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Would you fight for the one you love?
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Posted 1/1/13 , edited 1/1/13
What would you do to fight for love? What are somethings you would do to keep your relationship going? How much would you change your self to keep that person in your life? What would you give up for love? Is love worth fighting for?
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Err, love is a difficult thing to recognise. You can be deceived (whether by yourself or your partner) into thinking you are in love, when you only just like someone.

I don't think I'd sacrifice anything large for a relationship unless it was over a year or two old. Or if I've known the person I'm with for a large amount of time, and they've made sacrifices for me as well.

But I guess I'd be willing to do anything that wouldn't guarantee myself physical or long lasting emotional pain.
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I could kill a mofo.
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It takes two to make a relationship work. If only one is doing the work then it is a waste of time.
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I would so fight for love, i'm doing that now and its not easy, if the person is worth it and you care so much for him/her i say it is worth a fight. dont give up and keep trying when it comes to love and the person you care a lot for. If you truly care for someone and love them then i say give it your all and not give up, dont let the small things get in the way of a great relationship, if have a problem with something, talk it out with your other half dont hold it in were it will make you go crazy that you cant handle it no more. Talk things out, find away to make things work, see if there is any way to fix the issue. Give a 2nd and even 3rd chances but dont give up as soon as a small thing comes up and you dont thing can handle it. Try to see if it can be fix before giving up. If you know 100% that the issue can not at all be fix or can never work out thats when you give up but if there is any hope and any way that the issue can be work on, then dont just give up.
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Only if she's important to me.
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If he's important to me. I don't think I would have to fight if he really loved me as I loved him but I guess it depended on the event. If its over something like "My father doesn't want me to go out with you because your short and he doesn't like short people. Help me reason with him" I would put up a decent fight maybe a serious one. If its "If you really loved me you would do this" or "Do this and I'm all yours" then no.
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I do not believe in giving up on your mate or lover during hardships. It's very hard, sometimes for very long periods of time.

Many misunderstandings in the last month have put my own relationship on bad grounds. Every time I have tried to make something better recently I've just made it worse. I care for her more than I can put into words, but as things stand now we rarely talk and she spends most of her friends now. Meanwhile I've been sitting out a severe case of pneumonia for almost a week now. I'm still holding on trying and hoping for everything to get better.

Edit: I fight in many ways for her, at times against my own friends, sometimes against hers for putting her down behind her back recently. If she has needed me I did what I had to do be there for her whether it was walking away from my friends, dropping whatever I was doing or only getting 2 hours of sleep while having to wake up for work. Some in ways I don't talk about, even with her, she isn't even completely aware of everything I do for her and at times continue to do for her even now.
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I've never loved someone (romantically) so I don't exactly know how I would handle tough situations. But, as I am now, I believe that love means protecting someone, no matter what. Keep them safe, be there for them. Emotionally and practically. That is all.
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Truly loving someone means that you are willing to go to absurd lengths to protect them from harm.
You will be willing to give up everything for that person.


This is what being a husband/wife/parent is.
But its not limited to us, it includes all those in a deep committed love as well.
You won't know until you are faced with that hard choice.


There is a risk of course. Your partner may not be as committed as you are.
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kennk5 wrote:

Truly loving someone means that you are willing to go to absurd lengths to protect them from harm.
You will be willing to give up everything for that person.


This is what being a husband/wife/parent is.
But its not limited to us, it includes all those in a deep committed love as well.
You won't know until you are faced with that hard choice.


There is a risk of course. Your partner may not be as committed as you are.


Couldn't of said it better myself
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Fighting for the one you love is easy. Fight for the one you hate to really prove you are a man/woman.
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I'm all for walking away from the one I love and waiting for her to catch up to me when she is ready. I don't want to be tied down to anyone less independent than myself.
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argentlupe wrote:

Fighting for the one you love is easy. Fight for the one you hate to really prove you are a man/woman.

You really should be more clear....
Sounds like EGO wearing the cloak of Duty, or is it for Sport?
I am old enough to have done all of them. Not all for the right reasons.

Fighting for love of family [Wife & children] is at the top of my list. Should be at the top of anyone's list.
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I would If i really loved the person.
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