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Post Reply Staying friends with your ex
Posted 3/16/13

Nyuboom wrote:

Why do I read this lol




or something like that
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Posted 3/16/13
Its alright.
Posted 3/16/13

Sociopa wrote:


Nyuboom wrote:

Why do I read this lol




or something like that


You are so very spot on lol
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Posted 3/16/13
Just for you!
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Posted 4/2/13
I stayed friends with my ex. Much to the displeasure of the guy I dated after him. We were together for a long time and our lives were very much enmeshed. We had the same friends, hung out at the same places, were very close to each others families, and had just plain been through a lot together. Even if we will never be romantic again I know I can still count on him. Out of respect for the relationship we had, we worked very hard to be friends. But we did take some time right after the the relationship ended to be bitchy to one another and make all our friends uncomfortable. I tell any guy I date right off the bat that I hate jealousy, we are still friends, deal with it, or don't date me.
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Posted 4/2/13
It really depends on the person. I'm friends with all but one of my exes.
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Posted 4/2/13
Only have one ex, we decided to be friends. Over 5 years.....I'm the only one who's been starting conversations or messaging when it's not a birthday/holiday.

Not really a friendship when I think about it but whatever.
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Posted 4/3/13
I think it is a bad idea to stay friend with your ex.
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Posted 4/3/13
I'm trying to be, but she's very immiture.
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Posted 4/3/13
Urgh, I dated a boy for four years and he ended up sleeping with my best friend.
So, no, we didn't stay friends. It was too painful to be around him and have those memories all in my face.
Even if it was just a short time, it would be too awkward for me. I guess I'm kinda serious about love and dating, though.
It depends on the personalities of the people involved, I suppose.
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Posted 4/3/13

bbbbbbbbbb wrote:

I think it is a bad idea to stay friend with your ex.


Nah i dont think so...i have only one ex,and we are good friends even now.It's something special though i must admit....i have not it in me to love someone that deeply anymore.
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not really. after awhile i tried to have as little contact with her as possible. unless she would try to talk to me and even then i would be thinking, "stop bugging me"
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Posted 4/3/13

Jan- wrote:


bbbbbbbbbb wrote:

I think it is a bad idea to stay friend with your ex.


Nah i dont think so...i have only one ex,and we are good friends even now.It's something special though i must admit....i have not it in me to love someone that deeply anymore.



Exactly. You can not forget them and you walk around and think that you can not love anyone else more. I assume you do not have a lover right now?
The feeling that your lover have contact with someone he or she has been intimate with etc. is not a good feeling. And the thought of them being close friends is even worse.

This is, of course, only my opinion, and I can't speak for everyone.
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Posted 4/3/13
I think it can be a good thing. That being said, I find it very difficult to do so.
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Posted 4/3/13
I think that rarely works out..
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