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Why do Woman like mean guys? what makes bad good?
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So many AFC's, my god! Todays society is not about survival of the fittest, its about survival of the most social adapt. Nobody is born alpha, they become it and an average geek can be alpha too!
Pick a book called The Game and read it, true story.
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I wonder how many of the these 'nice' wallflower guys seem to think the women 'always' go for mean guys because they're only noticing the cheerleaders. Not the distaffian wallflowers.
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Lolololol The Game. What a douche.
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papagolfwhiskey wrote:

I wonder how many of the these 'nice' wallflower guys seem to think the women 'always' go for mean guys because they're only noticing the cheerleaders. Not the distaffian wallflowers.


You mean, the nice guys are only noticing the cheerleaders right? I've met some really down to earth and friendly cheerleaders - the type that choose who they like not based on image. Anywho, that really has nothing to with what you're talking about, but yes I don't think 'nice guys' really notice the 'nice girls' around them, usually. If you catch my meaning.
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papagolfwhiskey wrote:

I try to live by a philosophy of wish an 'enemy' a happy life FAR from mine. Still the temptation to shadenfrued especially in the case of someone whom you feel has done you wrong is strong. The more so when you can point to their own behavior and believe they reaped what they have sown.
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I wonder how many of the these 'nice' wallflower guys seem to think the women 'always' go for mean guys because they're only noticing the cheerleaders. Not the distaffian wallflowers.

I know I'm all sorts of Fifty Shadens of Freude, and I'm okay with that.

They do reap what they sow because it is their decisions that shape their lives, not my wishes, good or bad; whether or not I would piss on them if they were on fire is of little consequence.
Except of course to them in the event they ever happen to actually be on fire at my feet...
...but if that's the case, why would I attempt to douse the flames from someone I clearly just set ablaze?
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Back to the topic, I absolutely agree that these self-appointed nice guys often only pay any attention to females who are well-aware they receive the adorations of most men they meet and fully use that to their advantage. Alternate title for this thread: "Why do "nice" guys only try to date manipulative bitches and then not understand how she could do this to him?"
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Conditioning and lack of respect taught on a realistic basis or the female is just flat out naive and has learned enough yet about the real world yet or they have suffered a history of abuse and hasn't been doubt with in the present leaving them in a state of denial and self punishment or they don't care and like it which is sometimes the truth. Being a bad boy is fake and lame as shit its all insecure bullshit and bad for yah, if you are a nice person and it deflects the opposite sex its not you, its them for being caught in the same trap many others are facing right now.
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Posted 3/29/13
Nice guys are too emotional. Girls like when guys take charge.
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Posted 3/30/13 , edited 3/30/13
Mostly everyone else raised a good point or two, or thirty. If you don't feel like being a nice guy isn'y working out for you, become an asshole. It's so much simpler then "I can't treat people badly, that would be wrong and immoral."
Walk over the people you have to and do what you need to do, either way in another 200 years no one will remember or care.
Posted 3/30/13
It is a sickness. Mean men show dominance. I mean c'mon, who wants a weak man who can't stand up for you or himself. Yeah sure, he is a dick from time to time, but if you think about it, every single woman at one point has been a total bitch. You can't blame a man for being a man and vice versa. Mean men have their good sides also.
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WHAT WOMAN SAYS "I WANT AN ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIP?" No one. No one. Okay? Women want to date nice guys. But why do most nice guys remain ignored? For some other reason!
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Posted 3/30/13

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Because most nice guys are spineless pussies.


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Posted 3/31/13
They like 'em to be studs.
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Posted 3/31/13
Because most nice guys are wussy and whine too much about things? Women like men who don't whine. That's their job :-D
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Posted 3/31/13 , edited 3/31/13
It's not that the guy is mean. It's that girls 'dig' dominance. It's in our human nature to want the 'alpha'. Mean guys protrude their dominance over others by acting like arseholes. That's what girls like, well when they're younger hence the term 'treat em' mean keep em' keen'

They grow out of it.
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Posted 3/31/13
Well I don't . At all. Girls like bad Boys But Mean ...? Well Uhm... IDK !
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