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Why do Woman like mean guys? what makes bad good?
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Posted 12/20/12

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darkangel09rose wrote:
...what advise would you a girl. like a girl who cheats on her guy treats him bad and the sweet girl says why do you stay with her, thinks he can do better like her...


Ah, um... Advice to a girl who wants to steal a guy from an abusive girlfriend? It's a terrible idea. He's in a painful relationship with a crazy b*tch because he's getting something out of it and it makes him happy, or because he can't leave (like maybe she has custody of their child, but is a drug addict). If the "nice" girl steals him nothing good will come of it. The abusive ex-girlfriend will probably just turn her insanity towards tormenting the "nice" girl. Isn't life hard enough? There's no reason to bring trouble home like that. If he's a worthwhile guy he will properly remove himself from the abusive relationship, and the "nice" girl has no real chance with him until he does.


you said it right, your intelligent I enjoy your opinions there to the point and not rude, even if asumed you were never rude
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Because most "nice" guys are actually just manipulative jerks who want to get into a girl's pants by pretending to be her friend or enjoy spending time with her.

A real man is one who displays his intentions FROM THE START and goes after what he wants. If he's met with rejection he accepts it and moves on to someone else. If you don't have it in you to be up front with a girl you don't deserve to be with one.

Secret info: Women like sex and are sexually attracted to men as well. Moreso than physical they're attracted emotionally.

Which do you think is sexier? A guy who acts like your friend and makes absolutely no advances until 7 months down the line. A guy that buys you stuff and acts like you're worth more than him and he has to buy your affection. Or a guy that has his stuff together and considers that you could be an inclusion to his life but the not most important thing in it?

3rd one. He has a mission/purpose outside of a relation, he's good with himself, doesn't need to buy her things, doesn't need to pretend to be her friend- he's just interested in sharing a good time with her.

Mean and dominant behavior are 2 different things.

Edit: I have to be honest man. Reading your thread and attempting to comprehend your blocks of text with absolutely no punctuation or any semblance of sentence structure makes me want to Alt F4 my browser and go do some meditation. You owe the English language an apology.


sorry bro not every one can have grate grammar, and grammar dos not dictate intelligence. seams your an insult to the human rase who should say sorry to man kind for you arrogance dont like it dont read or post thanks for your advise its a simple question. you jump to judge for one am not the nice guy far from it am a MMA fighter and help train others. what need do you have to insult some one asking a question guys like you act big and bad claim to be intelligent but in the cage they cry like a child. yes your intelligent but that gives you no right to be a dick. i asume you are that type of guy who feels he is owed everything who treats woman like meat and is verbally abusive. now how fun is it to judge from a note and asume things do your intell guy.. i agree with you i always state what i want nice guys dont know how to be manipulative they dont have that so called skill men shouldnt dance around your fight on that. but your not right in being a rude @SSH0LÊ


If you can properly spell words in English- there's no excuse for not TRYING to separate sentences. It's not hard to use periods at the end of sentences and capitalize the first letter in a sentence. If you're on a forum, posting a thread, looking for answers then you should have the common DECENCY to make your posts readable to people on that forum. You're insulting everyone and anyone who lays eyes on your posts by not taking the very small amount of time necessary to hit the space bar/shift key.

You're 27 years old. Act like it. Show the board some respect.
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Posted 12/20/12

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Nice guys are not single, they are always taken. Guys with agendas and guys who are doormats are the ones complaining that they don't have a girlfriend, and before you call me an asshole, I was single for a long time because i was a doormat. It's something that you have to recognize in yourself and change. Since I've become a nice guy and not a doormat life has become a pretty sweet place to live. Oh and some girls like bad boys, but remember that real women look for a nice guy.


Your not an assHole your right, you opinion makes grate since and you didnt asume this post was about me. I just wanted to know a simple question my friends are nice guys some door mats people hide under the nice guy name with agendas your right they do
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It could be that the women who end up with the nasty guys may not be so nice themselves.
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Posted 12/20/12

MBalance wrote:


darkangel09rose wrote:


MBalance wrote:

Because most "nice" guys are actually just manipulative jerks who want to get into a girl's pants by pretending to be her friend or enjoy spending time with her.

A real man is one who displays his intentions FROM THE START and goes after what he wants. If he's met with rejection he accepts it and moves on to someone else. If you don't have it in you to be up front with a girl you don't deserve to be with one.

Secret info: Women like sex and are sexually attracted to men as well. Moreso than physical they're attracted emotionally.

Which do you think is sexier? A guy who acts like your friend and makes absolutely no advances until 7 months down the line. A guy that buys you stuff and acts like you're worth more than him and he has to buy your affection. Or a guy that has his stuff together and considers that you could be an inclusion to his life but the not most important thing in it?

3rd one. He has a mission/purpose outside of a relation, he's good with himself, doesn't need to buy her things, doesn't need to pretend to be her friend- he's just interested in sharing a good time with her.

Mean and dominant behavior are 2 different things.

Edit: I have to be honest man. Reading your thread and attempting to comprehend your blocks of text with absolutely no punctuation or any semblance of sentence structure makes me want to Alt F4 my browser and go do some meditation. You owe the English language an apology.


sorry bro not every one can have grate grammar, and grammar dos not dictate intelligence. seams your an insult to the human rase who should say sorry to man kind for you arrogance dont like it dont read or post thanks for your advise its a simple question. you jump to judge for one am not the nice guy far from it am a MMA fighter and help train others. what need do you have to insult some one asking a question guys like you act big and bad claim to be intelligent but in the cage they cry like a child. yes your intelligent but that gives you no right to be a dick. i asume you are that type of guy who feels he is owed everything who treats woman like meat and is verbally abusive. now how fun is it to judge from a note and asume things do your intell guy.. i agree with you i always state what i want nice guys dont know how to be manipulative they dont have that so called skill men shouldnt dance around your fight on that. but your not right in being a rude @SSH0LÊ


If you can properly spell words in English- there's no excuse for not TRYING to separate sentences. It's not hard to use periods at the end of sentences and capitalize the first letter in a sentence. If you're on a forum, posting a thread, looking for answers then you should have the common DECENCY to make your posts readable to people on that forum. You're insulting everyone and anyone who lays eyes on your posts by not taking the very small amount of time necessary to hit the space bar/shift key.

You're 27 years old. Act like it. Show the board some respect.

not everyone is good in english just like math. its not an insault, if you get offended by that you got problems. You really do,Look at other post there not perfect. Are you this rude to every one? do you make it a point to be a jerk? aslong as the topic is coved who are we to judge people on such faults. This is america land of the free, people have a right to write how they feel like it, really guy are you for real act you age not like some judgmental kid. who are you too tell me or any one else I cant write the way i do serious d you serch out people with bad grammar and insault, there is no use arguing with a person who thinks there surperior
because of a talent they have that others may not have. I wash my hands of your delusional misguided preconceptions. go on sit on you high horse write back with more misguided insaults if you wish, but i won't play your childish games
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Posted 12/20/12

Uncle_Enzo wrote:

It could be that the women who end up with the nasty guys may not be so nice themselves.


vary good view
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i like to consider myself as a nice guy and if a woman doesnt like me the way i am then shes not the one for me
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Posted 12/20/12
It just shows you cant please everybody out there. Some just have their preferences and others will not see the same.

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_RAUL_ wrote:

i like to consider myself as a nice guy and if a woman doesnt like me the way i am then shes not the one for me


True I feel the same way why bother there is some one who will like you for you?
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Posted 12/20/12

Havoc_360 wrote:

It just shows you cant please everybody out there. Some just have their preferences and others will not see the same.



glad to here that view its refreshing to know there is some one with a optimistic view
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Okay, heres my take. Women are genetically "wired" to go after the toughest male they can find. Basically the one that stands out the most, or the "alpha" male. Kind of like in a pack of wolves, this would be the strongest, loudest motherf*****. What I don't get is, why they still think like this. Nowadays, it's the smart, nice, smart dudes that are the "alpha"males as we are the ones who have a higher chance of survival due to the fact that we would be able to find better jobs and such.
Anyways thats my take on it, more or less. Though it kind of sounds like bs now that I think about it lol.
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im already lucky enough to have someone who loves me for who i am and i wish the best of luck to the rest of you
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I'm a nice guy and I ended up with the girl of my dreams
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Posted 12/20/12

SlimShadyDogg wrote:

Okay, heres my take. Women are genetically "wired" to go after the toughest male they can find. Basically the one that stands out the most, or the "alpha" male. Kind of like in a pack of wolves, this would be the strongest, loudest motherf*****. What I don't get is, why they still think like this. Nowadays, it's the smart, nice, smart dudes that are the "alpha"males as we are the ones who have a higher chance of survival due to the fact that we would be able to find better jobs and such.
Anyways thats my take on it, more or less. Though it kind of sounds like bs now that I think about it lol.


so true because now wits is better for survival, your in take shows wisdom.
Posted 12/20/12 , edited 12/20/12

YoGi1989 wrote:

I'm a nice guy and I ended up with the girl of my dreams


A lesson for us all.


If the girl is fucked up, she likes the bad manipulative guys.
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