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99 / F / Your boundaries
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Posted 3/13/13
It's all in your head.
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21 / F / canada
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Posted 3/13/13
i would say i think men and women can be friend. at least from the gilrl's perspective.

I have friendzone some of the guys who asked me out.(just because i really liked them as a person but was not attracted to them at all) And actually later on we became good friends ( unless it was just my illusion)

But on another hand it is true that most of them ended up leaving , maybe because they realized they didnt have a chance expect as friends.

it might not be the same for guys but girls in general (at least me ) actually think they are friend with the guy and really care about him.


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Posted 3/14/13
Friends are friends. If I develop any sense of sexual desire towards any of them, I will make sure to place as much distance between them and myself. I wouldn't want to fall for a person that pretty much knows me possibly more than my parents, that's a disaster waiting to happen.
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21 / M / Ohio, U.S.
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Posted 3/14/13
Every girl I've ever been attracted to and started talking to ends up either already being in a long-term relationship or gets into one before I have any chance of making a move. So the only option for me is straight into the friendzone. Its either that or completely cut ties with that person and I'm too nice to do that.
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I try to remain in a platonic relationship as much as possible with the guys I know. It's awkward, because I know they have all had a small crush on me. I mean, I'm awesome. I just hope they haven't had any... *Shivers* fantasies about me.
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Posted 3/29/13
Here is my definition for friendzone. If you like someone tell them ASAP, don't wait for 6 years then start telling them how you feel. If you tell them early, they might like you back or not. And if you know you gonna be friend with them for a long time, might as well be in the friendzone. If you don't know then move on to someone you like.
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26 / F / Southern Oregon
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Posted 3/29/13
I like how he only asked girls that most men would consider attractive (or where their no unattractive girls at that library?) so of course their guy friends are going to be sexually attracted to them. However It's ridiculous to think every straight guy is sexually attracted to every female he knows. So yes heterosexual men and women can be just friends.
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24 / F / in your mind >=P
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Posted 3/29/13
females get friendzoned too xD LOL not just guys, I was friendzoned once, I liked this guy I befriended and it drove me insane when I would see him flirt with all these prettier girls that he had zero in common with...thank god Im over him :'D
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24 / F / in your mind >=P
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Posted 3/29/13

VintageVengeance wrote:

I try to remain in a platonic relationship as much as possible with the guys I know. It's awkward, because I know they have all had a small crush on me. I mean, I'm awesome. I just hope they haven't had any... *Shivers* fantasies about me.



not something you'd wanna know, but believe me, they have..most guys fantasize about most girls they associate with, crushes on them or not :/
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18 / M / Stoke, England
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Posted 3/29/13
The friendzone is a myth.
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99 / F / Your boundaries
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Posted 3/29/13
There's no such thing. If you're upfront and say, I'm not interested in you and I never will be, and they still choose to be friends with you, then that's on them. They can cry all they want, but they're the idiots who wanted to be friends.
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34 / M / The Void.
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I don't care.
Posted 3/29/13
Well sheesh - all those guys were under 25, still wracked with testosterone overdose, of course they can't be content to be just "friends" with anyone attractive of the gender they desire. That's right, I am also implying that gay/bi men in that age range would have difficulty not being attracted to every single one of their decent-looking guy friends, too.
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Posted 3/29/13
There is a few problems with this whole conversation.

First off, guys are way more fun to hang out with. There are so few women with a good sense of humor who are as entertaining as any of my guy friends, so really the most entertaining thing about women is looking at them.

If an ugly girl were really cool, I would consider being friends with her, but most women are just not fun enough on their own merits personality wise. I've known a few exceptions, but if those exceptions are hot then I will probably want to hook up with them anyway.

So the Venn Diagram would have two aspects with male-female friendship only possible with ugly and hilarious/fun chicks.
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19 / F / Washington
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Posted 4/14/13
Here's what I have to say about the friendzone... http://youtu.be/3VXXXX9iVPI
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