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A relationship misunderstanding?
Posted 1/7/13

Zestan wrote:


BeyondAnyTherapy wrote:

Sounds like shes not that into you, sorry


For whatever reason I do not understand, but you're right and I've thought that, I was sacrificing 26 hours of rest a week just so she wouldn't be lonely at night for the last 9 months, I leveled all of her characters across every game she has played in the last year, she has anearly completely maxed out character on FFXIV because of me and one other persons efforts, she could leave, watch anime on here or play anything else she wanted while we structured everything for her from her gear to her levels, we had endgame parties waiting on her just when she came home from work. Anytime she was upset I completely dropped everything I was doing to stop and listen to her even if it meant getting 2 hours of sleep for work the next morning. Asking for my final question why does she covet her friends so much when they make her youtube her music or don't listen to it at all when she makes it when I have always made sure I go straight to her site to get her music I've told her time and time again that they also have said things behind her back and she refuses to listen or remember the facts of why she removed them a year ago in the first place THEY LEFT HER.

Including the guy she spends time with now, they went on and left without her on the MMO she played together with them I still have the messages from where she talked about it 9 months ago.

I already let her go, I just don't want to see things happen to her again. I'm aware it's beyond my control though.


Sorry to have to say this but based on that it seems like she has just been using you the entire time for various things. Is this a strictly online relationship or something? There seems to be way too much focus on MMOs and games.
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Posted 1/7/13


Well honestly my friend it sounds like you were more of an indentured servant than a boyfriend. Relationships are a give and take, you need to find a middle ground.
Posted 1/7/13
It has been a online relationship, we had been planning to get together in a few months up until what happened recently.
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Posted 1/7/13

Zestan wrote:

It has been a online relationship, we had been planning to get together in a few months up until what happened recently.


Yeah online relationships are bad news, before i met my now wife i had a golden rule for online dating.

We meet up in a public well lit place within the first week of emotional online attachment, or bye bye.
Posted 1/7/13 , edited 1/7/13
I firmly believe that it is important to meet in person or use a web camera as well.

Edit: we discussed and planned meeting in person soon, She was firmly against using web cameras.
Posted 1/7/13

Zestan wrote:

I firmly believe that it is important to meet in person or use a web camera as well.

Edit: we discussed and planned meeting in person soon, She was firmly against using web cameras.


So did you even audio chat with her at least?
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Posted 1/7/13
Welcome to the 21st century.

No refunds.


All callousness aside:

Shit sucks, son.

You will remember this for a long time, and it doesn't really get better. Unless it gets better, but then again, remembering this will sour your emotions for the next time, preventing it from ever really getting better. There's no fix, no perfect revenge, no amount of forgiveness that will wash everything away.

What's worse is if you try and spend all your time trying to forget, well, you'll forget, but you can't choose when that will happen and you can't choose what else you'll forget.

I can patronize you if you think it'd help.

There there, she's just a big mean bitch who will end up getting used even worse than she used you. Everything will be okay.

Did I help?
Posted 1/7/13 , edited 1/7/13
yes, we talked with over skype we never used it outside of gaming though. We've been together for a year and a month now, and we've known each other for well over a year and a half.
Posted 1/7/13 , edited 1/7/13
Is this all for real? Without ever meeting her...without ever seeing her on cam and without ever even audio chatting with her outside of a game you did all this for her and even spent that much money on her? How old are you? I don't think you were ever really together man. You were just being used the entire time and pretty much made it super easy for her to do it too.
Posted 1/7/13 , edited 1/7/13
23, I don't want to talk about everything I know about her or the methods I used to confirm everything if you're questioning if or not she was being truthful. I know the things she told me was truthful however.

Edit: I was able to confirm that much and more.
Posted 1/7/13 , edited 1/7/13
Er...right. Good luck with all of that and your future...relationships...I think you will need it.

Btw I also happen to have a friend in Nigeria who can help you get your money back and then some. If you want his email let me know.
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Posted 1/7/13
She just doesn't seem interested in you. But I swear there is nothing wrong with that, the right girl will soon come, and you know what? You deserve a lot better.
Posted 1/7/13
pardon me but im bored and i like dramas like this.
Posted 1/7/13

kamiru-dono wrote:

pardon me but im bored and i like dramas like this.


I think you might be a little too late for the drama.
Posted 1/7/13

justanotherguy_2005 wrote:


kamiru-dono wrote:

pardon me but im bored and i like dramas like this.


I think you might be a little too late for the drama.


i'm expecting a development.
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