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What are some of the worst things a person has done to you?
Posted 1/17/13
People using me.
Happens a lot.
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Some of the things that I remember most were things my dad did when I was small. He electrocuted me twice by making me be his guinea pig for testing out how well he fixed some things. He tried to throw me in a dumpster but I managed to cling to the edges of it. He locked me in a refrigerator for a short time. He would constantly call me gay and have his employees make fun of me as well. He forced me to work with him starting around the age of 6 even staying out till 3am but would then constantly tell me I was never doing a good job or doing it properly. When I was injured while working with him (chunk of skin and muscle ripped out of the front of my leg) I was told to put a wet paper towel on it and get back to work. So I put the pieces hanging down back in wrapped it up and went back to work. Ended up losing the feeling in that spot and had to use rubbing alcohol every day to keep it cleaned. Had blood coming out of my ear one day but he didn't want to do anything about it because we were working yet again. One of his nicer employees ended up offering to take me to the hospital. Those are the incidents that come to mind right away and since this post is already getting long I will just leave it at that. =P
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Getting shot in the hip with a .22 hollowpoint.

Well, getting shot wasn't nearly as bad as recovering from it.
Posted 1/17/13

justanotherguy_2005 wrote:

Some of the things that I remember most were things my dad did when I was small. He electrocuted me twice by making me be his guinea pig for testing out how well he fixed some things. He tried to throw me in a dumpster but I managed to cling to the edges of it. He locked me in a refrigerator for a short time. He would constantly call me gay and have his employees make fun of me as well. He forced me to work with him starting around the age of 6 even staying out till 3am but would then constantly tell me I was never doing a good job or doing it properly. When I was injured while working with him (chunk of skin and muscle ripped out of the front of my leg) I was told to put a wet paper towel on it and get back to work. So I put the pieces hanging down back in wrapped it up and went back to work. Ended up losing the feeling in that spot and had to use rubbing alcohol every day to keep it cleaned. Had blood coming out of my ear one day but he didn't want to do anything about it because we were working yet again. One of his nicer employees ended up offering to take me to the hospital. Those are the incidents that come to mind right away and since this post is already getting long I will just leave it at that. =P


Please tell me this is a joke?

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Posted 1/17/13

chase6565 wrote:


justanotherguy_2005 wrote:

Some of the things that I remember most were things my dad did when I was small. He electrocuted me twice by making me be his guinea pig for testing out how well he fixed some things. He tried to throw me in a dumpster but I managed to cling to the edges of it. He locked me in a refrigerator for a short time. He would constantly call me gay and have his employees make fun of me as well. He forced me to work with him starting around the age of 6 even staying out till 3am but would then constantly tell me I was never doing a good job or doing it properly. When I was injured while working with him (chunk of skin and muscle ripped out of the front of my leg) I was told to put a wet paper towel on it and get back to work. So I put the pieces hanging down back in wrapped it up and went back to work. Ended up losing the feeling in that spot and had to use rubbing alcohol every day to keep it cleaned. Had blood coming out of my ear one day but he didn't want to do anything about it because we were working yet again. One of his nicer employees ended up offering to take me to the hospital. Those are the incidents that come to mind right away and since this post is already getting long I will just leave it at that. =P


Please tell me this is a joke?



No but it is in the past and doesn't matter much anymore.
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Posted 1/17/13 , edited 1/17/13
Ditch the dad, man.


I mean it, no one who treats you like that should have any sort of presence, involvement, or influence in your life.
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Winterfells wrote:

Ditch the dad, man.

I mean it, no one who treats you like that should have any sort of presence, involvement, or influence in your life.


That was my plan for the longest time. When I was old enough I planned to move out and never let anyone in my family know where I was. I would get rid of all of them. None of them ever helped the situation and sometimes made it worse and so I was going to just cut them out of my life. But with the inability to pay for my own place and lacking social skills among trust and friends to have a roommate along with health issues my plan had to change. So I began to realize that things were fine. The older I got the more I realized I had nothing to fear from any of them. I could fight back and now that they couldn't do those things I would make them useful to me. I am still a bit stuck financially and unable to leave but there are plans getting worked out to hopefully remedy that within a year.
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Posted 1/17/13
I hope you get out on your own soon. Try to learn to trust people, most a genuinely good.
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karmacide wrote:

I hope you get out on your own soon. Try to learn to trust people, most a genuinely good.


Yea I hope so too. I do try to trust people but I haven't exactly had many experiences to help with that so it will probably be a long long time before I am capable of it.
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Don't give up, a life alone is miserable and pointless.
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jclaydon wrote:

........*snip* *snip*.......

The second was the first time I ever got up the courage to ask a woman out. She told me *edited for language"

"What makes you think I'd go out with a fat, ugly slob like you? I'd rather have intercourse with my dog. Get lost you freakin' loser"


people can be awfully cruel sometimes.. *sigh*


It's all good man, happens to me all the time. Eventually you just learn to shrug it off, smile and say "woof, woof baby".
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Posted 1/17/13
The only thing that comes to mind, well to the front of my mind, is when I was five years old. My step-father at that time, tried to kill me one evening when he was drunk. We, my brother and I, were playing hide and seek in the dark, I tripped and knocked his boots in the fire. Next thing I knew my mother was screaming at me to run, she tried to stop him, I bolted out the back door and headed for the cotton fields.
I tripped on a dirt clod and heard a blast and whizzing sound fly overhead as I fell. I crawled into the fields and stayed there for 3 days. Our neighbors found me and hid me for 2 more days until the sherrif arrested my step-father and told me I was safe.

If it wasn't for that dirt clod tripping me I would have been dead. Even drunk, he was a crackshot. A few years ago he was released from jail, my mother remarried a few times since then, I ran into him. When he asked for forgiveness, I laughed and walked away. I wanted to beat the shit out of him, I still have nightmares to this day when I hear gunshots.
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Posted 1/18/13

lorddisick wrote:

People using me.
Happens a lot.


I'm sorry to hear that it happens to me as well usually from someone I placed to much trust in.

The absolute worst I've experienced outside of having a abusive parent was my former girlfriend cheating on me. After numerous talks about commitment and our relationship some of which were here as well (below.) If it wasn't for a confession and things brought to my attention by the other person she was with I still would not have known, she did drop many hints that was, except I trusted her reasons for them which I found out later were cover ups. When she left she took the only thing I asked for which was her FFXIV account which was one of many I built and helped pay for out of the $1200 I spent on her.

Many people said for a long time and still say I was a tool and that she was using me to build things for her, she proved that true. What happened was my fault for not listening.


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You both have be mutually accepting of each other's faults, willing to be there for your other no matter what the circumstance unless they cheated on you. Forgiveness and commitment.

I don't think it's the sweetest poison, it's just what you feel is right guided by what you know is wrong.

Unfortunately 90% will not understand the above, what a sad reality we have come to as society today.



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People are so insecure these days.

I trust mine 100%, he trusts me 100%. We never had any problems with "random" guys/girls. We have a great relationship.
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I have been picked on constantly in my childhood, but that is also the time I found anime, and was able to get through hard times by watching so much anime XD

Now that I have grown up, the only problems I am facing is I get extremely lonely.. I have no family who cares for me. I have no love surrounding me, and my "friends" say they care about me, but when I am hurt, They just laugh.. except for ONE of my dear dear friends.. With out him, I think I would have been past- depression. Anime helps though yo! xD
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well thats really hard..
With 12 I was bullied. They beat me to the ground and spit on me. They wished me the death.
Since that time I have depression.
This was the baddest time in my whole life. I tried to kill myself and and and..

My mother found it out last year and now i go to a psychologist.
I can't trust people. It's very hard to trust someone.

Then in summer I had a girlfriend. I trusted her so much. But she wished me the death when i broke up with her.
That hurt!

And now..well..I try to live with that :)
I smile it away! Like I always do.
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