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Why do Woman like mean guys? what makes bad good?
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Posted 12/21/12

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Wow. This thread should have ended with the first reply it received, but since this stinking non-factual piece of shit is still here, what the hell? Sure, I'm in (said no beta, ever.)

Unless you made a habit of sleeping in between your buddy and your wife, you don't know shit about how their relationship really worked. Ever consider that maybe your buddy fails at laying pipe? Do you have sex with him to check?

You and your buddies consider yourselves nice guys... really. Well, that's cool, I consider myself the Queen of the World, I'm glad that everyone's self-perceptions are now fact.

Mad love for the guys who said women are bigger cheats... It's time for a biology lesson, gather around kiddies. A man's biological process of ensuring the continuation of his DNA is to procreate with as many females of the species as possible. Women, however, seek out a partner who's DNA will improve upon her own through reproduction. That is why men have a constant supply of sperm (made fresh daily, like donuts) throughout their lives, whereas women start out with a finite number of eggs at birth and that number will decrease over the course of her lifespan. Even biologically, you are the less faithful sex of the species.

itt : A shit ton of cryin-ass betas doing what they do best. This is what solidifies your rank among the lower tier of men.

The true sign you're betas? You think every single alpha who takes a chick from you is a woman-beating asshole because it's the only way you can justify it to yourselves to preserve your fragile sense of self-esteem.


Well i for one hope you find your ideal mate.

Posted 12/21/12
I'm always doing bad things and I'm not exactly proud of it.
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Thinking someone is nice or mean is a perspective.
Physical attraction is also important to a lot of people. You may be super nice but what if you are boring and unattractive to your interest.
Posted 12/21/12
The bad boy gives you that thrill.
Its like living on the edge.
But nice guys will last longer so yeah.
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Mean guys are whimpering little babies on the inside with no balls.
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I don't think there is one answer. Some girl's think they can change these guys while others develop feelings before they know what they are really like. Probably the biggest problem is the "nice guys". we are not very desirable because we are usually ugly and shy, the latter being even worse for finding love. Douche's face rejection but don't let it deter them from their next conquest while shy guys are too scared of it to ask a girl out.
Posted 12/21/12

CalifCat wrote:

Mean guys are whimpering little babies on the inside with no balls.


I wish, at least I wouldn't have to keep scratching.
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Havoc_360 wrote:


Sky_Renzokuken wrote:

because media tells us douchebags are cool.


Ditto.

Its just sad that people let the media decide for them, on who they should be, eat, drink, wear, have, etc.



There is something you can do about it. WARNING: It's not pretty. If you want more info PM me
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Funions make bad boys look good
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From what I've seen, relationships not based on mutual respect and friendship tend to be abusive in some way, or one of the people in the relationship is there to feel superior to the other. Smart girl dates tough guy because girl is smarter than guy. Tough guy dates smart girl to put her in her place. Years of abuse and battle ensues, while both enjoy it thoroughly, and gain the attention of all of those around them.

The greatest relationship you can have, in my opinion, is one with a friend. The trick is, you meet a stranger, and then date them. From there, you learn about one another, and decided if its going to go anywhere. If not, break up and be friends. If it will, get engaged. Generally, if you insert sex during the 'dating' part of the relationship, you will screw up any possible friendship, especially if you end up not working out personality wise.

Anyhow, People generally aren't assholes. Most of these 'bad guys' you refer to are actually nice people, they just weren't made for the person they are with. This is something I generally attribute to great sex while dating becoming the reason for getting married, rather than any substance in the relationship.
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alniau wrote:

Funions make bad boys look good


Funions???


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actually its funyuns
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i heard this from somewhere: "Girls want a bad boy who will go good for them. Boys want a good girl who will go bad for them."

this is somewhat true to the point of wanting to change a person to prove that you are special. thinking that they will only change for you. other than that, personally i think it's evolution. the "stronger" male will get to mate and shit like that. however, nothing is strong or cool about a guy who mistreats his girl. same thing goes for the girls since anyone can be the bad one in a relationship.
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Depends on your definition of "nice", which you didn't define. Assuming it is the opposite of "bad guys", i.e. guys that don't abuse you, don't cheat and are respectful - well those guys do usually have successful relationships. However timid guys, where timidity is being substituted for "nice", often have issues with the first step and also might end-up unhappy in a relationship because they never make it clear what they want and thus never get what they want.

Believe it or now, the "bad guys" aspect of this conversation is actually more complicated. Assertive does not equal bad and I would hate to think assertive, confident guys everywhere were being seen as most likely to be abuse or cheat. In fact, if they are assertive they are more likely to let their wives/girlfriends know what they want and thus don't have to cheat. Because cheating is usually a sign of something lacking in a relationship. But a lot of women go for bad abusive guys because of their own issues. I.e. they believe they deserve to be treated like crap. They also doom themselves to be cheated by being the "other woman". I mean, if you are with a guy who is having an affair on his wife/girlfriend, what makes you think he's not going to cheat on you after you become the wife/girlfriend and not the other woman?
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Posted 12/21/12
Because "nice guys" get friend-zoned constantly.
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