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How To Confess Feelings To Secret Crush ?
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Posted 12/4/12
Send a text is the best way.
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You can always take the route of discussing the movies you might like, and slip in this line: "Speaking of movies, would you like to go to one with me sometime...just the two of us?" (I will say that method worked on me before, heh.)
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- Find him and pull him aside privately (at a party, in between classes, during lunch).
(This is more intimate and more respectful, you're not putting him on the spot)

- Make small talk, joke around, keep the mood light and comfortable, share some laughs.
(Most people react to being pulled aside by being tense, it's like "what's wrong?" so you need to put them at ease)

- Tell him that you always have so much fun when you're with him and that he makes you feel comfortable when he's around.
(If you jump in cold turkey and tell him you like him, it might shock him and take him aback so you need to let him know that you feel differently about him than other boys and lead him to the next natural conclusion)

- Let him know you like him, that you've been interested in him.
(Put it as sweetly and as non-assuming as you can, let him absorb the information at his own pace)

- Tell him that if he wants, you and him should hang out soon, and do something fun.
(Say this with confidence, sound excited but not over-eager, so he'll understand that if he rejects you, it won't devastate you and you could just move on)

- Give him a smile, walk away, look back at him, and leave.
(At this point, if he's interested, he'll meet you halfway)
Posted 12/4/12

EricOfficially wrote:

talk to him, and tell him? Some guys like the assertive woman.


HEEEELLL YEAA! Or is it just cause i'm lazy?? .___.
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Tell him face-to-face.
Posted 12/4/12
Take his arm, do a fancy dance number, dip him, then whisper in his ear, "I can be your hero, baby. I can kiiisss away the pain. I will stand by you forever. Youuuuuu can take..........my breathe away." But do it with a spanish accent. It'll be more romantic.
Posted 12/4/12 , edited 12/4/12
Hmmm... 15 probably in the school right?

Wait for the time were everybody is doing their thing inside the classroom then approach and confess to the guy with your friends beside you.
The more the people the better it will put more pressure to him. Hopefully the pressure will make him dumbfounded and just say yes.

If the guy turns you down it would make him look bad... sort of... maybe.

Posted 12/4/12
Aiyaa, I suck at confessing.... like really.. I do =3=
I confessed to my crush and things aren't so good between us...

I can only cheer for you QAQ I'm sorry !
but it's waay better if you're just honest with how you feel :33
Posted 12/4/12
Tell him after you BEEP his brains out.
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Best way to do it? Don't make a big deal of it. The more you think about it, the more awkward and nervous you'll be if and when you do confess.
Posted 12/4/12
tell him that you want to swim with him under the warm alaskan sunset
Posted 12/4/12
tell em straight out right away, before its too late and the good one gets away. I asked out my gf at the beach duing sunset with a friendship ring and we're going nearly 4 years strong!
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Babyqirl-May wrote:

i'v come to conclusion that i'll tell my crush i like him.. but idk how :/


Walk up behind him and kick him in the ass (make sure not to hit his balls or you will have to switch strategy), when he turns around, grab him by his shirt or whatever he is wearing before he says anything and kiss him.
Then start walking away from him, after couple of steps, turn your head halfway and look at him. You got his interest now, what you do next is up to you.


Now since you are don't have courage to do something this outrageously cool and interesting, how about doing something more convenient?

Maybe walking up to him when he is more or less free and just talk about shit that does not matter. Try leading your conversation in direction of your classmates and use this opportunity to ask if there is somebody in class/school that he likes.
If he says "There is someone", your heart will stop for a moment and your palms will start sweating, because, what if it is not you? It does not really matter, you get the opportunity to probe further into the subject and figure out just how much he likes that somebody else and if you have any chances at all.
If he isn't a dimwit he will come around to ask you the same question and here you will have full creative freedom. You can outright tell him that you like him or you can do something much better. Lean against him, preferably his chest and tell him playfully "Maybe" or "Who knows?".


Anyhow, both of the suggestions will probably render your target speechless and cause him to panic. So you have to be prepared to handle whatever happens next. But the outcome will be either REALLY REALLY good or bad.


There is a couple of complications that should be taken into consideration, if you are 15 as your profile says you are, then he might be just as old as you are. Since you did not say much about yourself or him I am going to generalize and assume that he is either the coolest guy in the class or a jerk. My point being is that young boys are not the most mature creatures and some of them don't even mature with age, he may or may not respond romantically to your feelings. All he could be thinking about is sex when and if he accepts your feelings, so just make sure not to get yourself hurt.


Whatever approach you choose, good luck with your confession. Don't be afraid, you can do it and whatever happens happens, it might hurt for a bit and then you will have a crush on someone else, that's ABC of being young for you ;)

If the question of "What if he rejects me" is still bothering you, then I ask of thee "What if Maya's was right and the world will soon end?"
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Just say it.
Posted 12/4/12

Winterfells wrote:

- Find him and pull him aside privately (at a party, in between classes, during lunch).
(This is more intimate and more respectful, you're not putting him on the spot)

- Make small talk, joke around, keep the mood light and comfortable, share some laughs.
(Most people react to being pulled aside by being tense, it's like "what's wrong?" so you need to put them at ease)

- Tell him that you always have so much fun when you're with him and that he makes you feel comfortable when he's around.
(If you jump in cold turkey and tell him you like him, it might shock him and take him aback so you need to let him know that you feel differently about him than other boys and lead him to the next natural conclusion)

- Let him know you like him, that you've been interested in him.
(Put it as sweetly and as non-assuming as you can, let him absorb the information at his own pace)

- Tell him that if he wants, you and him should hang out soon, and do something fun.
(Say this with confidence, sound excited but not over-eager, so he'll understand that if he rejects you, it won't devastate you and you could just move on)

- Give him a smile, walk away, look back at him, and leave.
(At this point, if he's interested, he'll meet you halfway)


ahem is that your experience? it sounds like a really good advice. what I did before and only once was being his friends for a year and my friend helped me haha I just don't have the guts. on the first date, he asked me about my feelings and I said yes! sometimes your friends can help. so don't be shy to share with good friends. but best not to those that tease you all the time. it might make the both of you awkward and decided no party will initiate
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