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What keeps a relationship going?
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Another post here about communication, and which is why I honestly believe my girlfriend was so insecure she said I was always watching her, which for a while I was, she would go off for hours sometimes 2-6 days without as much as even saying hello. I did not mind her spending time with her friends, however seeing her log on then go for hours and sometimes many days worried me when she wouldn't say anything.

I was concerned because she spent so long with her friends without a word to me about it (days of this happening not one day as I did not have a problem with that,) I believe I had good reason to be concerned and worried she as she collapsed during a few conversations we had in the past from her health as well.

I used to feel the same way, I never came out and talked to her about it because in a way I was happy she would ask, but it also made me feel insecure at the same time, when we used to Skype for MW3 between April and August and even once with a Linkshell mate back in September on FFXIV she would ask me who I was typing to if she heard me typing, then afterwards what I was talking to them about. I couldn't even reply back to my friends if they messaged me while I was on Skype with her without having to come out with a full explanation. I heard her typing many times on Skype as well but I did not ask her once I believe it's wrong to pry into other peoples conversations so I never did that, I only watched what she was doing and who she was with if she did not let me know anything.

Communication is immeasurably important it caused both of us significant problems and dealt most of the damage that took place in our relationship when we were together. I cannot stress how important it is to let your significant other know if you are alright and at least let them know your plans so they don't have to sit and wonder what's going on for long periods of time, it will eventually lead to mistrust (in most relationships, unless the other person just plain doesn't care, and that's a bad thing) and mistrust leads to many many other problems.
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Guys: The sex

Girls: The orgasms
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Money
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Adam&Eve...

Lol, to anyone who's seen that commercial.
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trust, truth, and physical love, attention, and a bit of spoiling your loved one >.<, what I have learned through my experiences, is that always be truthful with each other, never cheat on anyone, and trust your intimate one, and if the relationship is failing and someone loses love and interest for her/his intimate one, say it, and either try to fix it, or part each other's way, in good terms, do not ruin what could end up as a good friendship...
once someone has been betrayed in a relationship, that relationship is doomed to fail, so, the only advice is truth, trust and love make good things for a relationship ^w^ oh and communication lol
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It is all about communication.
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A collection of facets all too many people don't practice.
Posted 2/1/13
Do whatever she says no if, ands, or buts. When a man faces the fact that if she says somethings right its right no arguing cuz U CANT WIN!!!
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Lots and lots of mutual lying.
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Money keeps a relationship going, as long as you continuously shower her with expensive gifts, things will go smoothly! It's the only thing you can count on.
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Openness, respect, honesty, and alot of spontaneous thinking outside the box. Remembering all of the good times when the bad times inevitably come.Unconditional,unexpalainable,wild,crazy love is what keeps a relationship going.
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^ Ha ha ha ha!
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-Vega- wrote:

^ Ha ha ha ha!


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Communication is key yes but if you are not honest when speaking and they find out later. In the end how do you think they will be able to trust you on anything else you said. Honestly you have to truely care for the person in order for any relationship to work out. but I am just speculating and can not say from not having much experiance.
Posted 2/1/13
~ o,..,o ~ Love, but there must also be commitment to devote time to the relationship. Both have to do their part for it to thrive. One cannot do it all. If one fails, everything falls apart. Trust and communication is also important. I have trust issues and it has gotten me in trouble many times.
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