Sniff about for a few minutes, let the hate sink in for a few hours, ignore them the best I can for a few days, bust their locker in after a few weeks, and forgive them. But all in my head, I have
Lalalalalalalalalalalalalalalalalalalalalaaaaaaaaa And zone out from the rumors for a couple of months.

I handle them like this.

Thank you and right now been talking and he still wants to be friends so maybe there still some hope left we did just plan on seeing each other again but have to wait for Feb only b/c he does live far so can only see each other ever few months. So maybe this time we can work it out this might be my last shot so its make it or break it this time. If it dont work out this time in Feb then have to move on.

I hope it works out for you, in the way that makes you happiest.

Never had anything like this. Still too young! T_T

It does hurt A LOT. I’ve been there more than once. With each person, you seem able to become closer…you love them more. And when it ends, it can be devastating. I always go through these stages of a break-up. 1) You get so mad at them and then you think you’re better off without them “screw them!” And then that feeling eventually wears off and you become depressed again. 2) You’re in denial, keep texting them daily (sometimes they respond and sometimes they won’t) I think the stages 3-5 don’t really have descriptions. You feel numb, wake up with that heart sinking feeling every morning. BUT when you don’t wake up with that feeling, that’s when it’s getting better.

One of the people I was subscribed to on YouTube, saying how this dude left her for someone else and that it’d be a long time before they would pursue another relationship. I told her if she was going to do that fine, but while you’re there picking up all your pieces, he’s more than happy with that person.

If you do happen to break up for good, I wouldn’t wait an absurd amount of time until you find someone new.

With my ex-boyfriend, the one before the dude who I had a complex with his ex, he did the dumbing. I made all the rookie mistakes, texting them too much, etc. He finally responded via facebook with a message “Hey, I’m not moving on, just trying to heal, I’ll eventually talk to you”. He very well had moved on. As he was seeing a girl a twelve days after he sent me that message.

By that time I was more pissed off at being lied to. I was also kind of dating a boy that later would become my boyfriend.

So the point of the story is…don’t close your heart completely, because once they’ve moved on, YOU’RE the one hurting, not them.

Ugh, men…

I like to write and play a lot of music to keep myself productive while at the same time getting out some built up emotions. It's hard, especially with the loneliness that comes with the initial feeling of the breakup. But I like to try and remind myself that her and I weren't really working out, and we weren't essentially what I was looking for. So I try to keep my head up.

Also, go hang out with friends. They do a great job of cheering me up and getting my mind off of it and onto other things.

This is win beyond words.

Turn off my phone and stay off the internet a few days so I don't have to listen to the inevitable whining.

Let out your sadness by crying. Say prayer. Move on.

go bust the windows out his car if he has none, then his house windows hehe

First, depends on what kind of relationship I had with him but if it's a long-lasting and serious one, I'd prolly go out with my buddies. Invite them to go to a karaoke bar, get drunk, then sing my heart out. Get wasted for a day. The next day, be an awesome-er me and act as if nothing happened. Crying and sulking my heart wouldn't get us back together so the best way for me to move on is to make myself waaay awesome-er than I was before and make him regret that he broke up with me.

Second, Fvck it. What's the point of keeping the relationship going if he already gave you up right? Whatever reasons, if he truly loves you, he wouldn't give you up like that,

And lastly, the worst break-up for me would be with my first boyfriend. We lasted for almost 3 effin harmonious years during high school then he broke up with me on the night of our graduation ball without giving me an effing reason. He even asked me if we can be friends instead. Geez seriously? A year after, I found it he's dating my bestie. Now they're already engaged. FML!

IDGAF

Easy, move on and do nothing but think positively about what happened to our relationship and how amazing it was.