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Posted 4/14/13

creightonja wrote:

There is a few problems with this whole conversation.

First off, guys are way more fun to hang out with. There are so few women with a good sense of humor who are as entertaining as any of my guy friends, so really the most entertaining thing about women is looking at them.

If an ugly girl were really cool, I would consider being friends with her, but most women are just not fun enough on their own merits personality wise. I've known a few exceptions, but if those exceptions are hot then I will probably want to hook up with them anyway.

So the Venn Diagram would have two aspects with male-female friendship only possible with ugly and hilarious/fun chicks.


If you prefer the company of other guys, just say it.

I tried to friendzone my woman. Hell, I tried to ignore her. I STILL try to ignore her... it doesn't work. She knows my weakness...
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Posted 4/14/13
that video was freaking awesome ......and sadly true lol
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Posted 4/14/13
hahaha well... friendzoning is also a less harsh way of rejecting guys/girls...
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Posted 4/17/13
W are hardwired for companionship and protection. It's safer in the herd and males have played the role of protector since before we were even human. Therefore they can have a relationship with a male and not be interested sexually.
This is why they said yes.

Men are hardwired to procreate with any pleasing female they can. If you find them attractive socially and/or physically, especially physically, you're going to have desires.
This is why they said no.

Clear and simple. Any questions?
Posted 4/17/13
Blessing in disguise or self-devaluation?

Debatable.
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Posted 4/17/13
Better than not having any friends.
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Posted 4/17/13
It may be that pheromones determine who we are attracted to and who we are not just like any animal. If you have been friendzoned, try using only unscented soaps, and don't put on any fragrances. If things change, then you were masking your own pheromones with perfumey crap. If not, then your pheromones are just not compatible with the one who doesn't see you as a potential mate. Move on.
Posted 4/17/13
Well, they will lose someone that is awesome when they friend zone me.
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I've friend-zoned people, and have been friend-zoned.

In fact, I'm currently roommates with someone who friend-zoned me. We get along just fine, and I see things in a different light because of it (i.e. we wouldn't have worked out in the first place). It's not something to be ashamed of, you just have to move on from that initial "shock." Another girl friend-zoned me -- I got past it (for the most part), and we're like best friends.

Guess that says something about me and relationships lol...
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Posted 4/17/13
I think I posted this video here like 1000 times heh
It's a nice video but it's not 100% percent true because the opposite happens a lot to me.
Posted 4/18/13 , edited 4/18/13
I have friend zoned a girl that loves me more than anything else. I really want to love her, but I can't. I feel bad for not loving her. She is so nice and beautiful, but there is something about her I can't overlook.
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Posted 4/18/13

Rugidarol wrote:

I have friend zoned a girl that loves me more than anything else. I really want to love her, but I can't. I feel bad for not loving her. She is so nice and beautiful, but there is something about her I can't overlook.



We believe everything you just said.
I mean it, E-V-E-R-Y thing.


Posted 4/18/13 , edited 4/18/13
This video is interesting but i guess its true, i had been just friends with guys and they had been in love with me.
Posted 4/18/13
There's a video on youtube that looks at the science behind the friendzone. It's done by VSauce
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IGK2KprU-To

It explains a lot
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Posted 4/18/13
just be an asshole to them, being way too nice gets you in the friendzone and it seems girls mostly choose assholes over nice guys lol... i have alot of female friends but just friends, giving a girl who is not your gf too much attention will make you lose out on alot of time and a possible gf. Plus girls who go for guys who treat them like crap just says its alot about the girl and how you dodged a bullet
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