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Most guys are horny - Agree or Disagree ?
Posted 3/7/13
Maybe it just depends if you, yourself is a horny person. Maybe the people you have seen or have been with just didn't meet up to your standards in the sexual department, so you go off on a forum like this and say how men aren't horny.

But on the other hand you meet someone more horny then you, so you come here and say how all guys are horny when you tally it off in your head.


The fuck.
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Posted 3/7/13
>_> I wouldn't say one gender is more horny over the other. Just depends on the person. Sometimes I'm in the mood, sometimes I'm not.
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Agree.
Posted 3/7/13 , edited 3/7/13
Are most guys horny? Yeah, i guess so. I know when i went to High School all I heard about was people having sex, porn, and all this other stuff from all the dudes in my classes. So I would say guys are subjected to it 24/7 so I guess it would start to be conditioned on our minds to think about it a lot more than we normally would. But even though I think of sex I don't plan on having it for a while because I'm wanting to wait. So I've definitely toned down how much I think about it but it's just a natural function as a human being to let it cross your mind every now and then. But yeah. I believe guys generally are more horny from what I know from the guys side of it. But I can't speak for the girls side. i don't know what girls are subjected to. Like if they talk about or hear about it all the time.
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Posted 3/7/13

Nyuboom wrote:

This topic is making me...oh.


I lol'd
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Posted 3/7/13

Shrapnel893 wrote:


Nyuboom wrote:

Maybe it just depends if you, yourself is a horny person. Maybe the people you have seen or have been with just didn't meet up to your standards in the sexual department, so you go off on a forum like this and say how men aren't horny.

But on the other hand you meet someone more horny then you, so you come here and say how all guys are horny when you tally it off in your head.


The fuck.




????????????? I don't get you.. :o
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Posted 3/7/13
Depends on person.
so semi-agree?
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Posted 3/7/13
.....i'm glad that other people have said somewhat no. it's true that it depend on the person. Sex drive is determined by each person, so essentially, this is wrong and right. I for one, can easily not be "horny" just cause i haven't had sex or had done other things. I also don't think of it all the time. Even now i'm actually thinking of what i'm writing instead of anything else. More so i tend to be writing and other things. And in my free time i still am thinking..

In the end, i think this topic is kinda out there but i will have to say no. i think there is just as many horny men as their are women. Just one side shows it more then others. XD or in other words are hated on more about it then others. =D
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Posted 3/8/13 , edited 3/8/13

To stargazers7 Posted 12/15/12
No discussion-from puberty to brain death.



To "brain death"? Ever hear of "angel lust"?

You guys are slowly getting it, yes. When you ask a question like this, you are asking for a long answere because you don't realise that maaaany things are at play, here. I'll try to make it as short as can be.

1) Everyone is slightly different. Everyone is born and brought up with different... let's call them "stats" just like in Dungeons and Dragons. ...or any one of your favorite RPG. Sexual drive is not part of games, but it is part of the human experience for you and me.

2) When you feel that "everyone" is or behaves in a certain way, especially apparent when you don't like it, this is because of the clash in different "stats". If your stat is 2 out of 10 for sex drive, then a 3, a 4, etc. will appear to *you* a being way too much. Imagine encoutering a 10. This also can be said of a 7 encoutering a 3, for example. The 7 will think the 3 is laaaaaame! But it's not bad, it's just a clash of difference. You simply need to find someone who is closer to your own stat to better match, like 1 or 2 notches above or below you personal stat.

3) While there are generalizations we can make out from groups, the bigger the group, the more arguable your statement will be. Remember that all is perception.

4) Through my own experience, I have seen the effect of age and stress on libido. Yes, when you grow up, you are charged with more responsibility and this will lower your sex drive, or rather, it will be put aside for later. Putting your libido asode for later, though, also results in frustration and looking for easier answers which require less effort, because you're already spending 24/7 worrying about stuff and making huge efforts to make a living, you tend to not go after any extra drama or physical strain (because, *sometimes*, the guys have to do everything in bed and it's freaking exhausting!). But also, sometimes and depending on the mental and/or physical health of the person (this varies from hour to hour, day to day, person to person, etc.), even with fatigue and sublimation of the libido, there are occasions when your libido is let loose and basically explodes! That may be the case when a new flirt comes along or something.

5) Both genders' genitals work and *react* differently to sex. Males' are like canons. Always ready but need time to reload. Just like a lot of the male thought, it's like binary. It's ones and zeros. You either are ready or you're not. Females' have different... aspects of maintenance and use (I can't find the word I'm looking for). Females also have a "reloading" time dues to a) chafing and b) ...that monthly time. About the chafing (you can't continuously rub flesh without it becoming damaged, so take it easy), in my knowledge, girls can have a longer "sexy time" because of the way they experience pleasure/climax/orgasm and the way their bodies regenerate, or reload. Let's say, for AN EXAMPLE, that a girl may have sex for 2 hours, then reload for a few other hours, while a guy will "come to fruition" (LOL) after... 30 minutes, and then will need at least 15 minutes to reload. Because of the "clash of stats", some women may think that guys are always turned on.

6) If you are sexually frustrated, or frustrated otherwise in your life (because, maybe, of a bad sexual experience, or because you feel you are physically unappealing), you may not feel the need for sex. In this case, you may be a "natural" 5 (sex drive), but you life experience and your brain force you down to a "1" to protect your feelings. This is a problem for you if this is the case, because you will, again, that everyone around you only thinks about sex, and that will rub you the wrong way even more.

Nyuboom and CLarose have brought up some very good points. Thank you.
Hope that pretty much covers it. ^_^
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