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Post Reply Why do women get breast implants, what's better- natural or fake?
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Posted 12/28/12

Tophatjames wrote:

More of an ass guy myself.


They have surgery for that too. Also you can buy yourself a set of permanent 'six pack abs' if you want.


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papagolfwhiskey, you're a good soul.

I made an account just to reply to this thread. I saw it on the front page when I logged my sister in, and it's been nagging at me since yesterday.

To answer the OP point by point:
1) I am wondering if females feel more attractive with fake or natural breast.

That's a question that can't be fully answered. It might only be possible if every female-identifying person had the chance to experience both. I cannot answer that personally either, as my opinion does not represent the feelings of every other female. The most important thing to note though is that her happiness is her own experience and only matters to us if we are a relative, friend, or significant other(s) who are happy to know that their friend is confident about themselves.

2) Do woman get fake breast to please men or there self. why do woman get fake breast.

Also a question that can go many ways. It could be refuted instantly if a woman is not interested in men - in that case, the size of her chest is not to be held up to any man's standard, because she would most likely not care for his sexual opinion.

But yes, in some cases, the procedure may be done to attract the attention of a (cis)male. It is undeniable that Western advertising culture sees larger breasts and small bodies as the ideal. But I'd like to argue that since we are given so many daily reminders of that from television, magazines, internet, etc, it's less of an informed decision and more of a demand: "Look like this, or never fit in." So though it may please the woman to get larger breasts, it might not wholly be a choice they felt they could live without. From this thread alone, I can already see the stigma of breast surgeries, and the twisted message of "have big boobs, but be natural" that pervades our lives. I can only argue for myself as a cisgendered woman (identifying as the same gender as my sex), however continuous declarations such as that can really be a key figure in why one may choose to get bigger breasts.

Of course, as there is always someone who falls out of the norm, there are probably women who shun what the media and society tell them and get bigger breasts because it is what they personally want, and no one should mock that decision whatsoever.

3) Can breast ever be too big or too small.

One of the best things about the world is how different we all are! There are tall people and short people and those who are wide and others who are skinny, some who are plump or curvy or both, people with blue eyes or yellow or all types of brown, people with extra toes or extra organs or long faces or short faces or round faces - the world is full of unique people!

Thus in an ideological sense, there's no such thing as too big or too small. You're not ugly if you're different, you're amazing because you are different!

From a stance geared more towards health however, some breasts CAN be too big in the sense that they cause horrible strain on a person's back. That is their own experience however. We are not to judge that their breasts are too big because of a standard; they are only too big because that individual says they are due to their pain or personal feelings.

(This is a weak stance of mine, but a trans* man may also feel that his breasts are too big, and he is justified in saying so as well if it is not what he desires of his body)

4) How come woman who get breast implants go over bord were it do not look natural.

That's a very wide judgement. There's no such thing as overboard with how big a person decides their breasts should be. It is how big THEY want them to be. They did not do it for you. It was their choice, and if you don't like it, don't look. (And don't say they're too big not to look at. If you have working eyelids, you can avoid them)
Plus, many people may not decide they want large breasts. Maybe just a size or two up. They should not have to justify why they wanted to make them bigger to anyone, and at this point, why care about natural? Driving cars is not natural, but it gets you from point A to point B. Again, do not judge someone for doing something that does not hurt anyone.

5) Are woman who are attracted to other woman attracted to natural or fake breast.

Sorry, this is also too big a question to handle without asking all female-identifying people who are interested in other female-identifying people, whether sexually, romantically, or in a platonic form, or any other form I failed to mention. It shouldn't be the end-all question that decides whether you should change your mind, because these are the personal feelings of others.

I am attracted to some females, but there is more to it than breasts. Maybe they can tell good stories, or they invite me to try interesting things, or frankly, they have nice hips. Attraction is generally brought forth by more than just the size of one's chest - it's a multitude of things we don't even know we're thinking of all at once.

This is all I can say for now without thoroughly looking through every other post in this thread, but I'm happy that I gave my two cents at least. I'd like everyone to leave here acknowledging that natural or fake, the only person whose opinion means anything on the subject of breasts is the one who owns them. That's really all there is to it.


I'm selfish enough to happily endorse this thread. Praise is a wonderful thing. And on the internet the only 'beauty' we have is our words. (one reason I don't understand way people choose to be 'ugly' here)

but seriously.

This Post, praise to myself notwithstanding, is one of the most reasoned and articulate posts on this thread.

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I know a few ladies with fake boobs, & they move, jiggle, feel (I'm comfortable with my sexuality & they asked me to touch them) like regular normal breasts, most people wouldn't even know they were fake if they didn't ask. I have natural breasts, wouldn't ever consider having implants. But it's ultimately their choice, but I don't understand all the hate on cosmetic surgery. If it makes them feel better about themselves, great people can do what they want with their own bodies. It's not a question of "you're not a real woman if you..." because if you're born with a vagina, you're a REAL woman.


er...

You have heard of the Trans community I hope? If they pursue things to one of the many ends on their path they actually become the gender they aspire to under the law. Passport, Drivers license (even birth certificate in some jurisdictions) all get changed to reflect the new reality.

It is considered quite cruel in the LGBT(QRST... ?) community to call a TransMan or TransWoman Fake. I hope this was not your intent and that you only spoke out of a lack of knowledge.

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Some of them don't have what they feel is "enough", so they get fake ones. It's like.....men's penis enhancement, but for women.

Of course, it's really up to that person to decide which is better for them. Who am I to say that what makes them feel good isn't good enough for me?

It's a thing for self-esteem, nothing wrong with that. Of course, there are side effects and dangers. Sometimes natural ones are lopsided, not just a little, but a lot, so people get them fixed by means of reduction or implants.

Whatever makes them feel good.

Posted 12/28/12

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magicuser360 wrote:


papagolfwhiskey wrote:


magicuser360 wrote:

Because men are pigs, and society are the pig-keepers.


Do you have anything real to add to the conversation?




Aren't the words real enough?


Shallow, trite, unoriginal, inflammatory, and just as sexist (which is to say wrong and prejudicial) as anything I could say collectively about women. If you have a cause you could at least work at it. Otherwise you're just being a troll.



Me thinks you are taking this post far too seriously. By all means, keep typing away.
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magicuser360 wrote:


papagolfwhiskey wrote:


magicuser360 wrote:


papagolfwhiskey wrote:


magicuser360 wrote:

Because men are pigs, and society are the pig-keepers.


Do you have anything real to add to the conversation?




Aren't the words real enough?


Shallow, trite, unoriginal, inflammatory, and just as sexist (which is to say wrong and prejudicial) as anything I could say collectively about women. If you have a cause you could at least work at it. Otherwise you're just being a troll.



Me thinks you are taking this post far too seriously. By all means, keep typing away.


your status is duly noted. thank you.

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xMonkeyDDragonx wrote:

screw boobs the booty is where its at!!!!!!!!!!!!


agreed I say the same.
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Posted 12/28/12

papagolfwhiskey wrote:


savannahbeme wrote:

I know a few ladies with fake boobs, & they move, jiggle, feel (I'm comfortable with my sexuality & they asked me to touch them) like regular normal breasts, most people wouldn't even know they were fake if they didn't ask. I have natural breasts, wouldn't ever consider having implants. But it's ultimately their choice, but I don't understand all the hate on cosmetic surgery. If it makes them feel better about themselves, great people can do what they want with their own bodies. It's not a question of "you're not a real woman if you..." because if you're born with a vagina, you're a REAL woman.


er...

You have heard of the Trans community I hope? If they pursue things to one of the many ends on their path they actually become the gender they aspire to under the law. Passport, Drivers license (even birth certificate in some jurisdictions) all get changed to reflect the new reality.

It is considered quite cruel in the LGBT(QRST... ?) community to call a TransMan or TransWoman Fake. I hope this was not your intent and that you only spoke out of a lack of knowledge.



Yes, I have, but I wasn't referring to that. I am very well aware, & have friends who are transgendered. I was under the impression that this thread was about women who were born women (like XX chromosome) who get breast implants for aesthetic reasons. I called NO ONE fake. I was saying I am hearing & seeing so much hate on women who have fake breasts, etc. saying that they are not real women unless they keep their natural bodies.

You read my post completely wrong. I think you need to calm down a little bit. I have no lack of knowledge in the matters you speak of, but this wasn't that kind of discussion.
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I tend to like 'em small. Honestly, real will always be the best way. Breasts that are too small? Ha! Not in my preferences.

Let me summarize my preferences of breast size using a grading scale:

A - Highest grade, best size
B - Definitely a good grade, amazing size
C - Passing grade, decent size
D - Below acceptable grade, not a size I prefer

Something like that. Always thought of it that way too.
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Posted 12/28/12
To those who say natural feel better; then you haven't touched many breasts.
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I bet that if you did a survey, you would find that more men are looking at that trunk and not the hood (butt and breast for those who did not get it). Dont mean to be a perv but its true.

Side note,
HOW MANY GUYS HATE THIS.

One girl sees another girl and says '' look at that butt, muffin bottem. She should lose some weight.''



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Posted 12/28/12
Because Pads.
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Posted 12/28/12
obviously fake ones are better, since they're expensive DUH
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Closer to your chest, closer to your heart, and I'm not just saying that because I'm a washboard. Id never get surgery, wouldn't recmend it for anyone, and would never prefur to have been born differently.
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Jdaimond wrote:

I bet that if you did a survey, you would find that more men are looking at that trunk and not the hood (butt and breast for those who did not get it). Dont mean to be a perv but its true.

Side note,
HOW MANY GUYS HATE THIS.

One girl sees another girl and says '' look at that butt, muffin bottem. She should lose some weight.''





Never herd anyone say that amongst my friends...
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