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Is it OK to like more than one person at the same time?
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Posted 12/19/12
Just being curious! I'd love to hear your opinion! Yes/No/Depends and Why for your post. おねがい! (Please! )
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chantillychan722 wrote:

Just being curious! I'd love to hear your opinion! Yes/No/Depends and Why for your post. おねがい! (Please! )
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Liking more than one person at a time and having sex with more than one person at a time are 2 completely different concepts.

The sooner you accept that, although the person you are committed to in return has committed themselves to you, they still have desires for anything 'beautiful' beyond yourself, the easier the relationship will be. The concept of love and marriage is not to blind yourself to the world for one person, but to love that one person and be with them, in spite of the beauty of the world. Once you get that carnal lust under control and devoted, it's fine to enjoy the company of others as well, so long as you aren't having sex with them.


does that makes sense?
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Depends on your defenition of love.

If I love one person, and I know it's love. I will be strictly loyal to her.

However, there are other ways people define love, that is translated to lust.
I can lust more than 15 tabs opened on my browser at a time.
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Johnny Depp - "if you love two people at the same time, choose the second. Because if you really loved the first one, you wouldn't have fallen for the second."

Enuff said.
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No worries not sleeping with any of them at all... lol just a crush-confusion but I really like the advice! Thanks! And just Thanks everyone who posted really insightful stuff. ^_^
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Posted 12/20/12
Scientifically yes, it's ok.

We're not programmed to be monogamous.
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Posted 12/20/12
Yes totally, but when in a relationship, I think it becomes more of a problem then -.-


Keha7 wrote:

Johnny Depp - "if you love two people at the same time, choose the second. Because if you really loved the first one, you wouldn't have fallen for the second."

Enuff said.


That's just an awesome quote xD This:)
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It really depends on the situation. If you're just confused, then of course it's ok. The only problem with that is if you're in a semi-serious relationship (that could be considered cheating I guess?).

But yeah, I think it's just fine. So long as you're not confessing to both of them at the same time or anything lol.
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Keha7 wrote:

Johnny Depp - "if you love two people at the same time, choose the second. Because if you really loved the first one, you wouldn't have fallen for the second."

Enuff said.


Haha, so simple yet so amusing.
Posted 12/20/12
Yeah it's just like. But if you're taken and you're up with something bad like cheating on your lover, that's wrong
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I don't seem why it would ever be a problem to like more than one person. Even if you're in a relationship, I don't see why it would ever be a problem to just like someone. If you act on it without even mentioning it to your current partner, yeah that may be a problem, but just thinking about it really isn't that big of a deal.
Same goes for actually being with more than one person. As long as everyone in that relationship is accepting of it, it's not really an issue.
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i dont think its possible to like 2 people at the same time! there must be one that u like more than the other i think....
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seostar wrote:

i dont think its possible to like 2 people at the same time! there must be one that u like more than the other i think....


I certainly hope so.
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It's just for people who don't have commitment.
Posted 12/20/12
It is perfectly okay

unless you are dating both at the same time (/_-)

or if you like your boyfriend and his best friend >_< that's just wrong.
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