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ever wondered how other people see you?
Posted 1/23/08
yeuh i wonder that sometimes too, i can help but wonder...
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Posted 1/23/08
People seem to think i am really strong and tough... but as lame as a comparison this may be... sometimes i feel like Amu-chan from Shugo Chara. I don't wanna be tough and everyones leader. ::le sigh:: Not to complain, i wouldn't wanna complain... the way people trust me is a huge honor... but still.

~LOVE THE NEKO~
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27 / F / Sunny San Diego,...
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Posted 1/23/08
yes, i would like to know and yet..i dont..
im afraid ill c something that i shouldnt c...disturbing things..
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22 / F / Philippines
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Posted 1/23/08
nope. its not my problem if they see me bad / good!
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Posted 1/23/08
well you can say most of my friends look (cuz most of them r shorter ) but i could really care less cuz im nice and smart so the only reason to think bad of me it cuz u jealous
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Posted 1/23/08
Have you ever wondered how other people might see you from their perspective?

thats a good question.. how do u see me?
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Posted 1/23/08
Have you ever wondered how other people might see you from their perspective?

thats a good question.. how do u see me?
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29 / F / Chicago
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Posted 1/23/08
well, truthfully as human beings we think. that's what separates us from animals, we can look in the mirror and think about the future and ourself as a person. we are aware of more than the here and now. and despite what everyone says, we want to be liked by others. we want people to think good things about us.
i'm not saying we should worry about other people thought that it affects the very aspect of ourselves, but sometimes seeing ourselves through others is a good thing.
we all have flaws and studying yourself encourages self-improvement, which is always good.
i'm sorry, that may have been a little to long and philosophical
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29 / M / US
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Posted 1/23/08
Personally, no, I don't really do that. But perhaps your brain is different than mine, such that you are more prone to actively look at yourself though others.

Your notion is pretty vague at this point. I suggest you read this article.
Thesis of article: I suggest that self awareness is simply using mirror neurons for "looking at myself as if someone else is look at me".
http://www.edge.org/3rd_culture/ramachandran07/ramachandran07_index.html
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23 / M / Alone in a cave
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Posted 1/23/08
just be urself and be happy that ur alive for today. smile like tomorrow is the end o-o
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26 / F / Corner of No and...
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Posted 1/23/08
No...I really couldn't care less
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27 / F / Yourface
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Posted 1/23/08
I think the same exact thing, its not that i care what there opinions of me.
But i kinda wonder how other peoples minds work, do they pay attention, are they just looking through you?
Kinda weird. but pretty much.
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22 / M / Massachusetts
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Posted 1/23/08
I only care of what I think of myself! Other people and teachers just become seriously annoying when they do So why bother listening to anybody?!
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22 / F
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Posted 1/23/08
Sometimes. It depends on the situation.

Like, after I play a solo on my viola in front of my orchestra class I try to see myself from the other students perspective, same with after I preform my figure skating program, but if I'm just standing in the lunch line and someone happens to glance over at me for a bit, I really couldn't care less about what they think of me.
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Posted 1/23/08
I've thought about it, but thats about it. No point in worrying about what ya cant change...
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