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How long does it take you to move on?
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Posted 4/1/13
Less than a week
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It depends on the person you broke up with. how close the 2 of you were, and how you both broke up.
With the person i was dating last i literally cried my eyes out for 2 days straight, spent a week not talking to anybody and then Black ops 2 came out and i was all better lol

But the person i dated in 10th grade (that was like 4 years ago) it took my like 2 year? i STILL sort of have feeling for the person, like i don't sit down and pray/wish for me and the person to be together but if they approached me and said they wanted to give it another shot I would be lying if i said i wouldn't think about it......... out relationship ended VERY extreamly, awkwardly, and everything. There was some 3rd party involved that was trying to press charges on something someone said i said. I had therapy session for the rest of that year, and I was put on the "watch/ red flag" list at my school. They thought i was going to break down and shoot the school up or something but i just wanted to put all that stuff behind me..... hopefully one day somebody can make a movie on the parts that i cant put here
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Posted 4/1/13
for me it depends on the guy I dated, how long, and my feelings I had for him, most of my past ex bf, I moved on a few day-1 week, but my newest breakup, this one is taking me much longer, mostly b/c of all the guys I had dated, this one I cared the most for, so it hurt the most for me, even thought it been over a month ago, i'm still a bit hurt from it, and having some time moving on, I'm doing the best I can to move on, talking to new ppl, but still i'm not a 100% yet, and may not be for some time, the only thing that can help is the next guy I date needs to be even better and really get me to forget my ex.
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So, my "thought to be" girlfriend spend her week long spring break at my house, on my bed, and I got the couch. During the break, found out that she had sex with another guy the day before she was suppose to take a 7 hours long train to my house.

So, I was mad/angry/frustrated/confused/-insert adjective-. I didn't tell her that I found out about it, I just kept it to myself. I never talked to her again and ignored her for the rest of her spring break.

Women are such troublesome creatures.
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27 / M / Norway
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Posted 4/1/13
3 years. Yeah that one. Ugh. It's fine now! Ready to go again!
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26 / F / Indiana, USA
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Posted 4/1/13
It varies. Guys I didn't have much of a connection to, not much time. But the more serious ones, a good few months.
Posted 4/1/13
I was in a relationship for 12 yrs..took me a year to start dating again but haven't been in a serious relationship since then and that was over 3 yrs ago. Don't want a serious relationship either. I don't think its possible at this stage in my life.
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83 / F / Bite the pillow.
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Posted 4/1/13
Seventeen minutes, 43 seconds, and two Marlboro reds.
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22 / M / TX, USA
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At the most four years. At the least a day or so. Given the reason why all other times after the four one will always be short since that break up nothing has ever felt real again. She was the literal definition of the one that got away for me.. Okay enough of this...
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Posted 4/1/13
Only after I see another fascinating individual~
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Posted 4/1/13

ninjagirls wrote:

I saw the breakup thread/topic by wwe and wanted to ask after the breakup how long does it normally take you to move on and start dating again?

How long does it take to order another drink?
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Posted 4/1/13
Entirely depends on the intimacy of the relationship and how long you were in it.
Like many on here, it could only be a few days or a few months for me.
Though I have a tendency to say screw it and stop dating after a few failures.
After all, life is far less emotionally complicated when you don't give a s##t about anyone.
Then so many months/years later someone sparks my interest and I find myself all wrapped up in that crap again.
Posted 4/1/13
a week.
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21 / M / Canada eh
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Posted 4/2/13
Depends on how close I was to the individual.

If I only knew the person for about 2-3 weeks, then fk it, next person in line please.
If it's for about 5+ years, it'll obviously take more time to get over it.
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25 / F / USA
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Posted 4/2/13
No long. its whatever
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