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What keeps a relationship going?
Posted 1/15/13
in my opinion, its a balance of everything. you love them but they can get on your nerves sometimes, and i think you both have to be around the same level on how far youve gone coz otherwise why would someone have sex and then go back from the start again? and you have to fight eventually, but know how far youre going and know when to stop and how to apologize (the both of you) and sort things out.
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Posted 1/15/13 , edited 1/15/13
I think the biggest thing is understanding. Truly understanding someone for who they are to the depths of their soul. This understanding also builds a strong trust for each other which is another foundation of a good relationship. And most of all, having this understanding of who someone really is, and appreciating and loving them for who they are. Not who you want them to be, or some idea you think you have of who they are.
Posted 1/15/13
Trust. Support. Care. Responsibilty. Respect. Patience. Understanding. Communication. Honesty. Loyalty. LOVE. Sex/physical touch. Damn right about the last one. You can't go on with a partner if you two don't have sex and/or physical contact with each other daily. Yawn the boredom, then the relationship falls apart.
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Posted 1/15/13

Zenairis_Serean wrote:

I will say this much I believe all of these are required to be within a relationship

#1 Trust

#2 Full communication

#3 Empathy and compassion, understanding, caring, and forgiveness as well as all others that fit into the first those two.

#4 Honesty

#5 Attention and afffection

#6 Withstanding and dedication




Also agree, also working with your partner on any problems, talking them out, and working them out.
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Posted 1/16/13
Communication and trust are the #1 thing for any relationship, no matter what kind it is and how far about you are, you need these 2 the most.
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Posted 1/16/13 , edited 1/16/13
porn...

Yes it does, don't lie.
Posted 1/16/13
Sex and conversations after penetration.
Posted 1/16/13
Love.
Faith.
Trust.
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Posted 1/16/13
Communication, patience, trust,being kind to one
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Posted 1/17/13
psychosis and a lot of mind altering drugs???? JK The main things are communication and trust if you do not have either of those then the relationship will most likely fail.
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Posted 1/17/13
The question is really what keeps a relationship going for you. Everyone has their own opinion about what keeps a relationship going. However Communication is definitely key. You have to know what the other wants in order to determine whether or not you can provide that happiness for them.
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Posted 1/17/13
Inner peace. The moment you become dependent on the other for happiness, is the moment you limit the relationship. Most often the relationship will begin to crumble when such limitations are sensed. Most people don't know what to do to remove such limitations because most people are not connected to their own inner peace. Relationships can be the greatest tool to helping oneself become aware of what traumas and stresses one is holding on to which block you from that inner place of endless peace, but like the others have said, it takes a tremendous amount of courage, trust, communication, attention, faith, and effort between yourself and the other, and between you and your own inner self. You can't hide from any past trauma that is limiting you, you have to open to it fully, feel it's pain, and then surrender it. Let tears of sorrow turn to tears of joy. It takes a hell of a lot of courage to go through such things in front of another person, yet it can be the most liberating and empowering experience out there.
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Posted 1/17/13
Heavy chains, she can't leave you if she literally can't leave you.
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Posted 1/25/13
trust,work, and not allowing yourself to become complacent and bored. Good communication skills and a healthy sex drive also help.
Posted 1/25/13
Trust.
Love.
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