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Staying friends with your ex
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no no no nooo!!!!!
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21 / M / Melbourne, Australia
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Didn't really work for me, too much awkward for my liking.
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27 / M / with Ashy Larry r...
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I stay away from that. They try to come back too often as it is. Ugh. Don't wanna give those bitches hope.
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100 / F / Ozone
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I still stay friends-yes.But it does take time to clear the air after you break up, it's awkward for awhile. If they want to come back I just pull out my mental file of transgressions and reply- "you mean it was good for you!" What I liked about him is still there,and I will listen to his problems and give his mother rides while he can fix my car and help me move-lol. You can be amiable with your ex.
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The doom. Men are like vending cups. Who keeps them?


stargazers7 wrote:

I still stay friends-yes.But it does take time to clear the air after you break up, it's awkward for awhile. If they want to come back I just pull out my mental file of transgressions and reply- "you mean it was good for you!" What I liked about him is still there,and I will listen to his problems and give his mother rides while he can fix my car and help me move-lol. You can be amiable with your ex.


You're wise as you're old mum. Shhhh.
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Not a fan.
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Posted 2/15/13

ursae wrote:

The doom. Men are like vending cups. Who keeps them?


stargazers7 wrote:

I still stay friends-yes.But it does take time to clear the air after you break up, it's awkward for awhile. If they want to come back I just pull out my mental file of transgressions and reply- "you mean it was good for you!" What I liked about him is still there,and I will listen to his problems and give his mother rides while he can fix my car and help me move-lol. You can be amiable with your ex.


You're wise as you're old mum. Shhhh.


Yep-can't think of a better teacher than a few rides on the merry-go-round-and I'm even wiser than I am older -sometimes.
Posted 2/15/13
After some time I guess, but it really depends on the person.
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Nope. No reason to. Even if you've been with them for ages.
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26 / M / Pocatello, Idaho
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It really depends on the person and whether or not either of you can handle that emotionally. It's best to give things time to settle before trying to be friends again. It may be rough, but it is possible.
Posted 2/15/13
It's never worked for me, but I think that's because they've all been assholes. I have one who I don't think treated me too fairly, but I don't feel that he did it on purpose, and so I've tried to be friends with him. He just doesn't seem like he believes it's a good idea.
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Usually, when my ex has another girlfriend, it's less awkward for me to be around them. But, I'm only friends with one of my exes... But he's actually one of my best friends. We party together. And sometimes we jam together, (I'm a bassist, ^_^), and he has a girlfriend, so I find myself being less awkward around him.
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I'm friends with most of my ex's. The only ones that I'm not friends with are probably the ones I had terrible breakups/endings with.
Posted 2/15/13
Friends with all of them. I never acted like a bitch so we're all cool...
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29 / M / Winnipeg, Manitoba
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It all depends on how the relationship ended. Typically if it was one-sided it is very difficult to stay friends, if both sides were sort of in agreement that it just wasn't working... then it can be possible...
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