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Be excellent to each other
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Also something I must note here is that being friendzoned especially if your a guy depends on how attractive you are especially in college...its not a secret that its easy to boink a girl there because its the time to let loose right? Even if she doesn't like you and she finds you attractive, she will find a way to blame it on stress, alcohol, need to feel wanted or other things, but truth is she had sex with you simply because your hot. I was freindzoned with a girl who knew I liked her, at that time I had grown to a whopping 240lbs a year after I lost the weight she was all on me asking what I was doing on the weekend in a totally want to soo do it vibe and lol we did. I wasn't mean or a jerk to Her before or after I gained the weight. She also never came on to me before the weight loss it was purely physical. Of course not all women are like that.
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Anime is boring me.....I need a little drama in my life :p
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I wrote a paper on the friendzone my senior year of high school that got turned into a script for the Readers Theather and earned me the nickname "Friendzoned" on the back of my state debate tee-shirt
I know a thing or two Also weight don't have shit to do with it... I was overweight senior year and have been literally explained that I have an attractive face but my body was....eh Over summer and fall I lost 65 pounds and got in shape...go hang out with girl...her feelings no different we can freaking cuddle in a blanket watching a movie I'm still awkward...she's still got her "best friend" -.- If anyone want's to read the paper ill send it to em ^_^ i think it's pretty funny. |
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A "Hopeless Romantic" that has discovered romance is hopeless.
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If you like a girl, tell her. The whole 'friendzoning' thing is just shit.
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SakuHima <3
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alot of the time we do in my case i DID tell her...nothing In fact she's still content with crying in my arms like i never said a thing like I'm still her best friend from high school...which I am...so i swallow my problems and deal with hers...>_>....I'm like her bitch or something |
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A "Hopeless Romantic" that has discovered romance is hopeless.
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Naunix wrote: alot of the time we do in my case i DID tell her...nothing In fact she's still content with crying in my arms like i never said a thing like I'm still her best friend from high school...which I am...so i swallow my problems and deal with hers...>_>....I'm like her bitch or something Just because you tell her doesn't mean she's obligated to like you back/go out with you. Likewise, if you don't like the situation, you don't have to stay around. |
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SakuHima <3
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Happencheese wrote: Naunix wrote: alot of the time we do in my case i DID tell her...nothing In fact she's still content with crying in my arms like i never said a thing like I'm still her best friend from high school...which I am...so i swallow my problems and deal with hers...>_>....I'm like her bitch or something Just because you tell her doesn't mean she's obligated to like you back/go out with you. Likewise, if you don't like the situation, you don't have to stay around. That's not it at all...I don't expect her to have the same feelings back I just expected her to treat things a little differently...maybe not use me as much as shoudler to cry on...but if she needs me i'll be there 100% of the time |
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A "Hopeless Romantic" that has discovered romance is hopeless.
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Haha I have an ex and we are friends, hell the feelings just don't happen anymore, :P
Idk, maybe because I've been calling her my sister 2 years ago :P Hmmm..... But this very interesting |
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For the Critters!
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well not really it was jsut that i never realized how hat they r and now it gets awkard being alone with them
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LEE MIN HO ♥
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