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Post Reply Do you find it harder to make friends as an adult?
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Posted 10/25/13 , edited 10/25/13

laviriot13 wrote: I consider my coworkers acquaintances, and we only talk about work and random topics, not really about our personal lives. As my boss said, our personal life is our deal. Don't talk about it unless it's affecting your work habits. That is all part of growing up sadly.
Hmm, I think it depends on where u work, the kinds of people there, and what boss u have. My last boss I had, he used to try to promote like a family environment and try to have the guys all hang out and stuff. In fact, a lot of the guys did do that and some of us were pretty close to one another, and we weren't abashed about talking about our personal lives or interests and such.

This is just my personal experience, though. However, I do think it probably helped that I've worked with some pretty easy-going and friendly-to-talk-to kind of people! XD
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It's easy to make friends, but hard to find friends worth having.

Same as it always was.
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I don't deserve to
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the older i get, the harder it is...
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The older I get the easier it seems.. I go out a lot with friends and end up at random parties.. lol So I meet new people all the time. Although I don't exactly remember their names sometimes! haha.. Go to the bar with some friends and try to talk to people.. or clubs or wherever u go to have a good time! Just don't sit in the corner & be boring or you wont meet anyone new.
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I find it harder to make friends the older I am but I think making friends for me as a little kid was just so much easier. I am more prudent than I was when i was younger as to who I would approach to become friends with. Also I probably do not share the same interests with the average male my age so it seems a bit harder for my situation but it doesn't matter because I have slowly developed a good number of really close friends, which is way better than a huge number of friends without that good connection.
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Yes, well in my case I can friends quick like to chat with or form groups or whatever but I find it impossible to make long term friends.
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Posted 10/26/13
yes and no.
easy to make friends with the guy`s harder with girls.
Posted 10/26/13
Friends are like dicks, the harder it gets the whither we come.
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I've just gone through something that might be catagorized as a 'mid life crisis' the result being that I'm much more whole, self-aware and self-confident than I used to be.

I find making and KEEPING friends much easier now because I'm no longer cowardly shy, and have the will and energy to do the 'Maintenance'
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31 / M / So Cali, OC
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Posted 10/28/13
It is easier since you have more social skill when your order however it is hard because you lack the time for all your friends.
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Honestly it can be harder because face it we are all adults and have adult responisbilities to attend to. Any friends that we have while they are still friends have probably gotten married and have familes of their own so hanging out and socializing is probably on the bottom of their list at this point. You will have to show a great sense of positivity, maturity and over all friendliness/openess if you want to make friends as adults. Gotta put yourself out there.
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I've always found it hard to make friends. With me i have friends then they stab me in the back and throw me away when i'm not needed. I don't drink and i don't smoke either so i'm not the kind of person that people want to know. Maybe thats why i don't have real friends
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18 / M / Birmingham
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People come and go, you move on they move on! That's life! Simples
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it's really hard to make friends honestly, and of course i'm struggling. i have more online friends then friends in real life. plus i can be a tad shy. even today. wherever I go, i was hoping myself to meet people. since i'm a bit of a shy type, i don't really know how to start off, and to keep the interaction going. outside of real life. (the internet in other words). same thing, but i kinda gotten use to it. it's pretty easy to tell other people's character. however, i can be fooled depending on the person i meet online.
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