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How to get over the person you love, and how to find some one new?
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I had something similar happen to me. There is no magic answer for how to get over someone. Everybody I knew wanted to make me feel better, but it ended up making it worse. During the mourning period, I also wanted to look for another person just because I could not stand the fact I wasted so much time for nothing. I just wanted something for myself. I am glad that I did not rush into anything because what I was looking for contradicted what I really wanted in life.
You probably will not follow this advice, but a little soul-searching may be what you really need. If your intentions are to be with another person because she gives you something, go ahead. If it just a way to feel better after being hurt, stay below the radar until you are ready.
Posted 1/19/13

darkangel09rose wrote:

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I see. You do need more alone time and relax. Do something that you've never done before. Go on sports or maybe learn how to play a musical instrument. Go on hiking or maybe jog along a park. Take your time. Don't get in a hurry. Distract yourself until you're in the moment where you're ready to date girls. Don't push yourself too much. It will pass.

When you're ready, that's when you should go on dates. You don't want the next girlfriend to become rebound, do you?
Posted 1/19/13
Eh.
When you find the new person you get over the last person.
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Posted 1/19/13

Hintkin wrote:


darkangel09rose wrote:

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I see. You do need more alone time and relax. Do something that you've never done before. Go on sports or maybe learn how to play a musical instrument. Go on hiking or maybe jog along a park. Take your time. Don't get in a hurry. Distract yourself until you're in the moment where you're ready to date girls. Don't push yourself too much. It will pass.

When you're ready, that's when you should go on dates. You don't want the next girlfriend to become rebound, do you?


I think you right the girls who wanted to date me I pushed them away and found some thing wrong with them maybe am not ready maybe i can soul serch
Posted 1/19/13 , edited 1/19/13

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That's right. Search your inner self first. Don't rush. It's the best option you can do to yourself right now. Take a break.
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Time will heal all wounds.
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Thank you for sharing with us such a beautiful experience. I guess you could say that I too, like many others, am trying hard to move on. It's been 3 years for me, though it kinda felt way longer than that. Through your sharing I've come to realize that maybe I've been wanting to move on, but have not been on the right path all along. Probably why I keep coming back to square one to find myself falling for her over and over again. I'm not much of a spiritual person, but I believe your words; you can only love another to the extent of loving yourself, and life gives you exactly what you deserve.

I believe that letting things go is the first step, and the hardest. Before, I've thought that maybe by finding someone new, I'd be able to forget the old. But now that the bigger picture is clearer to me, it's obvious to me that I'm nowhere near ready for a relationship.

Again, thank you for your sharing and I'm happy to hear that you've found your right one. I wish the both of you well, now and in the future =)
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well to be honest when I was younger like 18 I was with this girl who I was crazy over and she turned around and crushed my heart. Time heals everything, you must first put it in your heart that you want to leave her. You will always have feeling for her, like I do with my ex but you will be happy that you moved on. Find a new gf, you probably find one on this site since most of these girls are really easy to get(say what you like, but most anime forums I been on always had easy girls).
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Time. That's all it takes is time. Eventually you'll wonder why you agonized so much over one man or woman... That's just life holmes... I have had my heart broken many a time and now I can barely remember their names let alone why I was so infatuated with someone who wasn't worth it... Also, if you aren't comfortable being alone how can you possibly make someone else happy... Words of wisdom from an old dude on CR... take it as you wish...
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Posted 1/20/13

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Time will heal all wounds.


Vary true and old wounds can bleed when riped back open, just need a needle and thread. for each his own. time cured me of my first love and yet I still care but don't give her much thought other than good friends.
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The trouble I have is how to fully get over the girl I love, and find a new girl. Its hard I love the one I hate who hurts me every chance she gets. I keep remembering when she was kind and affectionate. She is a bold girl and for awail everything was wonderful. We had a kid, but every time her ex came back she treated me like crap plus now ended up with him.. Well thats over now I need someone new, someone I could fall for in time. Am not too picky but I got to think there at least cute. I don't want to waste it all one one night stands nor wait over a year. Where can a guy meet a good girl who will cuddle, hug, kiss and hold hands, where she don't give it up to fast nor too slow. Where can a normal guy meet a good girl not just like his ex or his first love but someone who will date at least a year or want to marry a year or more down the road. Am not to shallow even if every girl I dated was a 7 to 10 in looks. Now 27 out of school its hard and i passed on like 6 to 8 girls these last years who like my ex wanted me for just sex. or wanted money Guys and girls please answer and help. Where to find a girl a 6 and above who is not money hungry. For I dont have allot of money.


At least girls want to have sex with you. There are guys out there who are not as fortunate as you are.
Posted 1/20/13
TIME TO GO TO APPLE BEES AND PICK UP SOME BITCHES!!!!!!
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darkangel09rose wrote:

The trouble I have is how to fully get over the girl I love, and find a new girl. Its hard I love the one I hate who hurts me every chance she gets. I keep remembering when she was kind and affectionate. She is a bold girl and for awail everything was wonderful. We had a kid, but every time her ex came back she treated me like crap plus now ended up with him.. Well thats over now I need someone new, someone I could fall for in time. Am not too picky but I got to think there at least cute. I don't want to waste it all one one night stands nor wait over a year. Where can a guy meet a good girl who will cuddle, hug, kiss and hold hands, where she don't give it up to fast nor too slow. Where can a normal guy meet a good girl not just like his ex or his first love but someone who will date at least a year or want to marry a year or more down the road. Am not to shallow even if every girl I dated was a 7 to 10 in looks. Now 27 out of school its hard and i passed on like 6 to 8 girls these last years who like my ex wanted me for just sex. or wanted money Guys and girls please answer and help. Where to find a girl a 6 and above who is not money hungry. For I dont have allot of money.


At least girls want to have sex with you. There are guys out there who are not as fortunate as you are.


Thats mostly after they had sex with me ot know the girl I had sex with not all of them were the best looking some were hot but mean my days kissing two girls at the same time a 3 way are over some times I want them back thats when I had confidence before my ex took it away. you can have the same no matter what you look like with confidence to get the girl make sure she has friends and do well in the bed room
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well darkangel09rose my answer is pretty much like everyone else's answer but what the heck Im gonna talk anyways :), Its hard very hard to get over someone who has shared tons of memory's with you, everyone wants it to work out because that person was your life for so long and changing that is hard, the only way to do it is take time for your self and don't give in, and if you want to meet new people, theirs all way places like meetup.com where you can find a group of people to meet up with similar interests
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