The trouble I have is how to fully get over the girl I love, and find a new girl. Its hard I love the one I hate who hurts me every chance she gets. I keep remembering when she was kind and affectionate. She is a bold girl and for awail everything was wonderful. We had a kid, but every time her ex came back she treated me like crap plus now ended up with him.. Well thats over now I need someone new, someone I could fall for in time. Am not too picky but I got to think there at least cute. I don't want to waste it all one one night stands nor wait over a year. Where can a guy meet a good girl who will cuddle, hug, kiss and hold hands, where she don't give it up to fast nor too slow. Where can a normal guy meet a good girl not just like his ex or his first love but someone who will date at least a year or want to marry a year or more down the road. Am not to shallow even if every girl I dated was a 7 to 10 in looks. Now 27 out of school its hard and i passed on like 6 to 8 girls these last years who like my ex wanted me for just sex. or wanted money Guys and girls please answer and help. Where to find a girl a 6 and above who is not money hungry. For I dont have allot of money

I think you right the girls who wanted to date me I pushed them away and found some thing wrong with them maybe am not ready maybe i can soul serch

Personally, I had to get over the desire for a relationship before the right one came to me. I dedicated to my own self growth and healing from the traumas I'd been through. I never felt like counseling would help me so I just studied on my own for 5 years and stayed away from women for that time. I gradually got more and more into spirituality and met those who are considered the highest masters on the planet that are teaching at this time. They're literally magical, beyond jedi masters. I had no idea such beings could exist. I had no idea that I could have such magical experiences that seemed like they could have come out of a fiction book.

By following their teachings and just by being exposed to them I gradually began to heal and become someone who loves myself and my life. For awhile I thought I would dedicate myself to being a monk and give up on a relationship but that was just past trauma still making me want to run away from a relationship. When I was ready, divine mother brought the perfect girl for me.

I believed in love at first sight, but nothing has ever come close to preparing me for the experiences I had when I met this girl. All the teachings I'd received suddenly made since and I felt like I had met my own personal divine mother. The way I experienced the world in ever way shifted. I mean, I perceive things completely differently now. Time almost has ceased to exist. I can't explain it.. I just know that I thought I knew what love was, but found out that it's potential was infinitely beyond what I'd ever imagined. She is not separate from my self.. She is beyond a soul mate, I've met those.. and close soul friends. She is me and I am her. Every thing she is is the perfect thing to help me heal from my past. When I hold her in my arms, everything ceases to be and I experience perfect contentment. The second I saw her we were astrally wedded and had no question that we would never seek for a partner again. I knew her better than anyone else without having to spend more than a second with her as it was like we shared the same soul. Perfect trust allowed the deepest communion..

Of course, we've had to work on ourselves to get back to the initial experience we had together. It was a show to us of what could be and we still have our own spiritual growth needed for ourselves to maintain such high states of awareness and love, but we're here to help each other achieve it and we have no doubts that we will succeed.

Relationships come to you to help you deal with something that's not resolved in your life and is holding you back. The more things you can let go of and the more you can love yourself, the better your chances of finding a soul mate or better. You can only love another to the extent that you love yourself just as you can only trust another to the extent that you trust and believe in yourself. In my experience, life gives you exactly what you deserve along with the experiences that help you transcend your past. Life gives you lessons, and if you don't learn them, the same lesson will come back stronger and stronger until your on your knees begging for release. Best to own up and admit to whatever pain or stress you carry so that you can let it go. If you start to do that, you'll be ready for a relationship that can help you take the process to the next level.

I went from a girl who attempted to commit suicide several times, where I was in the deepest levels of self loathing and pain for not being able to have the strength to help her and stay with her, to one that defies all description and goes beyond anything I'd ever dreamed that I could deserve in 5 years. It can be done in less, as this isn't an uncommon story. This is a world wide phenomena where many are finding soul mates more than ever before and in increasing numbers. It's getting easier and easier to heal with the more people that hop on board. The divine love is spreading fast.