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Posted 11/28/12

samby101 wrote:

well not really it was jsut that i never realized how hat they r and now it gets awkard being alone with them


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Posted 11/28/12
2:14 That dude is EPIC WINNING.

Right in front of his "friend". DAMN. *props bro*
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ispy12 wrote:


shakuganTV wrote:

I was in youtube and saw this video

http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_embedded&v=T_lh5fR4DMA

first i lol so hard, but then i realize is kind of truth, that was most of the mens get friendzoned in a moment of their life xD.

what you girls and guys think?


posted this already twice here :p nice vid though



lol xD, lucky b*astard, i get friendzoned twice but then i realize there is just 1 thing to avoid friendzoned, once u like a girl u have to tell her, about ur feelings as soon as i can because u can become a "best friend" for her lol, friendzoned level over 9000

You guys are lucky.

By the way, I think that's what I did with my best friend. Friendzoned him. And now I think I'm friendzoned back. LOL. Talk about karma.
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dude that vid was effin hilarious xD

but seriously, unless you're still in high school or college (where EVERYONE is constantly trying to get laid), the "friendzone" is a fun and necessary part of life. Rejection happens, but if you're mature about it, you can be just friends with someone very easily, actually.
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Posted 11/28/12 , edited 11/28/12

Naunix wrote:

I wrote a paper on the friendzone my senior year of high school that got turned into a script for the Readers Theather and earned me the nickname "Friendzoned" on the back of my state debate tee-shirt

I know a thing or two

Also weight don't have shit to do with it...
I was overweight senior year and have been literally explained that I have an attractive face but my body was....eh

Over summer and fall I lost 65 pounds and got in shape...go hang out with girl...her feelings no different we can freaking cuddle in a blanket watching a movie I'm still awkward...she's still got her "best friend" -.-

If anyone want's to read the paper ill send it to em ^_^ i think it's pretty funny.


Remember not every girl you met are into the same guys as the women I met. There are lots and lots of women who wouldn't sleep with a fat guy unless he had lots and lots of money...different strokes for different folks. but I got to admit that I did gain a lot of confidence after losing the weight and she seen that other women was giving me double and triple takes, she got a bit jelous of her used to be fat friend getting all that attention and she noticed I started to look else where...if she sees other women hitting on you , you will always win
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Posted 11/29/12

kyonkunsuzumiya wrote:

Side tangent pro tip for guys and girls, people aren't sex vending machines you put nice coins into and get laid in return.


Well then could you invent one please? That sounds like an awesome idea.
Posted 11/29/12 , edited 11/29/12
The interviewer reminds me of a dude in my English class who I sort of had crush on.

The video's interesting. Now have something to think about.
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From my experience you only get friend zoned if you act "wimpy/less dominant" about the relationship. If you meet a girl you should go up to her letting her know you're interested in her in a sexual way rather than leading her on by being nice. Don't be gross and overly flirty but you do need to flirt, you do need to be the kindof lead in the situation and be the one to ask her out if you like her. Smile at her, if she's into talking with you and you get along, put your hand on her shoulder while talking to her. They teach that in business as well- it's the entire point of a handshake. To "connect".

I think that's the problem a lot of guys have. They don't go for it early on and try to "get in good" with the girl before trying to get with her. It doesn't work that way most of the time. If you find her attractive- go for it! Don't mope around as her friend for months. If you don't get a date the first few days, she's obviously not interested. You should just give up and chat up someone else. The more women you hit on- the more women you'll meet that enjoy your company. It's basic math. Don't get too hung up on 1 girl if she's not into you- someone else will be
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Eh. I've found many of my friends that are girls attractive. That doesn't mean I need to have sex with them or get intimate on that kind of level. I have confidence in myself that I will find someone, even if they aren't "the one," who I see more romantically and them in the same way.

Whether it's guys or girls that are your friends, both can have epic personalities regardless.

I will also say, that there is always a chance when getting close to a friend that is of the opposite sex, that you can start to take interest in each other and it can grow into something. But, that doesn't mean being a horn dog and taking the first thing you can get. It's more about going after something you truly want. And there's a big difference there.
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I remember looking around one day and realizing that all my friends were girls. I had almost no male friends. I spent all my time with girls when one day one of them sat me down and said, 'who do you like?' I was taken by surprise and said, 'well, nobody'. And she said, 'you're hurting us all. Pick one because we can't take this anymore'

That sucked so very very bad because after that I couldn't be friends with my friends anymore.

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Posted 11/29/12

Happencheese wrote:

If you like a girl, tell her. The whole 'friendzoning' thing is just shit.


well, it doesnt work all the time lol, I'm almost 20 and i know my best friend since we were 4 years old, she use to like me when we were 14, i told her my feelings but it doesnt work xD, anyway after a few years i realize she is like a lil girl, i don't love her anymore, but we still best friends and we are like brothers
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I remember looking around one day and realizing that all my friends were girls. I had almost no male friends. I spent all my time with girls when one day one of them sat me down and said, 'who do you like?' I was taken by surprise and said, 'well, nobody'. And she said, 'you're hurting us all. Pick one because we can't take this anymore'

That sucked so very very bad because after that I couldn't be friends with my friends anymore.



O___O, well, that's epic
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Posted 11/29/12
This is hilarious, never had this problem though. I have an Irish accent.
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Posted 11/29/12 , edited 11/29/12

shakuganTV wrote:


Tekrelious wrote:

I remember looking around one day and realizing that all my friends were girls. I had almost no male friends. I spent all my time with girls when one day one of them sat me down and said, 'who do you like?' I was taken by surprise and said, 'well, nobody'. And she said, 'you're hurting us all. Pick one because we can't take this anymore'

That sucked so very very bad because after that I couldn't be friends with my friends anymore.



O___O, well, that's epic


Yeah, Tammy, Merideth, Jenn, Cat, Jessie, Erin, Rachel, I found out later that the only one that didn't have a crush on me was Jenn. Although I didn't find out Meri had a crush on me till 2 years after the fact. They called me 'Mr Clueless' because I couldn't catch a hint but it wasn't that, I didn't want to be in love with them, they were my girls. I didn't want to hurt any of them, I ended up hurting them all

I felt like the lead in a harem anime only there was no good end. I was so confused what to do. Plus I made the worst mistake I could possibly have made . . . I went after Jenn.

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Posted 11/29/12
^ Damn, that sucks, man!
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