First  Prev  1  2  3  4  5  6  7  8  9  10  11  12  Next  Last
How do you handle breakups?
Posted 12/21/12
1. Cry.
2. Get mad and punch something.
3. Eat junk food.
4. Watch sad movies.
5. Read sad books.
6. Get over it.
33868 cr points
Send Message: Send PM GB Post
22 / M / Texas
Offline
Posted 12/21/12
I don't do relationships, I like to live the single life but my last breakup was tough cuz I thought she loved me but it turns out she ended up being interested in another guy but oh well that's the past, relationships are bs anyway
2373 cr points
Send Message: Send PM GB Post
15 / F / marylandd .
Offline
Posted 12/25/12 , edited 12/25/12
if i really liked the person, i cry and then listen to sad love songs and die.
41 cr points
Send Message: Send PM GB Post
22 / F
Offline
Posted 12/25/12

lorddisick wrote:

1. Cry.
2. Get mad and punch something.
3. Eat junk food.
4. Watch sad movies.
5. Read sad books.
6. Get over it.

Personally #4 and #5 make the situation worse for me..
A few things that have worked for me:
-go out with friends / family
-start a new hobby

Posted 12/25/12
I don't take them well but i put up a good front
7956 cr points
Send Message: Send PM GB Post
18 / F / Waiting for your...
Offline
Posted 12/25/12
Hmmm...
- get high
- sleep
- endure ridiculous ammounts of exercise
- eat food
- more exercise
- go shopping with friends
26 cr points
Send Message: Send PM GB Post
M / Vancouver, Canada
Offline
Posted 12/25/12
1.) Cry
2.) Rage
3.) Blame self
4.) Rage again
5.) Blame EX
6.) Forget everything

65605 cr points
Send Message: Send PM GB Post
M / Northeast
Offline
Posted 12/25/12
1) go do something besides sit and think
2) watch a feel-good anime like bleach or naruto. I watch these whenever I need a pick me up in general.
8957 cr points
Send Message: Send PM GB Post
M / in the underworld...
Online
Posted 12/25/12

wwe wrote:

What do you do when you go though a breakup? What do you do when you dont want to breakup and want to keep the relationship going but your bf/gf wants to breakup with you? What was the worse breakup for you? How do you handle the breakup?



Well there is not much you can do short of kidnapping them and locking them in your basement if they want to brake up. Its hard but you got to do your best to move on, witch is by all means not easy to do. Some times you will never truly get over them, made worse if they cheated or brake up for a different woman/man and tell you that they never loved you. One of my worst brake ups was with my high school sweetheart on valintines day, where I moved too be with her, she told me too the day before valintines day then she had her mom brake up with me and I was left out in the cold. then 2 years I found some one else to love thats when it gets better. haha even if that brake up was worse than my high school sweetheart because you add a kid to the mix and things get damn right dirty. Well hope speaking from first hand account if so. hold on it will get easyer
Posted 12/26/12
How do I handle break ups?

Voodoo the girl makes me feel much better after a break up ..
Sweet aye? lmfao nah, just find another one for that night//
10 cr points
Send Message: Send PM GB Post
21 / F
Offline
Posted 12/26/12
go awt have fun.......with your friends try not to think bwt it so much .du stuff u love......................no need to hang on if the person dasnt want u
20056 cr points
Send Message: Send PM GB Post
25 / M / Eastern Townships...
Online
Posted 12/26/12
Well, I've found out over time that you need to let yourself feel what you're going through. If you keep pushing it aside you'll never get passed it. There are 4 stages to grief and you need to go through them. You need to let yourself go through them.

Denial
Anger
Depression
Acceptance

For me, I fell into a bad rut where I didn't have the energy to do anything. I saved what energy I could to go to work. I grew really despondent. I didn't want to feel or believe what was happening, so I pushed it aside and left myself empty. Then, when I couldn't anymore, I started vacillating between angry outbursts of creativity and that same empty shell. I put whatever anger I had into art, into projects. I got my hands busy when it was too much to sit idle. Then, the passion of anger fizzled out and I fell into this dark swamp. I lived through it. I trudged through it. I listened to too much Bright Eyes and cried myself to sleep and watched all the saddest, sappiest anime I could find. And then I reached a point where I didn't even have that sadness anymore.I had burnt it all up. So I got back in touch with old friends, started going out more, rebuilt relationships I had neglected, and began building myself up again.

Seriously, though, it's really hard, but depending on the relationship you had with your ex, there's a lot of good that can come out of staying friends. In our case the breakup was a complicated mess, but at the core we still care about each other a lot. We just couldn't continue the way we were going and she was falling for her best friend so she dumped me. I swear, she had a harder time than I did getting through it. Strange, no?

And now we're pretty much back to where we were before we dated, cuddling and playing and teasing each other and it is simple and it is good. It's hard sometimes, because I remember how she fit in my arms when we slept, or how she'd smile as she kissed me and you can just feel that, when someone smiles mid-kiss, and it fills you with a fluttery kinda happiness. But, there are almost 7 billion people on this mudball - there are others. There are other people that will fit your jigsaw pieces just as well, if not better.

It's hard, but you will get through this.
Sailor Candy Moderator
165745 cr points
Send Message: Send PM GB Post
25
Offline
Posted 5/27/13
Spring forum cleaning! To keep the forums neat and tidy we only keep 6 months worth of threads since its May 27, 2013 [5/27/13] we will keep only keep posts open from December 27, 2012 [12/27/12]. Please feel free to recreate any thread closed, as long as someone else didn't open another similar one before you.
First  Prev  1  2  3  4  5  6  7  8  9  10  11  12  Next  Last
You must be logged in to post.