First  Prev  1  2  3  4  5  6  7  8  9  10  11  12  13  14  15  16  17  Next  Last
Why do Woman like mean guys? what makes bad good?
6457 cr points
Send Message: Send PM GB Post
100 / M / in the underworld...
Offline
Posted 12/20/12

SatinChic wrote:

Cheating is a no-no, but hitting? "LET'S DANCE!".

Maybe it's just me, but I like a guy that fights back and doesn't allow me to trample him.

I'm not attracted to pansies.



what about also fights for you, I admit am pig headed and dont let people push me around as you sais guys who cheat or hit girls well should be beat up by a girl chaaaa female avenger of justice . i dont think full nice guys should be push overs.
24725 cr points
Send Message: Send PM GB Post
F / Urban South
Offline
Posted 12/20/12

darkangel09rose wrote:
your right, i guys time is a factor with a safe place at the end of the road is she needs one what do you think about if reversed the a guy picking a mean girl and a girl dosnt understand why it happens that way too

I'm not quite sure what you're asking but I think that people can be abusive or abused regardless of their gender, and can get entrenched in the same circular abusive relationships as well. However, men are larger and stronger than women, and SO much more likely to be physically abusive. Men almost never get hospitalized, scarred, or killed by abusive female partners, but domestic violence is the leading cause of injury to women, and women are more likely to be raped and/or killed by their boyfriend/husband than anyone else.

I don't hate men, and I don't think anyone could call me a feminist with a straight face, but being concerned about female on male domestic violence is like listening to Glenn Beck discuss reverse racism - pretty pointless. Yeah, it may have happened once or twice, but not enough to be statistically significant.
6457 cr points
Send Message: Send PM GB Post
100 / M / in the underworld...
Offline
Posted 12/20/12
where are to girls who like shy guys, shy guys ushally are nice were are the guys who like shy girls like a fourm showed there was allot. they don't post on h this post i see. I been waing for 1 of them or a person who says its not true that girls dont like that type of men i thought adults would stand up for the little guy and see people who seek abusiver partners as childish that a hole need to get the act right am not talking bad boys cause badboys rule being confadent dos not turn all guys mean too girls i would be surprised if a nice guy suports a nice guys but nice guys dont like conflict or normally dont stand up for there selfs or the girl who has a nice guy bf or hubby and loves them for it, i cant claim to be a nice guy for am a badboy but am not an jerk either. i stand up to people and for what i believe in i wont let bullys bullys i usedto get in allot of fights i stand up for the little guy i been the little guy i stand up for woman but they dont need a guys help woman are stronger than you think
42580 cr points
Send Message: Send PM GB Post
31 / M / So Cal
Offline
Posted 12/20/12
If you are easily offended and can't take a joke, please don't open the spoiler.



It's the alpha philosophy, a survival tool we still posses, left over from our more primitive days.
If he takes no shit and get what he wants, he'll provide for and protect you.
4540 cr points
Send Message: Send PM GB Post
Offline
Posted 12/20/12
15180 cr points
Send Message: Send PM GB Post
27 / M
Offline
Posted 12/20/12 , edited 12/20/12
Because most "nice" guys are actually just manipulative jerks who want to get into a girl's pants by pretending to be her friend or enjoy spending time with her.

A real man is one who displays his intentions FROM THE START and goes after what he wants. If he's met with rejection he accepts it and moves on to someone else. If you don't have it in you to be up front with a girl you don't deserve to be with one.

Secret info: Women like sex and are sexually attracted to men as well. Moreso than physical they're attracted emotionally.

Which do you think is sexier? A guy who acts like your friend and makes absolutely no advances until 7 months down the line. A guy that buys you stuff and acts like you're worth more than him and he has to buy your affection. Or a guy that has his stuff together and considers that you could be an inclusion to his life but the not most important thing in it?

3rd one. He has a mission/purpose outside of a relation, he's good with himself, doesn't need to buy her things, doesn't need to pretend to be her friend- he's just interested in sharing a good time with her.

Mean and dominant behavior are 2 different things.

Edit: I have to be honest man. Reading your thread and attempting to comprehend your blocks of text with absolutely no punctuation or any semblance of sentence structure makes me want to Alt F4 my browser and go do some meditation. You owe the English language an apology.
2063 cr points
Send Message: Send PM GB Post
M / Cali
Offline
Posted 12/20/12
Its just like how men like the slutty women, some are just that easy to get with.

There are some women out there who would go for the nice guys with agendas, and not always the bad boy types who have no drive in life.

Call it preference. The girls who dress really nice are the ones who are easy to get along with and down to earth. The ones who think they are the hottest and only use their looks for advancements are ones i'll avoid.
11706 cr points
Send Message: Send PM GB Post
28 / M / Seattle
Offline
Posted 12/20/12
because media tells us douchebags are cool.
6457 cr points
Send Message: Send PM GB Post
100 / M / in the underworld...
Offline
Posted 12/20/12

mhibicke wrote:


darkangel09rose wrote:
your right, i guys time is a factor with a safe place at the end of the road is she needs one what do you think about if reversed the a guy picking a mean girl and a girl dosnt understand why it happens that way too

I'm not quite sure what you're asking but I think that people can be abusive or abused regardless of their gender, and can get entrenched in the same circular abusive relationships as well. However, men are larger and stronger than women, and SO much more likely to be physically abusive. Men almost never get hospitalized, scarred, or killed by abusive female partners, but domestic violence is the leading cause of injury to women, and women are more likely to be raped and/or killed by their boyfriend/husband than anyone else.

I don't hate men, and I don't think anyone could call me a feminist with a straight face, but being concerned about female on male domestic violence is like listening to Glenn Beck discuss reverse racism - pretty pointless. Yeah, it may have happened once or twice, but not enough to be statistically significant.


a not talking so much about abuse but asking you advise as you gave advise on what a nice guy should do that they should not push that she should leave, not picking him over the mean guy for he could become 1 but to wait and have a safe place as her friend if she needs it i wanted the other side of the coin what advise would you a girl. like a girl who cheats on her guy treats him bad and the sweet girl says why do you stay with her, thinks he can do better like her reminds me of a song http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Bg59q4puhmg theres to sides to every coin . I grow up with abused woman they say the mental abuse is worse and woman can be mentally abusive also woman are more intelligent than men and can do it better. woman are not as week as you may think. I would not underestimate them i know some strong woman who would tell you no way are they are weeker than guys and i agree in fact i think there not only mentally stronger but can take pain that would make a guy non stop crying men should never hit woman regardless if they think there weeker or stronger , in fact us as humans shouldn't treat any on bad or justifie any abuse you gave good advise so what about the flip side
6457 cr points
Send Message: Send PM GB Post
100 / M / in the underworld...
Offline
Posted 12/20/12





Havoc_360 wrote:

Its just like how men like the slutty women, some are just that easy to get with.

There are some women out there who would go for the nice guys with agendas, and not always the bad boy types who have no drive in life.

Call it preference. The girls who dress really nice are the ones who are easy to get along with and down to earth. The ones who think they are the hottest and only use their looks for advancements are ones i'll avoid.





Sky_Renzokuken wrote:

because media tells us douchebags are cool.


that hits it on the proverbial nail, i woner about that video if it always happens that way and the nice guys blind about the fact the nice girl likes him only if the nice guy and the nice girl end up together
24725 cr points
Send Message: Send PM GB Post
F / Urban South
Offline
Posted 12/20/12

darkangel09rose wrote:
...what advise would you a girl. like a girl who cheats on her guy treats him bad and the sweet girl says why do you stay with her, thinks he can do better like her...


Ah, um... Advice to a girl who wants to steal a guy from an abusive girlfriend? It's a terrible idea. He's in a painful relationship with a crazy b*tch because he's getting something out of it and it makes him happy, or because he can't leave (like maybe she has custody of their child, but is a drug addict). If the "nice" girl steals him nothing good will come of it. The abusive ex-girlfriend will probably just turn her insanity towards tormenting the "nice" girl. Isn't life hard enough? There's no reason to bring trouble home like that. If he's a worthwhile guy he will properly remove himself from the abusive relationship, and the "nice" girl has no real chance with him until he does.
2063 cr points
Send Message: Send PM GB Post
M / Cali
Offline
Posted 12/20/12

Sky_Renzokuken wrote:

because media tells us douchebags are cool.


Ditto.

Its just sad that people let the media decide for them, on who they should be, eat, drink, wear, have, etc.

6457 cr points
Send Message: Send PM GB Post
100 / M / in the underworld...
Offline
Posted 12/20/12

MBalance wrote:

Because most "nice" guys are actually just manipulative jerks who want to get into a girl's pants by pretending to be her friend or enjoy spending time with her.

A real man is one who displays his intentions FROM THE START and goes after what he wants. If he's met with rejection he accepts it and moves on to someone else. If you don't have it in you to be up front with a girl you don't deserve to be with one.

Secret info: Women like sex and are sexually attracted to men as well. Moreso than physical they're attracted emotionally.

Which do you think is sexier? A guy who acts like your friend and makes absolutely no advances until 7 months down the line. A guy that buys you stuff and acts like you're worth more than him and he has to buy your affection. Or a guy that has his stuff together and considers that you could be an inclusion to his life but the not most important thing in it?

3rd one. He has a mission/purpose outside of a relation, he's good with himself, doesn't need to buy her things, doesn't need to pretend to be her friend- he's just interested in sharing a good time with her.

Mean and dominant behavior are 2 different things.

Edit: I have to be honest man. Reading your thread and attempting to comprehend your blocks of text with absolutely no punctuation or any semblance of sentence structure makes me want to Alt F4 my browser and go do some meditation. You owe the English language an apology.


sorry bro not every one can have grate grammar, and grammar dos not dictate intelligence. seams your an insult to the human rase who should say sorry to man kind for you arrogance dont like it dont read or post thanks for your advise its a simple question. you jump to judge for one am not the nice guy far from it am a MMA fighter and help train others. what need do you have to insult some one asking a question guys like you act big and bad claim to be intelligent but in the cage they cry like a child. yes your intelligent but that gives you no right to be a dick. i asume you are that type of guy who feels he is owed everything who treats woman like meat and is verbally abusive. now how fun is it to judge from a note and asume things do your intell guy.. i agree with you i always state what i want nice guys dont know how to be manipulative they dont have that so called skill men shouldnt dance around your fight on that. but your not right in being a rude @SSH0LÊ
3076 cr points
Send Message: Send PM GB Post
25 / M / USA
Offline
Posted 12/20/12
Nice guys are not single, they are always taken. Guys with agendas and guys who are doormats are the ones complaining that they don't have a girlfriend, and before you call me an asshole, I was single for a long time because i was a doormat. It's something that you have to recognize in yourself and change. Since I've become a nice guy and not a doormat life has become a pretty sweet place to live. Oh and some girls like bad boys, but remember that real women look for a nice guy.
30688 cr points
Send Message: Send PM GB Post
17 / F / Alabama
Offline
Posted 12/20/12
ive always thought that it was because the girl thinks she can fix him so goes for him
First  Prev  1  2  3  4  5  6  7  8  9  10  11  12  13  14  15  16  17  Next  Last
You must be logged in to post.