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What is your move for picking up the opposite sex.
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I have pretty much never been in the position of being so interested in someone I actively try to get their attention, but I suppose I could use that one time I tried to befriend someone as an example. You just be yourself, mostly. Introduce yourself, if you're not already known to them, and be natural. Forcing it will just make your relationship awkward. Once you get on friendly terms, reevaluate whether you like their personality or just their appearance and think whether your personalities work well together. Once you're sure you're interested, try small moves that test whether they have even an ounce of interest back in you. If they're just interested in being friends, there's plenty of fish in the sea and you also now have a bitchin' friend. If they do show signs of being interested, it's not that hard to get to relationship level if you actually know them and they might be interested back. Many people will skip all this and just go straight to asking someone they barely know out and I can say it mostly doesn't work out. But hey, if they're sure they only want an intimate relationship with that person rather than being friends if they aren't actually interested back, then just go do as you wish. As long as it's not trying to guilt them into liking them, that piece of shit method is the beginning of many abusive relationships.
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My favorite is when I'm at the mall with my friends. I see a cute girl and I give a big goofy wave that usually gets them laughing and gets a conversation started. If that doesn't work then I try the shy boy approach. Walk up clenching one of your wrists and while biting your lip you ask them how they're doing. You bring up anything as a conversation starter, the ice breaker. For example, the store they might have just walked out of. They say they bought something there and you tell them they looked fine with what they had on. Simple small compliments that are easy to imply. Next step is her number; never say, "can I get your number". Its over used, you need to be different. Don't say, "can I get the digits", that sounds straight retarded and my friend got laughed at for pulling a stupid stunt like that. You say something like, "may we exchange phone numbers so next time.. blah blah." Next you start talking, flirt on the phone, ask her out to a movie or something, then things get interesting. Here comes the real moves; depending on what movie your going to see will depend on the move you can make during the movie. The over the shoulder is to over used and should be kept for later dates. Horror movie - If shes the scared type hold her hand through the movie, she might latch on to you on extra scary parts. If she doesn't get scared, convince her out of the movie cuz you're screwed. Comedy - You're stupid if you chose a comedy so forget about it. Romance - You make the gentle grab to her hand when she gets teary eyed. Smile and look her in the eyes even though you probably thinks its the cheesiest thing you've ever seen. Mystery - Once again you're stupid for picking that. So then you move on to the real, real moves. If she looks like a shy one and doesn't like moving things forward fast then just end it with a long tight hug, you'll get your chance next date. If it seems like shes really into her then here you go. Come to a wall, but in a non populated spot like you know, in a corner or something. Have her leaned against the wall and poke at her shirt as a tease or any thing you can think of that she may find a tease. Now you can either try and go in for a kiss then or if you're real gutsy and smooth, you pull a finger out and lead her lips to yours by cupping your finger under her chin and pulling her towards you. After that just seal the deal and try something different next date. The key is to be creative, random, and smooth. Don't do anything that you think might cause you to come off a creep.

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Posted 4/6/13

-Vega- wrote:

I just talk to them.


This
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rjtam_00 wrote:


JoAnime3853 wrote:

Yeah I have no moves at all. You know how kids will ignore the person they like and do everything possible to make them think they don't like them? Yep, that's me still.


im not a girl so i shouldnt do this move....but still, i do it cause it's effective. :)


haha It shouldn't work... but it does... people are weird XD
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Novasis wrote:

My favorite is when I'm at the mall with my friends. I see a cute girl and I give a big goofy wave that usually gets them laughing and gets a conversation started. If that doesn't work then I try the shy boy approach. Walk up clenching one of your wrists and while biting your lip you ask them how they're doing. You bring up anything as a conversation starter, the ice breaker. For example, the store they might have just walked out of. They say they bought something there and you tell them they looked fine with what they had on. Simple small compliments that are easy to imply. Next step is her number; never say, "can I get your number". Its over used, you need to be different. Don't say, "can I get the digits", that sounds straight retarded and my friend got laughed at for pulling a stupid stunt like that. You say something like, "may we exchange phone numbers so next time.. blah blah." Next you start talking, flirt on the phone, ask her out to a movie or something, then things get interesting. Here comes the real moves; depending on what movie your going to see will depend on the move you can make during the movie. The over the shoulder is to over used and should be kept for later dates. Horror movie - If shes the scared type hold her hand through the movie, she might latch on to you on extra scary parts. If she doesn't get scared, convince her out of the movie cuz you're screwed. Comedy - You're stupid if you chose a comedy so forget about it. Romance - You make the gentle grab to her hand when she gets teary eyed. Smile and look her in the eyes even though you probably thinks its the cheesiest thing you've ever seen. Mystery - Once again you're stupid for picking that. So then you move on to the real, real moves. If she looks like a shy one and doesn't like moving things forward fast then just end it with a long tight hug, you'll get your chance next date. If it seems like shes really into her then here you go. Come to a wall, but in a non populated spot like you know, in a corner or something. Have her leaned against the wall and poke at her shirt as a tease or any thing you can think of that she may find a tease. Now you can either try and go in for a kiss then or if you're real gutsy and smooth, you pull a finger out and lead her lips to yours by cupping your finger under her chin and pulling her towards you. After that just seal the deal and try something different next date. The key is to be creative, random, and smooth. Don't do anything that you think might cause you to come off a creep.

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Rofl I'd be a terrible date to the movies...

- I don't get scared at horrow movies (in fact I laugh)
- I laugh even more at comedies (unless it's retarded then I'll just be bored)
- Hate romance movies
- LOL @ Mystey flicks - like wth

And uh - personal experience to a T huh? But then how is that random and genuine if you literally got every possibility down like a walkthrough?
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Well here's what NOT to do:

- do NOT ask your "best friend" / "good friend" to find out for you if the guy that you like is interested in you. They either take it upon themselves to interpret the guy's response and either over exaggerate, under exaggerate or just plain LIE to you about it. (Especially if they're single and there's a possibility that they like the guy too.)

(Yeah I'm not friends with that bitch anymore. And for the record - I didn't know she kinda liked him either).

- do NOT hover over the person you like. Not only might you look desperate, but people need space. You don't forcibly enter to their life. It's a gradual process. If the interest is there then nurture it and let it grow. The same thing happened when you made your friends (it was gradual) and trying to be with the person you have a crush on is the same thing.
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Posted 4/6/13 , edited 4/6/13
I have the friend zone curse >_>

Literally every girl i take a interest to ends up putting me in the friend zone
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I've never really used any "moves." I've tried to date on purpose and it usually ended pretty quickly due to lack of common interests and differing ideals. The girls I've been with were those I was either friends with for a while beforehand, or introduced to by friends. I'd probably date some guys too but that gets a bit complicated since I don't know how to approach it.
Posted 4/6/13
When i was younger i used to do this one:
"Hey there, see my friends over there? they want to see if i get your number. I'm sorry but can you put fake number and it will be over, please help me out."
When she puts her fake number.
"Can i put mine in yours too, don't worry! it's fake..for show "
Then i put my real number and make her's call me.
"couldn't resist, since you're cute"
*evil laugh*
Her face, "wtf?"
XDDDD
Harass her
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Posted 4/6/13
I'm in my own world most of the times, i've had girls approach me just to run away once they get to know the real me haha
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There is no move to pick up the opposite sex. Just be confident and don't give a fk.
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Posted 4/8/13

Marsev wrote:

I'm in my own world most of the times, i've had girls approach me just to run away once they get to know the real me haha


Lies!
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Posted 4/8/13 , edited 4/8/13
Yo! That greeting and the fun started...or just keep it cool. Whatever.
Posted 4/8/13

JoAnime3853 wrote:


Marsev wrote:

I'm in my own world most of the times, i've had girls approach me just to run away once they get to know the real me haha


Lies!


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