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Janne24 wrote:
i have too of a bad memory to hold grudges =D
Yeah me too. comes from getting old. besides. Grudges are SOOOOO tiring.
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However I will add there's a difference between holding a grudge and checking your back to see that there's no new knives sticking out of it.
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I dont know if girls hold grudges any longer than guys, for example when i was a kid i wanted a mister frosty icecream maker, i waited 6 years for it and when i got it.... it was crap, I'm still angry at toys R us now and i'm 23 XD however i've never slapped toys R us, hit it in its manhood or called it's new girlfriend to warn her what a jerk it is...
so thier grudegs may not be longer but they are probably harsher "Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned" as they say XD
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I bought cupcakes for the makers of ME 3. Does that count?
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So, they can get back at you..when you least expect it
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i consider myself too young to hold long grudges, but u never know. in the future i might be the bitchiest girl you'll ever meet who remembers even the slightest thing from years ago. i haven't been hurt badly enough to hold a serious grudge and hope this won't change. to answer your question, "females" are stereotypically and maybe hormonally more sensitive than "males", but anyone can be a grudge holder. gender doesn't control if they are one. it's just one of the variables u can change to make a question like this. why do younger/older/rich/poor/etc hold grudges for so long?
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Because they think its pride lmfao.
Nah baby nah.
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Most people are very immature and take little things far too seriously. There are very few real problems for most people and a large majority of so called issues are just superficial. A fool gives full vent to his spirit, but a wise man quietly holds it back.
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I think women are more committed or invested in their relationships with friends and family so their sense of betrayal is felt stronger.
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