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Do you call your lover daddy?
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Posted 12/29/12
i know, but you need to ask mark first, he is the only controlling my anus
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Posted 12/29/12
No.
Posted 12/29/12
Sugar daddy?? Lol.
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Posted 12/29/12
Does the name Sigmund Freud ring a bell?

I'm in the early stages of a degree in psychology, so don't take my amateur word for it, but if a person likes being called Daddy, then they are at the very least turned on by innocence and immaturity. Also, they probably enjoy dominating their lover physically and/or mentally. Some of the more common causes of this are:
-premature sexual experiences.
-having an overbearing mother.
-being consistently ignored by ones mother.
-being consistently rejected by girls whom are approached with interest during childhood/early puberty.
-being taught, as most boys are (*incorrectly, I might add), that males are supposed to be tough and emotionless and encouraged/enabled to be violent.
-being hit or beaten either by the mother directly or by the father with the mothers support or lack of action towards preventing it.

Alternatively, If a person calls their lover Daddy, it is probable that they:
-have had a premature sexual experience with their father.
-have, as a teen or younger, consciously or unconsciously had fantasies about their father (usually caused by a repression of the first probability).
-and have an unquenchable desire to feel loved by their father who never appeared to care about them (and probably didn't) and their physique was one of the few things that seemed to draw their father's attention to them.

Sadly, usually it is all that and more...the most recent statistics I've heard (which are unreliable at best, though I would guess that the ratio would be larger) are that 1 of every 3 woman that were asked (in a large scale survey) admitted to having a premature sexual experience, and 1 of every 5 men admitted to the same.

My point is not that if you like being called Daddy by your lover or you like to call your lover Daddy then you fit either of my descriptions, there are, of course, a substantial amount of exceptions. What I am saying is that if you do fit part or all of my description, then I would suggest looking into therapy, because unconsciously imagining paternal incest, no matter which role you are playing, while being with your lover, is the opposite of productive if you want to overcome your trauma. But, I also think everyone should go to therapy, because we are all pretty traumatized, parenting is still far from where it should be. For example, if you were spanked, or put into time out, then therapy would be very helpful for you in unexpected ways.

*Interestingly, there is now quite a lot of evidence that boys are actually more negatively effected than girls by emotional abuses like: name calling, neglect, isolation, alienation, parental separation/divorce, parental punishments (physical and mental). One of the possible explanations for this is that boys are more often than not raised by a female (usually the mother, obviously) who often feels less able to relate to a male child (which is just ridiculous and stems from the same prejudice) and as a result the boy is usually less close to his primary caregiver who all children must trust completely in order to grow up with proper mental health.
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Posted 12/29/12
no, that's really weird. especially since i'm a guy, i would never call my girlfriend daddy.
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Posted 12/29/12
I think its weird.
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Posted 12/29/12
So what are we talking bout here giving the spanking that she needed or incest?
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Posted 12/30/12
Ooops just vomited.
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18 / F / HK
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Posted 12/30/12
what. the. fack...
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Posted 12/30/12
Pimp
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Posted 12/30/12
I had a bf that wanted me to call him daddy.. he's not my bf any more! It's so creepy!
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32 / F / united states
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Posted 12/30/12
Eww
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41 / M / Texas
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Posted 12/30/12
i know a lot of british girls that call there husbands boyfriends dad
and dont Korean girls these days call there lovers oppa and that means older brother

i guess inbreading is making a comback or somwething
Posted 12/31/12
no....never...
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Posted 12/31/12 , edited 1/1/13
Well considering I am a straight male, I would feel strange calling my girlfriend Daddy. So No. As to being called daddy It would make me feel incredibly awkward.
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